posted May 13, 2016 08:51 PM            

Has anybody experienced a Moon/Pluto here to confirm this thinking? Aspect, house, signs?

Pluto would be in Libra or Scorpio I guess. I don't know how young someone with Capricorn Pluto is, probably too young. Pluto is very powerful and more obsessive in Scorpio. Libra naturally has a deep need for harmonious partnering..but Pluto and harmony? Well, I guess the Libran Pluto would still be less pushy than Scorpio one hence less intensity in whatever aspect.

For squares - Moon in Cancer or Capricorn; Leo or Aquarius. Out of these, logically, the square would be tough on Cancer Moon but I'm not too sure here.. Who handles emotional stuff easier: detached Aquarius Moon and cold Capricorn Moon or emotional crybaby Cancer Moon and open-hearted Leo Moon..? We all know how bad bottling up emotions and feelings is for us (Capricorn Moon) or feeling something deep but not being able to connect with it and process it accordingly (Aquarius Moon). At least Leo and Cancer Moons let it all out.

Oppositions, sextiles and trines are nice, no need to discuss. Just enjoy them

As for houses, all water houses + cardinal houses + angles will add to the weight of the aspect.

posted May 14, 2016 09:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Moon- Pluto is the b**ch
Cant live with or without each other. Starts absolutely magical and incredibly passionate, a deep bond is formed. And then , after the two victims are bonded, it turns into a compulsive, toxic liason plagued with insane jealousy and power games.
We have the conjunction,
exact degree, in my 7th house and his 1st. Im the Pluto.

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<3 sounds crazy...

posted May 14, 2016 09:34 PM            

I've read that conjunction is better if Pluto is male.

posted May 14, 2016 09:54 PM            

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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
Orange,

I've read that conjunction is better if Pluto is male.

Who is more obsessed, is it you ('insane jealousy and power games')?

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both in my opinion. and sometimes with pluto its not always abour obsession. it is uncovering deep fears especially on the part of pluto. pluto sets themselves up for failure or disaster because they want the planet person so much that they project there fears onto the planet person and then it becomes a reality well im just talking about the unhealthy side of pluto in synastry...power games also likely to happen..but not always usually fears of some kind at least in my experience dealing with pluto and reading the mythology of Pluto (Hades).

posted May 14, 2016 10:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Moon- Pluto is the b**ch
Cant live with or without each other. Starts absolutely magical and incredibly passionate, a deep bond is formed. And then , after the two victims are bonded, it turns into a compulsive, toxic liason plagued with insane jealousy and power games.
We have the conjunction,
exact degree, in my 7th house and his 1st. Im the Pluto.

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this happened to me but i didnt have the conjunction Orange, i had the quincunx formed in a YOD and you described to a T with me and my ex.

posted May 14, 2016 10:02 PM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
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I have had a moon/pluto relationship before and it was defently unhealthy and I certainly felt dominated perhaps vulnerable by pluto (I was the moon).

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posted May 14, 2016 10:04 PM            

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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
Which houses?

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my moon is in the 7th house in aries and her pluto in the 2nd house in scorpio. But this was configured in a YOD dont know if you are familiar or experienced YODs in synastry..?

posted May 14, 2016 10:33 PM            

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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
You said quincinx so it must have been a very tight orb. Moon in 7th - wanting to please partner in order to achieve harmony in relationship. Pluto in 2nd - as bad as Pluto in 8th? 'gotta have that Moon, mine miiine.'

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yes it was exact the orb like exact ! lol

hahahaha omg yessssss i felt i needed to do everything possible in order for her to be happy but what about me? it was never about me i always felt that way it wasnt fair and i felt pressured to be her future wife later on in the relationship, i mean in the beginning we talked about marriage we were so in love we were jealous that we had sex before we met eachother we wanted to be each others first kiss that's how bad it was....hahahahaah!

posted May 15, 2016 12:08 AM            

First is the Pluto, Pluto wants the Moon so bad, it comes after it full force. It doesnt take long until the Moon is completely overtaken and under the spell of the Pluto passion. Moon is responsive, flattered, emotional, quickly goes into a "Jessus, take the wheel" mode , and the two lovers submerge into the sea of love.

posted May 15, 2016 04:03 AM            

For instance, an Aqua moon squaring a Scorpio Pluto - ouchy ouch! Unless the Aqua moon is used to getting some Pluto action in the natal itself.

Moons that need to be *drawn out* and aren't particularly expressive in and of themselves (say an 8th or 12th house moon, or an earth moon), might find themselves simultaneously loving and hating the Pluto attention. Earth moons might be used to being emotionally 'together' in front of other people, but under the influence of Pluto, they find themselves unraveling. It introduces them to emotional highs and lows and depths of despair that they didn't know existed, or could feel. -- This is the famed Pluto 'transformation', that they are left more *aware* of their own emotional nature than before.

posted May 15, 2016 07:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Yes, yes, its equally obsessive for both.

First is the Pluto, Pluto wants the Moon so bad, it comes after it full force. It doesnt take long until the Moon is completely overtaken and under the spell of the Pluto passion. Moon is responsive, flattered, emotional, quickly goes into a "Jessus, take the wheel" mode , and the two lovers submerge into the sea of love.

Then after so much passion, both partners starts to freak out that " all good things come to an end" , and both starts playing mind games trying to control the other. In this second phase, Pluto gets the better part of the game. Pluto calls the shots because the Moon has become addicted to that high level of plutonic intensity .Little by little, Pluto takes Moon's sanity away by employing the notorious " withdrawl of affection" game, similar to taking the drugs out of a drug addict. ..
Then it all spirals in a crazy up and down hill. Break ups, make ups...
If the two manage to stay put and survive the rollercoaster phase , then after that the things start to settle down and the road is less bumpy.

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posted May 15, 2016 08:06 AM            

Moon at 29 degrees - anaretic degree. I have this and I can agree with description from AstrologyWeekly.

"The Moon rules your emotions, so having the Moon at 29 degrees can show someone who struggles to control and expose their emotions. They can have upsets and fits, or shove everything away, running from their feelings. You need to focus on your emotions, learn the channel them in healthy ways, and open up to others. "

posted May 15, 2016 09:49 AM            

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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
Gracha,

Moon at 29 degrees - anaretic degree. I have this and I can agree with description from AstrologyWeekly.

"The Moon rules your emotions, so having the Moon at 29 degrees can show someone who struggles to control and expose their emotions. They can have upsets and fits, or shove everything away, running from their feelings. You need to focus on your emotions, learn the channel them in healthy ways, and open up to others. "

I guess he ran. Good for you - a weirdly kind Pluto. Is it softly aspected in your chart?

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posted May 15, 2016 02:56 PM            

You don't know his birth time. You cant tell his Moon degee as it travels fast diring the day. His Moon could be even in the next sign. You might not egen have a Moon- Pluto aspect. Pluto aspects need to be tight - mo more than 2 1/2 degree [/

Actually he told me his birth time and I do remember looking at his chart and seeing that aspect.

posted May 15, 2016 11:28 PM            

At first Pluto's attempts to control are just annoying, but you know, a person's obsessive reaction to something does not necessarily negate the reality of a thing or the legitimacy of perception (though likely just a little skewed). Since I'm not worried about my freedom or independence, I am usually willing to test run submission to Pluto's desires to see how it works for me...achieving middle ground with Pluto usually amounts to personal satisfaction with the balance achieved in the expression of my Asc and MC aspects which are square and competing.