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Topic: I cant have a relationship without any pluto or neptune synastry, anyone else?
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NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 1353 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 19, 2015 11:57 AM
I have noticed a pattern within my relationships, there's usually some Pluto there, and dreamy Neptune to add to it.I think im blaming my Scorpio Eros and psyche, my mars in cancer trine Pluto. I've got Neptune ruling my 5th. I cant imagine having a relationship with hardly any Pluto or Neptune involved. The two planets are so addictive. IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 178 From: san diego, ca, USA Registered: Oct 2015
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posted November 19, 2015 12:27 PM
Oh yeah, i'm right there with you....Addicted to the intensity.... I would feel like a relationship without the intensity that draws out my shadowy side would be just... boring and lackluster IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 2957 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 21, 2015 01:59 AM
In a lot of my friendship and love relationships there mercury Venus squaring Neptune and Uranus so I'm unfortunate with thatBut I did also notice in composites with people I have been very fond of there was Pluto conjunctions and squaring main planets Also in a relationship I really enjoyed. Mars squares his sun and my sun squared his Venus
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EmGem Knowflake Posts: 917 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted November 21, 2015 03:37 AM
agreed! I spent 10 years in a non plutonian relationship and it almost killed me now that i'm finally feeling like my true plutonian and neptunian tinged self I can't ever go back to that. Give me dreamy romantic soul crashing intensity any day! Which means I am also risking more in exposing my raw vulnerability... heck you only live once. do love properly and all the way if it has to be done at all I say IP: Logged |
Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 373 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted November 21, 2015 03:47 AM
I was just recently in a Plutonian/Neptunian relationship with a Moon conjunct Pluto in Scorpio woman. This woman did not like intensity at all. She was not in tune at all with her plutonian side . She has Venus conjunct Neptune in Capricorn and she was obviously more in tune with her Neptune side. Everytime i "argued" with her just to spice things up, she would run into our room and hide. Granted i only "argued" with her a couple of times, afterwards, i left her alone. And she would not talk to me for days. Way too soft for me. I didn't even yell at her! We would just debate about something, i raise my voice and she would just curl up and hide! She also has Mars in Cancer. Neptune square the ASC. I need a Woman with intensity, who likes to argue just for the sake of arguing to keep things interesting! My venus in Aries attests to that. I prefer Pluto synastry instead of Neptune. I can be romantic when i want to be though. (Libra ASC) IP: Logged |
Sikanda Knowflake Posts: 110 From: 28080 Registered: Aug 2015
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posted November 21, 2015 04:50 PM
Of course a bit of intensity is fine , but I'd also like relaxed, optimistic and trust-based relationship. I prefer it to be balanced.
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 59325 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 21, 2015 09:47 PM
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology. IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 3343 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted November 21, 2015 11:29 PM
my 7th house ruler - Mercury - conjuncts Pluto, and trines tightly Saturn and Neptune. The partners I am attracted to are always Plutonic with a fair amount of Saturn and Neptune in their natals. Because I have Uranus in my 7th house, they always have an air planet somewhere there. so, look at your 7th house ruler...it will describe the people you are most attracted to. Not really the sign it is in, but the aspect and location of the ruler. IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 917 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted November 22, 2015 05:17 AM
Makes sense Orange. My 7th ruler is Venus. I have it conjunct my MC and Cupid. Parallel my sun/Jupiter/mercury. I tend to attract a LOT of artists/DJs/musicians. IP: Logged |