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Ami Anne
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posted September 04, 2016 07:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Communication is really “where it is at”. You may have a bikini model, number ten girlfriend, but if you can’t talk, when the newness wears off, you have nothing. Communication is the key to all relationships, really, Some relationships may have a purpose such as a business thrust. Some may have a purpose such as patient/doctor or parent/ child. These external contingencies may keep the relationship afloat. However, the relationship will never be satisfying or emotionally close. It would simply fuffil a stated purpose. Let’s look at some aspects for good communication and why.

1. Moon trine Moon
This aspect is an EMOTIONAL simpatico. To me, it is the best aspect in synastry, bar none. These two people can look across the room and know what the other is thinking. Have you ever had a friend with whom everything is funny? Moon trine Moon synastry has such a strong simpatico that shared humor is effortless. I have a friend with whom I cannot look across the room if I am at a funeral or someplace where I cannot laugh. There is such a sense of oneness that the other person’s knows one’s most inappropriate thoughts. This aspects seems quite rare. Treasure it in whichever relationship in which you are fortunate enough to possess it. If your romantic synastry has this, you can, likely, work out most of your problems, in my opinion.

2. Mercury Trine Mercury

This would enable an easy flow of communication which would me more of in the intellectual realm than in the emotional. If a synastry had this plus a close Moon synastry, then there would be both a head and a heart component. Mercury trine Mercury would be perfect for business partners or intellectual collaborators of any sort such as Lennon and McCartney.

3. Moon Trine Mercury

The Mercury person would help the Moon person understand his own emotions by being able to form them into verbal expression. The Moon person would have an intuitive understanding of how the Mercury person thinks, as well. This is a very nice aspect for any relationship.

4. Moon trine Pluto

This form of communication is not linear. It is not rational, may be a better way to say it. There is a deep intuitive understanding between these two natives. The Pluto person sees the naked rawness of the Moon person’s emotions. The Moon person cannot hide her heart from the Pluto person. This aspect is more of a visceral communication than an intellectual one. It is more of a visceral communication than even a heart one. It is a form of emotional nakedness that is hard to describe. If you watch the charts and see the workings of this, you will understand what I mean.

5. Venus trine Venus

This aspect does not make for good communication, per se. It makes for a similarity in values. It can, also, make for a similar sense of humor. Values are very important in marriage. Values include the the importance placed on fidelity in marriage, the important placed on children and if one spends or saves money. Dissimilar values in marriage can pose many problems, so checking the relationship between mutual Venus’ may help avert issues.

6 Pluto Trine Mercury

The Pluto person will understand the intellectual realms of the Mercury person as if the Mercury person is unmasked. The Mercury person will feel he can have no secrets from the Pluto person.

7. Saturn Trine Saturn

These people will have a similar outlook on the world. They would have a similar outlook on the manner in which one navigates life, particularly with respect to responsibilities. They will support the growth and maturity of the other.

8. Jupiter Trine Mercury

The Jupiter person will help the Mercury person have more confidence in how she expresses herself.

9. Mercury conjunct the North Node

In this synastry, the Mercury person will bring the Theme of communication to the relationship, making if a focal point for the duration of the relationship.

10. Mercury conjunct the IC

The IC is a deeply vulnerable point in the chart. The Mercury person will help the IC person to express herself at a deep level. The IC person will feel deeply understood by the Mercury person.

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posted September 05, 2016 12:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted September 05, 2016 01:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What about Moon conjunct Mercury in composite?

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posted September 05, 2016 02:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elysia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, also --

Mercury - Sun (Conjunction, trine, sextile): Can't get enough of talking to each other. Very tuned into each other's voices and mindset. They can literally hear each other across a crowded room, even if they're soft-spoken, quiet talkers.

Mercury - Pluto (conj, trine, sextile): I wouldn't discount the sextile at all. It gives such an effortless link. You find yourself sharing shocking revelations with each other pretty casually, like it's a matter of course. With the conjunction, there's a palpable awareness of the secrets being shared, and the conversations rarely stay "light" - can get overwhelming for air or fire mercuries, so probably not everyone's cup of tea.

Mercury - Neptune (conj, trine, sextile): Can have whole conversations without words. Also the "finishing each other's sentences" type. These two can create a little dream world together in their imagination. Have you ever had those conversations that belong in Neverland and make no sense whatsoever, except to you two? That's merc-neptune. With the hard aspects there might be some obfuscation of truth, but that's another story.

Merc-Jupiter (conj, trine, sextile): Plenty of laughs with this one! Everything is ten times funnier when you two are together. Jupiter is mercury's clown. Inside jokes are big with this pair. Jupiter buoys Mercury and is very enthusiastic about Mercury's ideas (even though they might not be all that great).

Merc-Venus (conj, trine, sextile and in this case, even the square and opposition to some extent): They love the sound of each other's voice, these two can talk for hours. Not necessarily in a heavy Merc-Pluto way, but very pleasant nonetheless. Venus loves Mercury's intellect and their way of expressing themselves. Mercury loves feeling *truly* heard, and appreciated. This is the couple most likely to write little love notes to each other. And also most likely to have a lot of affectionate pet-names for each other. Even mundane, everyday communication is sweeter when you have a Merc-Venus aspect.

Merc-Eros (conj mostly, but trine & sextile also, if close): Umm yeah, this one.
"We're talking about the weather, why are you blushing?"
No matter what they might be talking about, the conversation itself feels so sexy. Likely to be turned on by each other's voices, or by talking to each other.

Merc-Mars (conj, trine, sextile): If you have a mercury that doesn't shy away from confrontation, the liveliness of merc-mars might be a good fit for you. They can have quite a few angry squabbles, but it's not dull for sure! And when they do agree on something, they make a dynamic team, as mars helps put mercury's ideas into action.

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posted September 05, 2016 03:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Very Good list, E.

Could I use these in an article with your name as author, if you would like

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posted September 05, 2016 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elysia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh sure, no problem!
Thank you..

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posted September 05, 2016 04:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
E

On the Sweet peas thread, I was not referring to anything you said about Yoga etc

I was referring to St Johns wart, in particular, which was mentioned by the person who started the thread.

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posted September 05, 2016 04:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elysia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ Right, hehe.. I realised afterwards so I erased it..
Oh wait, I didn't actually - now I have.

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posted September 05, 2016 05:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does anybody know?

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posted September 05, 2016 07:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CapriciousCapricorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
May I ask about Mercury-Pluto opposition. It's not mentioned among the aspects so I guess it's not that great.. I have this with a guy, I'm the Pluto. The thing is both our Mercuries overlay each other's 8th house and in his natal chart he has Mercury Pluto opposition.

Could anyone who knows here give a short interpretation please? I would really like to know because apart from mutual (DW) Sun Mercury trine in synastry and that Mercury Pluto opposition we don't have any of all those wonderful aspects Ami Anne described. Oh, forgot, yes we do! Moon Moon trine Other than that the synastry is amazing really.

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posted September 05, 2016 07:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elysia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ I can attempt one.
In case of the opposition, Pluto might want to uncover all of Mercury's secrets and/or try to mould their way of thinking in some way. Mercury might be uncomfortable with all the probing - but it's good for psychological growth together, in that Mercury may end up confronting issues they've pushed under the rug themselves.

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posted September 05, 2016 07:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elysia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
What about Moon conjunct Mercury in composite?

I'd say this means you guys are sensitive to/careful of each other's moods, and try to protect each other's feelings (verbally at least). Also, probably shared interests and a bent towards having each other as a sounding board for thoughts/feelings/ideas. Nice outlet to talk it through with your partner instead of stewing in those thoughts/problems yourself.

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posted September 05, 2016 08:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon/Mercury is excellent--it is a mind/heart meld. I have it with someone very close to me and we can, always, resolve things!

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posted September 05, 2016 10:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pluto/Mercury may allow the Pluto to see through the Mercury and the Mercury may feel naked.

This could be good or bad depending on the rest of the relationship.

Some people, you like to see through you.

Others you don't lol

I am talking about conjunctions, trines and sextiles.

With hard aspects,it may not be so good. There could be manipulation etc

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posted September 06, 2016 12:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Empty Spaces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree 100%!!
My gemini moon cant live without good communication!!

Hum..for the best I ever had was mercury in 11H.Not even a mercury/saturn square was enough to ruin it.

Moon trine moon wanst a good experience to me!! (My best friends have moon in aries and moon in leo) but well I had a double whammy saturn/moon on the "not so good experience" so that could be the reason..

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posted September 06, 2016 04:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for eyes_like_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have mercury trine mercury with my bf. And maybe some other ones mentioned, but with a wide orb.

Im just wondering if harsh natal aspects in ones mercury affect the synastry.

My boyfriend has mercury at 24°libra conjunct his pluto/sun by 5°


But my Mercury's at 20° Aqua is conflicted. My sun is at 17° pisces. Which i heard having sun and mercury in different signs is dibilitating?

My mercury is intercepted in 3rd as an air singleton. Its only aspects are square ascendant and pluto.

So would this weaken the mercury trine mercury in synastry?

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What about Mercury square ASC?

i have this with one of my besties AND one of my soulmates exact!

Being a Gemini sun/Mercury, communication is very important for me too.

And Mercury opposite Uranus - anyone know about this aspect?

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posted September 06, 2016 12:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What about if someones Mercury is in your 3rd house in synastry?

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posted September 06, 2016 01:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for polkadotstars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My boyfriend's Mercury is conjunct my sun, moon, and Mercury. Excellent communication We have been dating a year and not a single argument. Anytime an "issue" comes up, it is discussed likeminded, respectfully, and peacefully.

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posted September 06, 2016 06:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
What about if someones Mercury is in your 3rd house in synastry?

This would be relatively small in the overall chart but could still matter, of course, but would be lower in the scheme of things imo

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posted September 06, 2016 06:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by eyes_like_pisces:
I have mercury trine mercury with my bf. And maybe some other ones mentioned, but with a wide orb.

Im just wondering if harsh natal aspects in ones mercury affect the synastry.

My boyfriend has mercury at 24°libra conjunct his pluto/sun by 5°

Well, each person may struggle with his own communication and that may 'weaken" the overall communication BUT the trine should kind of overcome all this cuz the energy flow is so wonderful, imo


But my Mercury's at 20° Aqua is conflicted. My sun is at 17° pisces. Which i heard having sun and mercury in different signs is dibilitating?

My mercury is intercepted in 3rd as an air singleton. Its only aspects are square ascendant and pluto.

So would this weaken the mercury trine mercury in synastry?


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posted September 06, 2016 06:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by EmGem:
What about Mercury square ASC?

i have this with one of my besties AND one of my soulmates exact!

Being a Gemini sun/Mercury, communication is very important for me too.

And Mercury opposite Uranus - anyone know about this aspect?



ANYTHING that squares the ASC is hard.

The ASC is very personal and one feels squares strongly imo

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