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somethingexcellent
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posted August 23, 2013 12:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've noticed in friend synastry, Jupiter and Venus are continuously key features in the chart. Suns seem to make an appearance quite often as well, while every other planet is hit and miss. Here are mine...

Libra Friend
-My Sun/NN/IC tightly conjunct her Venus/Jupiter/NN

Sagittarius Friend
-My AC conjunct her Mars exact, Venuses conjunct
-stellium of: my Jupiter/Pluto and her Moon/Jupiter/Pluto/Mercury

Cancer Friend
-Moons square, her AC conjunct my Sun exact
-her Venus conjunct my Mars, her Jupiter conjunct my Venus

Pisces Friend #1
-Sun/Venus trine double whammy, Mercuries also trine
-Marses opposite, her Jupiter conjunct my NN (exact) and Sun

Pisces Friend #2
-Suns trine, her Jupiter conjunct my NN (exact) and Sun
-My Jupiter square her Moon/Mercury

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anonymidarkness
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posted August 23, 2013 12:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm Pisces #1 was born around my birth date.

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somethingexcellent
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posted August 23, 2013 12:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
She darn doodley was. Like 4 days after, actually.

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anonymidarkness
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posted August 23, 2013 01:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That means she is a Leo Moon? another Pisces Sun with Leo Moon they love you don’t they?

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somethingexcellent
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posted August 23, 2013 01:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Loooool she's different though!!!! She actually has social skills.

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its_aqua
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posted August 23, 2013 03:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for its_aqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here are the synastries with my two closest friends who know all my secrets and I know theirs:
I think Moons play an important role in synastry in general,and when regarding friends.

note: Im the outer circle in both synastries!
The first one, we've been friends for like 9 years but became besties around 5 years ago:
- For those who bass hard aspects just notice the exact Square between my Aries moon and her Libra Moon, and still she is the one who can understand me and support me when I dont feel good
-Also each Moon falls into the other's 5th house
Any other observations??

Here is the second synastry, I know this friend for 5 years now. It was crazy meeting her and she influenced a lot my perspective about things and definitely made my life wilder. It was crazy cause she confessed to me that big secret of hers when she barely knew me and since them we became besties
-Again here our Moons are almost conjunct

I would love your insights cause Im not a synastry expert of course

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posted August 23, 2013 03:47 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
aqua: for the first chart your ascendent is opposite to her sun and early in her life her ascendent would have progressed to be opposite to your sun. i read that people are romantically interested in people whos sun sign is conjunct or opposite the persons ASC

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posted August 23, 2013 03:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for its_aqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by soren:
aqua: for the first chart your ascendent is opposite to her sun and early in her life her ascendent would have progressed to be opposite to your sun. i read that people are romantically interested in people whos sun sign is conjunct or opposite the persons ASC

Sounds a good relationship indicator, but we're both girls and straight so the romantic part of it doesnt really apply here
Oh and I am the outer circle!

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posted August 23, 2013 04:13 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OK

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its_aqua
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posted August 23, 2013 04:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for its_aqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by soren:
Yeah I assumed you were the outer circle for some reason. That's why i said her ascendent would shift early on into Cancer to opposite your sun. Oh dang, I thought your sun was in Capricorn but its in Aquarius. Nevermind then. Hence your name I guess I should have known that. Anyway I think the interest still applies. Just not romantically. Like you said.

Haha its okay, Im Capricorn dominant after all so your assumption isnt far from the truth!
What strikes me is how we fear the so-called bad aspects when it comes to romantic relationships, but if we check a bit our synastries with our friends, they're filled with tough aspects but we dont mind!

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posted August 23, 2013 04:18 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
the people that hurt us the most are often the ones closest to us

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soren
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posted August 23, 2013 04:43 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
heres mine and one of my life long best friends chart.

lots of squares and trines. we are always interested in being around and interacting with eachother, but we are rarely interested in what the other has to say. like we are just going along with convos for the heck of it because thats what your supposed to do. does this show in the chart?

also whattype of chart does my friend have? a bucket? or a splay? bowl?

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posted August 23, 2013 04:45 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oh aqua the friend from your second chart must be a couple weeks older than me. thats cool

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Selene
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posted August 23, 2013 05:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My best friend -

me - her


Moon conjunct Jupiter 3
Mercury conjunct Sun 3
Mercury conjunct Venus 2
Venus conjunct Sun 1
Venus trine Mars 0
Mars trine Venus 3
Jupiter sextile Venus 0
Neptune conjunct DSC 0

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posted August 23, 2013 05:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
my best girl friend and i

IC/MC axis conjunct
Her chart ruler only makes positive aspects in synastry
(Mercury trine Jupiter)

My chart ruler only makes positive aspect in synastry besides a conjunction
(Pluto sextile her sun)

We also have
her Sun & Neptune trine my Moon
her Moon trine my Mars
Sun inconjunct Sun

I just realized her venus is unaspected by any of my personal planets. This might make more sense why she's lied and hidden relationships from me. (i don't always agree with her values and this literally shows it, huh?)
There is a loose conjunction to my Saturn and Uranus though- hm.

Edit. Nvm. I guess Venus opp Venus doesn't show on wheel (5 deg)

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its_aqua
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posted August 23, 2013 05:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for its_aqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by soren:
oh aqua the friend from your second chart must be a couple weeks older than me. thats cool

Thats cool! She was born on December of 1993!

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Faith
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posted August 23, 2013 07:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
She's a Pisces, I'm a Cap.

She's an Aqua moon, Pisces Mercury.
I'm a Pisces Moon, Aqua Mercury.

Nothing big with Venus and Jupiter, though.

By sign, our Venuses are trine and my Jupiter is conjunct her Venus if you allow a ten degree orb...

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LiesLilithsaidtouranus
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posted August 23, 2013 08:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LiesLilithsaidtouranus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A really good friend of mine, probably has more aspects with me than I ever had with anyone else.

We have a couple of Double Whammies.
~We both have each others sun in the 12th house. Her ASC is Aquarius and mine is Taurus. She is a Taurus sun and I am an Aquarius.
~ We both have Nessus conjunct each other's pluto. O.o lol

NN, SN aspects are as followed
~ Her mars is conjunct my SN!
~My chiron, vertex is trine her venus

0ther aspects
~Mercury trine Mercury
~Mars sextile Mars
~Her sun conjucnt my Eros
~My moon conjunct her Venus/Dejanira
~ Her eros conjunct my lilith
~her moon is opposite my pluto
~ her Jupiter conjunct my mercury

Oh and we have a grand air trine.

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Ami Anne
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posted August 23, 2013 08:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I need Moon trine or conjunct Moon for a best friend, like the real, real kind of best friend. I like Moon oppose Moon. I love Cap Moons for friends as they are grounded in the real world but for the heart resonance, I need the Moon trine or conjunct Moon.

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LiesLilithsaidtouranus
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posted August 23, 2013 01:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LiesLilithsaidtouranus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I need Moon trine or conjunct Moon for a best friend, like the real, real kind of best friend. I like Moon oppose Moon. I love Cap Moons for friends as they are grounded in the real world but for the heart resonance, I need the Moon trine or conjunct Moon.

I would agree with this, but Mercury has to be in good aspect with the other person's mercury.
In a friendship nothing beats Mercury trine or conjunct Moon. You are able to open up to the person.
Moon contact with moon only, isn't enough.

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posted August 23, 2013 03:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CAY_512     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My best friend in the whole world has Moon in cancer and my Venus in Cancer.

Her Sun falls in my 7th house

My Sun falls in her 7th house.

When it comes to our composite chart we have Moon/Sun/Mercury conjunct in Libra, Conjunct the 7th house.

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posted August 23, 2013 03:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SilverFeather     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My best friend's Sun Trine my Saturn.
Her Jupiter conjunct my Venus EXACT.
Our North Nodes conjunct.

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posted March 12, 2016 07:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hemilla     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have just looked up my two "best friends" one from high school and one from middle school - and what they both have is their mars in my first house. Both marses in Leo

Other friend i am very good with - mars in leo,but 1 degree in my second house

oh and with all three of them i have chiron and north node conjunctions - but with those two i consider(ed) bff i have super tight ones,the third one is wider


One of them has her Moon on my Mars,and her Sun on my Saturn...soo...

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posted March 12, 2016 07:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Claudine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Me and my best friend have Sun in the same sign.
Her Venus this sign as well.
Her Mars' is in my Venus' sign.
Her Mercury is in my 1st H, her Jupiter is in my 3rd H.
Her Juno is close to conj my Venus.
Regarding aspects, Sat square My Moon,
Jup sextile my Sun, Venus trine my Moon and some other aspects.
I don't have her exact birth time, so I can't say anything about her Moon, but it feels ok.

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posted March 12, 2016 07:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nyctea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have 3 Leo Moon friends and they used to be closer to me when i was in school a few months ago. Now that we finished we don't talk I don't have a best friend.

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