posted October 09, 2016 12:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
How'd you know?

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please let me leave out the part about the specific nature of the tragic endings, but I would say that a good deal of important neptune aspects in the composite is common. nessus is always present too. neptune is also almost always present in synastry with one partner's neptune opposite, square or conjunct the other's sun, mars or venus.

there are definitely other aspects too which often happen alongside neptune aspects but I may have not noticed very well as I can't remember any now.

Also I'm not stating that having these with someone in synastry or composite will 100% turn into tragedy, as with these aspects, a relationship very rarely lasts longer than a few years and the other person will eventually disappear or "fade away" as a result of the neptunian nature, although with their presence hovering forever (especially harder on the planet person, being aspected by the neptune person), so even if it's not an actual tragedy, it still feels like one, losing such an otherworldly love. they can move into another city or even country and block all means of communication.

certain progressions and transits to their composite can bring them together again, but usually not until the the two are spiritually mature enough.

harsh neptune aspects in synastry also bring about many dishonesty and distrust issues, which is often reflected in the composite sun or moon being placed in the 8th house.

another thing I'd like to mention is that in such cases, both partners seem to have strong pisces/neptune romance aspects in their own charts. pisces sun or moon are frequent, and so is a partner's 5th or the 7th house in pisces, or their neptune in their 5th or the 7th. In once case, one partner has sun/moon midpoint conjunct his neptune. he's a close friend and he's told me that he sort of "enjoys" being in such difficult relationships. I guess this is neptune creating balance between his sun and moon needs.

posted October 10, 2016 05:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
can you tell just by looking at that chart how it would end?

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we can never tell things for sure, only that a chart shows you the potentials and the certain ways that the energies play out. some charts simply show abuse, others physical attraction, others true love, etc.

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So, the chart I posted is a type of chart that you are familiar with, and it goes along with Neptune synastry? What defines the type? Just heavy overlapping t-squares?[/B]

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it is sort of a given that people who in their own charts have a prominent neptune (or any other planet really), attract partners of the same type. so neptune will always be prominent in synastry and composite between them as well. problems arise when the planet challenging neptune in the composite, or neptune itself don't receive supporting aspects from the sun. in your case, if mars or neptune were trine or sextile the sun, things would play very differently.

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I want to be spiritually mature, I want the same for him, but I don't want that to mean we come together again.[/B]

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it doesn't mean that you certainly will, because we are all free humans who make our own choices. the difference is that, once the two people achieve a spiritual maturity over time, they will be very different people who can handle the energies way better and more constructively.

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Really? Composite 8H moon can mean distrust? [/B]

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