posted March 24, 2016 05:12 PM            

I also checked synastry with someone who made my jaw drop when I met them a few weeks ago. (he is married to my coworker).

Synastry with him shows DW moon mars oppositions, along with my moon on his Pluto. Unbelievably hot. Lol. I even complemented my coworker for her choice in a spouse. 😊

I think moon mars has my strong vote. Along with DW mars/venus. (I have this my SO as well)

posted March 24, 2016 07:09 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
What happens when you have a lot of sexual aspects in synastry with one person?

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You are magnetically drawn to them and you have no damned idea why. LOL

posted March 24, 2016 07:13 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
I like Moon-Mars, Venus-Jupiter and Venus-Pluto too

Had to edit away my long confessional as entertaining as it might have been

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Aww boo! Bring on the confessions!

I love Pluto because of the amazing depth & desire it adds to your bond. And I'm a fan of how Jupiter just brings so much fun and good will to your union, it's a blessing to have.

posted March 24, 2016 07:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Elysia:
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A Sun-Mars double whammy ~ this is the stuff *sleeping with the enemy* is made of.

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These come to mind...

posted March 25, 2016 01:09 PM            

here is my list.

1) Mars-aspects
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my Mars septile his Venus 0.40
his Mars trine my Venus 4.58

The Venus/Mars DW is number on on my list of sexual spark/sexual compatibility aspects. The septile also creates an astral connection and a 6th sense sync, or shall we say 7th lol, but given its definition it would work strongly on the level on non-verbal communication, namely body language. With the septile, it is expected from the couple to develop an erotic language of their own and also, until the couple is formed, to be very sensitive to the other's body language cues, changes in non-verbal expression, perfumes, smells, perhaps voices, hearing as well. Everything that is more or less "intangible"

I think the trine is of course wonderful, among the best, for long term sexual attraction. It works best when the people have 3rd 6th harmonics aspects to their own Mars and Venus in the natal, if their aspects are hard, they might perceive the attraction as too gentle or peaceful, but nevertheless this aspect creates a sense of familiarity and looooooong very long term pleasurable habits of the couple, comfort and synchronization. Sexually, that would be an aspect making people feel a high oxytocyn level from the beginning of the relationship (comfort, familiarity, attachment) along with the tense neourotransmitters giving the high of love (adrenaline, serotonin, dopamine) or even more than those.

my Mars square his Jupiter 4.59
his Mars opposite my Jupiter 0.06

this is a very strong double aspect for enjoying sex in this relationship, an active erotic life, feeling good, sometimes overdoing it, but generally very dynamic and sportsy too, feeling high, feeling strong and happy with the other, especially if the people involved have strong Sag; it is of course also a classic aspect for people having an active 9th house life: travel, sports etc. together.

my Mars conjunct his Mercury 4.12
his Mars biseptile my Mercury 1.05

It's nice to see the resonance Venus Mercury both in 7th harmonic with Mars, this will emphasize the sync movements/speaking at the same time/ great dancing pair - and of course this makes us think of other kinds of movements too lol which is already suggested by Mars coupled with Mercury, but with the septile series, perhaps the people can synchronize brain waves, so it looks like an important tantric combo
single aspects

my Mars semisquare his Pluto 1.12

his Mars wiedely triseptile my Moon 1.43
his Mars square my Neptune 1.09
his Mars septile my Uranus 1.10
his Mars widely biseptile my Sun 1.58

Mars widely square Mars 5.55

lots of septiles wow! the problem with too many septiles is that they may keep the relationship on an invisible, otherworldly, mental connection only, but I think the rest of the aspects are pretty much in your face to counteract that
personally, I love them, but I understand they need to be grounded with more earthy connections, as principle
2) Pluto aspects[/B][/QUOTE]

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

posted March 25, 2016 01:17 PM            

What do you think?

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

posted March 25, 2016 04:36 PM            

"ery sensitive to the other's body language cues, changes in non-verbal expression, perfumes, smells, perhaps voices, hearing as well. "
Very interesting. I did tell you that when we first met he was sniffing my hair and was thinking I was wearing a certain fragrance, and I tried my best to convince him that I was not (I really was not, I just had showered before, but that was about all fragrance I had on me, well except my own I guess).

"It works best when the people have 3rd 6th harmonics aspects to their own Mars and Venus in the natal, if their aspects are hard,"
Well we do of course have hard aspects to our Venus and Mars positions, a square to Pluto for both Venuses and my Mars square Jupiter and conjunct Neptune, his Mars conjunct Jupiter and sesisquare Venus and I think semisquare Mercury. Though these do not look too nasty to me.

However the conjunction to Jupiter of his Mars could also be considered a soft aspect (though an energetic one) and well, my Venus is sextile Jupiter and Uranus (widish orbs, but putting Venus on the Jupiter/Uranus-midpoint), his Venus is trine Saturn and sextile Uranus. and his Mars trines Chiron (making a Grand trine with my Venus, which I find intriguing).

"Sexually, that would be an aspect making people feel a high oxytocyn level from the beginning of the relationship (comfort, familiarity, attachment) along with the tense neourotransmitters giving the high of love (adrenaline, serotonin, dopamine) or even more than those."
That sounds actually nice. Of course not wildly passionate, but to be honest it just fascinates me how this sense of physical familiarity, that is there for me at least, and I guess for him to a certain degree as well, does not feel boring to me, but in fact reassuring enough for me to be able to enjoy his physical proximity (which is an issue for me, I admit.).
It feels oddly attractive despite the harmony. Strange, right?

"this is a very strong double aspect for enjoying sex in this relationship"
I like our Mars-Jupiter-one, just as I like the fact that my Jupiter opposes his Mars and his Jupiter trines my Venus, giving a sort of cross-aspect to the gender planets (on a maybe minor note, his Jupiter is square my Mars and my Jupiter semisquare his Venus, so Venus and Mars seem to be quite Jupiter-fied)

"it is of course also a classic aspect for people having an active 9th house life: "
And our 9th house is very strong as well, in terms of overlays as well as aspects to the rulers and planets therein.

"and of course this makes us think of other kinds of movements too lol"
LOL

"lots of septiles wow! the problem with too many septiles is that they may keep the relationship on an invisible, otherworldly, mental connection only, but I think the rest of the aspects are pretty much in your face to counteract that
personally, I love them, but I understand they need to be grounded with more earthy connections, as principle"
I totally agree with you, and maybe some of it is just too sublimated.

posted March 25, 2016 04:38 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I looked over the rest too, and to me it seems it's a blend of mind sex/body sex which is quite intriguing and strong, and the level of longtermness is assured, especially with those fixed overlays, Eros, Moon Pluto, and the classic Venus Mars of course, to which we add Sun/Moon which maybe I should have added it here as being a paramount aspect for overall attraction and compatibility and a blinding glue. The only problem with this list is that it may take some time for the two people to "ground" that special 5th, 7th, 9th energy, to be in the same place at the same time (although the septiles would qualify as serendipity) or maybe get to do the deed so to speak but after that, they would probably be inseparable.

What do you think?

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