posted April 26, 2016 04:52 AM            

I was wondering, do aspects to the Sun's ruler figure importantly in your close relationships? I feel like those aspects touch a chord in us, speak right to the core of our being on some level. 'Coz the ruler of our Sun sign, is, in a way, what the sign is about. So, in a way, it is also what we are all about.. And wouldn't something that puts "what-I'm-all-about" in an inviting spotlight, appeal to us in a special way?

In the (somewhat limited) examples I've seen, that does seem to be the case. For instance: Mercury contacts matter more to Gems/Virgos, Pluto contacts have greater significance for Scorps, etc..

posted April 26, 2016 05:59 AM            

My Cap Sun loves to feel secure and make constructive improvements to things. I’ve got Saturn in Virgo. If I feel like somebody is going to support me in this need It’s a big bonus. I’m also into alternative and natural health, and would love to share this interest with somebody in terms of shaping our lifestyle and such. I don’t think I’d deal very well with somebody really irresponsible who makes a mess out of situations. That sort of thing would turn me into a nervous wreck. I think positive aspects to my Saturn would be very reassuring because it would give me that sense of security that I crave.

posted April 26, 2016 08:40 AM            

My sun's ruler is Leo Saturn, in mutual reception with my sun.

My husband has a Leo sun (sun = sun's ruler!) exactly trine Saturn.

posted April 26, 2016 03:24 PM            

Sun's ruler key planet in synastry?

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For instance: Mercury contacts matter more to Gems/Virgos

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Like, are strong Mercury contacts particularly important to Gemini and Virgo?

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posted April 27, 2016 05:23 AM            

I think my Neptune (sidebar: Neptune - that's so fitting, ain't it?), at ~14° Cap, is probably just a degree or so away from your Sun. Am I right..? if so, we have a lovely Sun-Neptune conjunction!

posted April 27, 2016 06:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Yeah, I’m a great believer in dispositors and house rulers both in terms of their natal influence, and their significance in synastry.

My Cap Sun loves to feel secure and make constructive improvements to things. I’ve got Saturn in Virgo. If I feel like somebody is going to support me in this need It’s a big bonus. I’m also into alternative and natural health, and would love to share this interest with somebody in terms of shaping our lifestyle and such. I don’t think I’d deal very well with somebody really irresponsible who makes a mess out of situations. That sort of thing would turn me into a nervous wreck. I think positive aspects to my Saturn would be very reassuring because it would give me that sense of security that I crave.

Ironically I love fire signs. So if I end up with one he’d have to make nice with my Saturn.

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Wow, you explained it so well!

Better pay the piper if you're here to stay.

posted April 27, 2016 04:15 PM            

Yes that's it! My sun @ 15 Cap

AMAZING how many similarities there are between us. Including the kind of online behavior that bothers us. You've said so many of the same things I did...I once tried looking for one of my old threads, to show you how something you said was almost word for word what I had said.

posted April 28, 2016 01:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Nyctea:
I wonder if [b]the ruler of the Moon would be a 'major player' in love synastries too.

For example someone with a Gemini Moon. Hers/his Mercury is making good aspects to the planets of the other person. That could 'trigger' feelings or something?[/B]

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posted April 28, 2016 03:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
@Elysia

Yes that's it! My sun @ 15 Cap

AMAZING how many similarities there are between us. Including the kind of online behavior that bothers us. You've said so many of the same things I did...I once tried looking for one of my old threads, to show you how something you said was almost word for word what I had said.

Just couldn't find it (yet).

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Oh wow, please post it if you do find it!

posted April 28, 2016 03:41 PM            

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Yes, in fact I take the dispositors of all relationship planet or personal planets even into account.

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Yeah! I was wondering when I wrote this post...

So, do you think, other than the relationship house rulers, personal planet rulers -to- planets are also influences in synastry..? If so, in what way?