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Topic: Composite+synastry is great, so why aren't we together
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SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2490
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posted May 08, 2016 05:35 AM
  
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
You have nothing to thank me about. You just need to be and stay strong no matter what. Don't let yourself down no matter the circumstances.
Oh yes I'm optimistic I will eventually find someone. I just turned 24 on April 22nd, so I know I'm still young enough and have time  IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2490
From: California
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posted May 09, 2016 03:11 AM
I just had an epiphany about him. Just knowing the I whole situation and everything that he said to me and I said to him about a whole bunch of different topics makes me realize that he isn't a compassionate person and he will never ever allow room for difference of opinion. To him all I'll ever be is someone who was nothing but a burden. I wish him well and I hope he finds someone who will agree with him on everything.IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2490
From: California
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posted May 12, 2016 10:11 PM
Well sh*t I don't know how to explain this. Today my mom's old friend called (it is Mercury Rx after all) and they got to talking about kids etc. He mentioned he had a daughter that was my age and she just so happened to go to the same college as this guy right here in my synastry. I asked her name and lo and behold this girl knows this guy. This girl is good friends with this guy. If I'm hearing her name correctly then I am almost positive this is the same girl who once dated this guy in my synastry. What are the odds? What are the odds of that? I am going nuts trying to forget about him, but the more I try so desperately to forget about him the more the Universe thrusts reminders of him in my face. I don't know what to do anymore.IP: Logged |
stillatlarge
Knowflake Posts: 781
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Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 12, 2016 11:07 PM
Wow, I truly feel for you. I'm going through my own hell right now. I don't think we have anything that challenging in the chart but damn, he's difficult. So am I. I see so much Saturn, positive Saturn in ours, that it torments me. There are gobs of longevity aspects, Jupiter, great sexual aspects, Ascendant, Angles Conjunct, 5th and 7th, Pluto, you name it. I cannot believe it's supposed to play out like that. I just don't know what's going on with him, if he found out something or what. I'm torn on what to do. Leo's horoscope talks about not being able to reach somebody but that you will be happy about it and that they will come back around. I don't know wtf. I can't tell if it has anything to do with me or legal or other stuff he's going through. I pray it works out for you. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2490
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 13, 2016 12:33 AM
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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
Wow, I truly feel for you. I'm going through my own hell right now. I don't think we have anything that challenging in the chart but damn, he's difficult. So am I. I see so much Saturn, positive Saturn in ours, that it torments me. There are gobs of longevity aspects, Jupiter, great sexual aspects, Ascendant, Angles Conjunct, 5th and 7th, Pluto, you name it. I cannot believe it's supposed to play out like that. I just don't know what's going on with him, if he found out something or what. I'm torn on what to do. Leo's horoscope talks about not being able to reach somebody but that you will be happy about it and that they will come back around. I don't know wtf. I can't tell if it has anything to do with me or legal or other stuff he's going through. I pray it works out for you.
It's like the Universe wants to test us you know? I don't know. It just pains me to like talk about him because I know he isn't even thinking or talking about me. I wish that I didn't see his name or hear his name or see signs of him like anywhere. I wish that I could forget about him. If I'm not supposed to be with him then why must the Universe thrust him in my face?! I feel for you about have great synastry and yet it isn't playing out how it should be. I hope it works out for you too. I mean this can't be how it's supposed to end, right >.<
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SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2490
From: California
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posted May 28, 2016 10:16 PM
Well I just realized my sun/moon midpoint is conjunct his DC. This means that he is the manifestation of what my male (sun) and female (moon) wants in marriage. In a sense, being with him would fulfill my image of a perfect relationship and especially more so since it's conjunct his DC.His DC is 6 Pisces 20 and my sun/moon is 5 Pisces 57. Plus you can see all the other fated aspects (we also have sun septile juno in the composite and septile is a fated aspect spiritually, it means a higher force is working here). IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2490
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posted May 28, 2016 10:21 PM
His sun/moon happens to be conjunct my 5th house cusp meaning he would only see me as a fun fling while mine conjuncting his DC/7th house cusp means I see him as the real deal and not a fling. It's like I was meant to meet him just to get hurt.IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2490
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posted May 28, 2016 10:22 PM
Last one, not only is his sun/moon conjunct my 5th house cusp, it's opposite my sun.IP: Logged |
stillatlarge
Knowflake Posts: 781
From: TX
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posted May 28, 2016 11:50 PM
I know exactly how you feel. I finally made contact with mine, thank God and it wasn't what I thought. I'm so relieved at that. He's still playing his Pluto games but, like I said, I was happy when I found out because he was not only not avoiding me but in his own strange way, he went to lengths to let me know he wasn't. He has a thing for me for sure, but what?
Anyway, I am sorry. I pray that he comes around, or something better does soon to make you not only forget ,but be happy it DIDN'T happen with him. It will, believe that. I know it's hell right now but it will happen. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2490
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 29, 2016 12:03 AM
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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
I know exactly how you feel. I finally made contact with mine, thank God and it wasn't what I thought. I'm so relieved at that but he's still playing his Pluto games. He has a thing for me for sure, but what?
Anyway, I am sorry. I pray that he comes around or something better does soon to make you not only forget but be happy it DIDN'T happen with him. It will, believe that. I know it's hell right now but it will happen.
I feel like we are meant to be but on the other hand I feel like we were only meant to be together for a short time. I hope we're meant to be together though IP: Logged |
FatedCinderella
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Registered: Mar 2016
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posted May 29, 2016 01:38 AM
Oh boy I dont believe in this "signs" anymore!! They are dangerous and can be a bit fat lie.I will never understand why these crazy things happen so I decided that will not pay attention to it anymore.If is meant to be will happen somehow...
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stillatlarge
Knowflake Posts: 781
From: TX
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posted May 29, 2016 03:53 AM
Well, some of these things take time. That's what this generation has forgotten. They act like you meet and everything falls into place immediately and if it doesn't then you just throw the baby out with the bath water. A lot of these aspects don't manifest over night. The path of true love never did run smooth as Shakespeare said. It may or may not happen but it's not fast food. It may take time for things to bloom. That's a case by case and individual decision. Noone should be pressured to give up when they're not ready. IP: Logged |
Selene
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posted May 29, 2016 12:45 PM
Not every person we have a great synastry and composite with, are supposed to be in a relationship with us. I think, there is no such thing as "meant to be together" based on astrology alone. Sometimes we can be happy in a lifelong relationship with someone with whom we have the most UNcompatible charts. At the end it is all about our free will and all. If someone i like doesn't want to be with me i can't go and tell him - we'rr supposed to be together because we have this and that in our synastry and i'm your perfect match and you're mine. That's not how things work. Astrology-wise, i guess, i should be with one of my male friends - i mean, i have an ideal synastry with him! He has his Mars in my 8th, NN conjuncts my DSC exact, his 8th house ruler Moon conjuncts my 7th house ruler Neptune by 2 and my 5th house ruler Saturn by 4, not to mention other aspects it makes. My Mars is in his 7th, his 7th house ruler Mercury conjuncts my Sun, my Moon and Jupiter conjunct in his 8th house with his Venus (5th house ruler) exactly conjuncting my Moon and being 3 degrees away from my Jupiter (my 4th house ruler and my secondary 7th house ruler), and his Venus also conjuncts my Venus/Mars midpoint exactly, sextiles my Mars and Venus exactly, etc. Also his ASC exactly conjuncts my IC, his Jupiter (ASC ruler) exactly conjuncts my MC, my Mercury (ASC ruler) and Venus exactly conjunct my MC, and we have a tight BML-Asc conjunction DW. Talk about great synastries. We do get along superbly, our friendship is amazing but never have i thought of him in a romantic sense and neither has he. It would feel so unnatural. And the fact that the synastry is so romantic for both of us on every level (5th, 7th, 8th) doesn't mean we are meant to be together. IP: Logged |
Selene
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posted May 29, 2016 01:02 PM
That is why we should really see our synastry and charts with someone we actually ARE together or have some kind of a relationship already. Or if we do for the sake of curiosity, take it with a grain of salt. I've been guilty for that kind of wishful thinking myself but not anymore. For that reason i do not believe anymore that love can be shown by astrology. It is so complex feeling and energy that i believe it starts out of nowhere, like a spark from the universe itself and only then can our synastries come into real play in a romantic sense. So no Venus Mars and Sun Moon conjunctions will ever show -the one and only-, in reality you can fall for someone who squares all your personal planets for good with his Saturn and you could oppose all of his with yours, bu tin the end of the day it could be THE love you've been waiting for your whole life. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2490
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 29, 2016 04:13 PM
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Originally posted by Selene:
That is why we should really see our synastry and charts with someone we actually ARE together or have some kind of a relationship already. Or if we do for the sake of curiosity, take it with a grain of salt. I've been guilty for that kind of wishful thinking myself but not anymore. For that reason i do not believe anymore that love can be shown by astrology. It is so complex feeling and energy that i believe it starts out of nowhere, like a spark from the universe itself and only then can our synastries come into real play in a romantic sense. So no Venus Mars and Sun Moon conjunctions will ever show -the one and only-, in reality you can fall for someone who squares all your personal planets for good with his Saturn and you could oppose all of his with yours, bu tin the end of the day it could be THE love you've been waiting for your whole life.
I WAS together with him. We did date, albeit it was short IP: Logged |
Selene
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posted May 29, 2016 04:32 PM
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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
I WAS together with him. We did date, albeit it was short
It's not the same for everyone i guess, but i don't consider short dating as 'together'. I have dated a lot of guys but i sure wasn't 'together' with all of them. That's aside from the point. My point is that even the best synastry in the history of astrology would not for sure tell that the relationship is inevitable or meant to be or for the rest of the life. In the end it is only a potential. Something that could or could not develop into something more. And if it would develop into something more, depends on both of the people involved, whether there is that energy or there isn't. I've been there and done that. IP: Logged |
DreamCatcher
Knowflake Posts: 2251
From: United States
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 31, 2016 06:49 PM
Hi SA-I totally feel your pain....I have AMAZING chemistry & synastry with a man that I;ve only met three times, and he spills his heart out to me the few times we have seen each other..there's this crazy undercurrent of electricity between us, like I can sense that he just wants to throw me against the wall and have his way with me, and I would GLADLY let him LOL.. But it's also got a weird tenderness to it (I'm guessing thats our moon/pluot at work) like I just want him to hold me, caress me, and do the same to him. I hardly KNOW him but I KNOW him, ya know? We have several past life aspects in our synastry as well.
He has even commented on how our connection is, how he can't believe how close he feels to me, he does not normally open upBLAH BLAH BLAH. (He's a Cap Sun)
He's obviously sexually attracted to me, (believe me its obvious and palpable)
In our synastry we have moon Conjunct Pluto EXACT, Venus Square Pluto EXACT a bunch of moon/asecndant aspect..moon conjunct mars etc etc...I even posted the synastry here awhile back and got RAVE replies from the experts on here...Yet, I gave him the green light ....and..NADA crickets...he never even responded to a message I sent him. He's ten years older than me- and I feel, has commitment issues, but this PLUTO is KILLING ME! I obsess over him CONSTANTLY. And when I'm not I can tell he is, yet he does NOTHING.! I don't get it.....I'm just avoiding him and keeping busy..If he doesn't embrace and acknowledge my awesomeness, so be it...LOL I go back & forth about writing him an email to get it out how I feel, but then I think I'm crazy?? Does he obsess? Does he think of me ? Even though we have not seen each other, or is it just me??GAH PLUTO IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2490
From: California
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posted May 31, 2016 07:06 PM
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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Hi SA-I totally feel your pain....I have AMAZING chemistry & synastry with a man that I;ve only met three times, and he spills his heart out to me the few times we have seen each other..there's this crazy undercurrent of electricity between us, like I can sense that he just wants to throw me against the wall and have his way with me, and I would GLADLY let him LOL.. But it's also got a weird tenderness to it (I'm guessing thats our moon/pluot at work) like I just want him to hold me, caress me, and do the same to him. I hardly KNOW him but I KNOW him, ya know? We have several past life aspects in our synastry as well.
He has even commented on how our connection is, how he can't believe how close he feels to me, he does not normally open upBLAH BLAH BLAH. (He's a Cap Sun)
He's obviously sexually attracted to me, (believe me its obvious and palpable)
In our synastry we have moon Conjunct Pluto EXACT, Venus Square Pluto EXACT a bunch of moon/asecndant aspect..moon conjunct mars etc etc...I even posted the synastry here awhile back and got RAVE replies from the experts on here...Yet, I gave him the green light ....and..NADA crickets...he never even responded to a message I sent him. He's ten years older than me- and I feel, has commitment issues, but this PLUTO is KILLING ME! I obsess over him CONSTANTLY. And when I'm not I can tell he is, yet he does NOTHING.! I don't get it.....I'm just avoiding him and keeping busy..If he doesn't embrace and acknowledge my awesomeness, so be it...LOL I go back & forth about writing him an email to get it out how I feel, but then I think I'm crazy?? Does he obsess? Does he think of me ? Even though we have not seen each other, or is it just me??GAH PLUTO
Oh man that's rough, I'm sorry  . Yeah I hate how Pluto makes someone all obsessive! It's like I seriously am trying to forget you but I can't. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2490
From: California
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posted June 03, 2016 08:09 PM
This is another synchronicity. Today I added a guy on Facebook whom I met earlier this week. This guy happens to be friends with the one I'm talking about in this post. He is FRIENDS with him. Los Angeles is HUGE and out of all the people in LA these two are friends. Yes. That happened.IP: Logged |
stillatlarge
Knowflake Posts: 781
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posted June 04, 2016 01:11 AM
Could happen yet IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2490
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posted June 04, 2016 01:27 AM
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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
Could happen yet
In a weird twist of fate I actually ended up talking to his good friend on OkCupid. I didn't know they were friends or met at college and moved to LA after college lol. This guy I talked to basically said he couldn't date me because I knew this guy I'm talking about here  IP: Logged |
stillatlarge
Knowflake Posts: 781
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posted June 04, 2016 05:08 AM
Did he say why? IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2490
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posted June 04, 2016 06:02 PM
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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
Did he say why?
He is bitter that I broke up with him and he refused to accept my apology. I told him it was because I was dealing with personal issues at the time (going through a low period of depression), but he didn't believe me and refused to give it another chance IP: Logged |
stillatlarge
Knowflake Posts: 781
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posted June 04, 2016 07:25 PM
Oh, the old 'I need space' thing and he thought it was your way of dumping him? Sounds like it. I've had that happen. I really did just need space actually. What did you tell this friend about it? Maybe explain that to him and he'll tell him...IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2490
From: California
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posted June 04, 2016 08:04 PM
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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
Oh, the old 'I need space' thing and he thought it was your way of dumping him? Sounds like it. I've had that happen. I really did just need space actually. What did you tell this friend about it? Maybe explain that to him and he'll tell him...
I did, but he said he refused to forgive me and then
hung up and blocked my number and blocked me on Facebook
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