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Topic: Moon/Pluto in Synastry
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stillatlarge
Knowflake Posts: 784
From: TX
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 23, 2017 03:12 AM
  
I'm in a relationship loaded with Pluto and Dear God, it's hard. He is Pluto in most aspects. Moon opp Pluto, Pluto right on my IC, just all over the place. I'm the Pluto in the Mars square. He is driving me crazy. He is so jealous of me,so threatened by me, so controlling, and dominating, especially in a passive aggressive way. It's true that Aqua dominates by detachment. It's been a struggle for more than a year. I don't know what to do. IP: Logged |
bluestskies88
Knowflake Posts: 701
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Registered: May 2011
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posted February 11, 2018 12:10 AM
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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
I'm in a relationship loaded with Pluto and Dear God, it's hard. He is Pluto in most aspects. Moon opp Pluto, Pluto right on my IC, just all over the place. I'm the Pluto in the Mars square. He is driving me crazy. He is so jealous of me,so threatened by me, so controlling, and dominating, especially in a passive aggressive way. It's true that Aqua dominates by detachment. It's been a struggle for more than a year. I don't know what to do.
I had this connection and everything you're saying I can SO relate.  . IP: Logged |
bluestskies88
Knowflake Posts: 701
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Registered: May 2011
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posted February 11, 2018 12:16 AM
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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
I'm in a relationship loaded with Pluto and Dear God, it's hard. He is Pluto in most aspects. Moon opp Pluto, Pluto right on my IC, just all over the place. I'm the Pluto in the Mars square. He is driving me crazy. He is so jealous of me,so threatened by me, so controlling, and dominating, especially in a passive aggressive way. It's true that Aqua dominates by detachment. It's been a struggle for more than a year. I don't know what to do.
I had this connection and everything you're saying I can SO relate. . IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
Knowflake Posts: 4661
From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 17, 2018 04:49 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
The Pluto wants to control and the moon is swept up in the passion. Both feel passionately but the Pluto is more of the controller and the Moon, the recipient.
So true Ami and dangerous because you can’t prepare for itIP: Logged |
ariesdragon
Knowflake Posts: 4661
From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 18, 2018 08:27 AM
IQ mentioned he has this aspect with his wife, I think it’s a DW and he said: “avoid control games, avoid reactions, respond with a kiss, any sort of control or mind games and she would have been resentful.”That was very good advice from IQ and of course because he’s enlightened and some people just are not, you can never be too cautious and one or both people can be hurt. IP: Logged |
NxNW
Knowflake Posts: 41
From: nyc
Registered: May 2020
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posted June 01, 2020 12:50 PM
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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
He is Pluto in most aspects. Moon opp Pluto, Pluto right on my IC, just all over the place.
Pluto on the IC is F-ing CRUSHING. I have this with my current "crush" and it's not the 1st time this has happened to me so I am trying to restrain myself as much as possible and keep some distance. Scorpio Pluto btw, conj. his own Sco Moon. He's super Plutonian and very controlling. Lots of Aries/Tau in his chart too. My Pluto is in Libra and makes harmonious contacts to his Mars/Venus but I'm so airy and don't really have that eviscerating urge to control/dominate. I'm always like "why can't things just be beautiful and happy all the time..." 😩🤦🏻♀️ Also, his Pluto conjunct my IC also means it squares my Asc. And for a Leo Asc, that kind of blow to the ego is crippling.
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viviette
Knowflake Posts: 160
From: FR
Registered: Feb 2018
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posted June 09, 2020 03:24 AM
Pluto chases, Moon smiles sweetly initially with reserve, eyes start to widen on Pluto’s bold approach like he knows he’s rescuing you both from your previous empty lives. The atmosphere starts fizzing over. Too late - everyone’s seen, they’re all swimming in the foam.
Somewhere, a silent pledge is uttered in Pluto’s determination -like you never need to doubt Pluto. Don’t you dare doubt, even when a year later he is lying on the couch and everything seems more interesting than Moon. He already knows Moon? is his « reassurance »
Don’t let him see you cry Moon or he’ll accuse you of manipulation. Then, you’ll be just like all the other women who wanted his body AND soul. Why would you do that, Moon? When you know you already have those. Don’t cry, you’ll have moments with Pluto. They’ll just never be enough. IP: Logged |
NxNW
Knowflake Posts: 41
From: nyc
Registered: May 2020
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posted June 09, 2020 04:16 PM
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Originally posted by viviette:
Don’t let him see you cry Moon or he’ll accuse you of manipulation. Then, you’ll be just like all the other women who wanted his body AND soul. Why would you do that, Moon? When you know you already have those. Don’t cry, you’ll have moments with Pluto. They’ll just never be enough.
But it doesn't seem like you can win either way. If I cry, he'll accuse me of deliberately using tears to manipulate him. If I don't cry and try to remain calm and rational, he'll accuse me of being too cold/detached and not caring enough. I have a Tau stellium with a Gem moon, with outer planets in Libra & Sag. I'm not that emotionally expressive by nature and prefer to approach situations rationally. Honest and harmonious communication is so important to me. So when I do cry, you know stuff has reached a boiling point and those tears couldn't be helped. So while in this totally rare and vulnerable state, your partner then turns around and accuses you of using your emotions in a twisted plot to manipulate him -- it's all just too f***-ed up! and far too toxic to endure. No no no, I walk away from Plutonic relationships the second I see the red flags. Thank goodness for my Gem moon for allowing me just enough rationality to do so. I think I'd drown if I had a water moon... IP: Logged | |
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