posted December 20, 2022 02:49 PM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
I can relate to all you say here. And possibly even why.. a diplomatic response: "life in general", lol.

Not sure if you're in a relationship with her or not but if not (co-workers), the synastry applies only, strictly speaking. If that helps.

It's possible that I have made a mistake with the houses (maybe it is the signs?).. I hope I can resist the urge to go digging around to locate the framework and line of reasoning.. it's a bit hard to do.

Perhaps though, if I do remember, it relates to that planets exert electromagnetic energy (harmonics). So, the positions in between, where we meet, is a variation on that. But, points in space do not carry electromagnetic energy. And why the houses are not relevant.

Sorry if I am stating the obvious.

One of the saddest lines I've read for while: "but despite the excitement, energy, and hope I felt, I'm now convinced that she has no interest in me."

Again relatable. Foiled again? What's your Neptune like?

Yes, I come here when I need a break from RL.. It's kind of a dream-space. Astrology isn't a thing in RL, and RL can be so very dry, so I come here.

Private messaging... not sure of a way around that.

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My co-worker is only that. She and I have no relationship outside of the office. She was open with sharing her birth info, knowing that I'm into astrology.

You mention "synastry applies only" being that we're merely co-workers. I guess that raises the question of at what point composites are considered effective. Are they generally reserved only for close personal relationships?

I was on-and-off dating a Sagittarius for 8 months until this past August. Neither of us were emotionally invested and it failed in large part because of that. It seemed to me that although the relationship was understood to be fleeting from the beginning, that our composite chart played out surprisingly accurately (granted my limited experience in studying composites). I guess what confuses me is how mundane (i.e., workplace, casual dating) a relationship must be for the composite to be considered insignificant.

What makes you ask about my Neptune? It's not doing much for me natally. I have it at 25 Sagittarius, which makes a 4-degree sextile to my 21 Libra Moon. Sextiles can be so subtle (especially Moon/Neptune) that 4 degrees might be too wide to be very noteworthy. Maybe you have some thoughts about this? My Neptune also makes "generational" sextiles to my 27 Libra Pluto and 28 Libra Saturn, definitely not noteworthy.

posted December 20, 2022 05:37 PM            

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Originally posted by vansio:

Moon has no enemies. Saturn, on the other hand, sees Moon as one—challenging. Perhaps this means, between them interacting, the discomfort is one-sided. Or problems arise from Saturn’s end.

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Hang on.. Mars and Saturn neutral?

What is this grid proposing? Is this Vedic?

posted December 20, 2022 05:46 PM            

I mentioned Neptune because you described how you got your hopes up and it crashed. Sad when that happens, btw. Nothing in the 12H then?