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From: California
Registered: Oct 2014

posted July 05, 2018 03:24 PM            

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Perhaps your Venus squares their Ascendant aka their physical body.

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From: The Great White North
Registered: Jul 2014

posted July 05, 2018 03:47 PM            

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Physical attraction is soooooooo subjective though, that I don't even think it can be accurately pinpointed or seen in synastry.

As a woman let's say, even if all the classic synastry markers for attraction with a man are present...if he hasn't brushed his hair or teeth or showered in a week (extreme example but you know what I mean) chances are you are not going to find him attractive. Maybe you don't like the way they style their hair, or the clothes they wear, or they are too short, too stalky, too...whatever. Attraction in its most basic form is very tricky.

I think a synastry chart only kicks in once a "connection" of some form has been made. You know just by looking at a person if they are your type or not, and assuming you choose to engage a person who you actually find attractive, then the layers begin to unravel and you find yourself either really digging this person (if all the right aspects are there) or not and the connection falls flat.

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From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
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posted July 14, 2018 11:03 AM            

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Bump!

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From: Oz
Registered: May 2011

posted July 15, 2018 08:57 AM            

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Originally posted by pocketrocket:
Bump!

I have a guy who's attracted to me and he thinks that we are compatible. Actually, we are as friends.
We kissed couple of times, but I felt repelled & don't want it again. But he does. :/

Here is our aspect chart:

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I always look first to the tightest aspects. Here, your venuses are tightly opposite. Venuses opposite are a bit awkward.

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