posted September 04, 2016 10:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:

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I donīt care for twinflames. I donīt care for past lives. I care for the Here and Now.

I do believe in past lives, and I do believe in twinflames maybe.
But I do live in the Here and Now. That is what is important (past lives might help understand some behavioural patterns though, just like the past in THIS life).

And I do care about how a person treats me now, not how I think they should treat me, or would treat me if only....

I try to react to what they actually do or say, not what I think they do or say - but THAT is a tough lesson for a cerebral person like me. But getting there.

posted September 05, 2016 02:00 PM            

Soulmates paths may converge for a period of time, but that is no guarantee the paths will run parallel. Understand?

Not only is there free will, but personal karmic priorities at work.
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Having someone as a soulmate does not obligate them to you in any particular way. Human feelings of attachment or possessiveness may not understand this and may obscure for many years the fuller truth about the relationship.There may be pre-lifetime agreements between you NOT to be intimately involved to allow the greater growth of one or both of you. This is something often neglected in these discussions when the terms `soul mates` and `twin flames` get involved.

So I`m going to **** on the parade a bit here and tell you that the greatest love I have ever felt and most profound soul connection was with someone that went completely unrequited romantically. But there are other lifetimes and other relationships...

The universe does not deny Love -- ever. It may delay it or allow it in a form other than what your heart or gonads want, but it does not deny it. That is because we are here to learn the fullness of Unconditional Love rather than direct it to our expectations or pre-conditions. We elevate ourselves to it rather than bend it to us.

Birth chart comparisons cannot be relied on to tell the full soul mate story as a birth chart only charts a single lifetime of one human. It does not chart one`s soul. Virtually all of us have numerous soul mates, or at least many in our soul group associations.

As to the astrology, there are no undiscovered mysteries here. When soul mates do have a long familial or romantic relationship it will show up in the chart comparisons with harmonious aspects between personal points, Nodes, etc, along with some challenging ones. But good synastry is no guarantee of a relationship, as we all have good synastry with more people than we could ever have a 1-on-1 relation with -- including those we have met personally.And soul mates come and go, but it is the lasting connnection of Love eternal that will bring us back together again.

Often difficult synastries can be had between unquestioned soul mates who have agreed to work out their karmic lessons together, thus ensuring something less than an idyllic romance. But is it worth the risk? Of course it is, but with some disappointments the only answer is forgiveness and release.

posted September 05, 2016 02:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:

The universe does not deny Love -- ever. It may delay it or allow it in a form other than what your heart or gonads want, but it does not deny it. That is because we are here to learn the fullness of Unconditional Love rather than direct it to our expectations or pre-conditions. We elevate ourselves to it rather than bend it to us.

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posted September 06, 2016 01:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
So I`m going to **** on the parade a bit here and tell you that the greatest love I have ever felt and most profound soul connection was with someone that went completely unrequited romantically. But there are other lifetimes and other relationships...

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posted September 06, 2016 08:13 PM            

Her Sun (sextile) Uranus formed a yod with my Venus; her Neptune (sextile) Pluto formed a yod with my Sun; her N.Node quincunx my Venus; not certain about the rest because no birth time or location.

posted September 07, 2016 05:16 PM            

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Originally posted by MilaBirkin:
Kannon McAfee I don't understand what you mean. Sorry.

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Most of us have numerous soul mates. We help each other along in *soul* growth. They can be parents, siblings, friends, strangers we did not grow up with. The term should not have only the connotation of the ideal mate.

posted September 08, 2016 09:09 AM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
Most of us have numerous soul mates. We help each other along in *soul* growth. They can be parents, siblings, friends, strangers we did not grow up with. The term should not have only the connotation of the ideal mate.

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