posted January 05, 2017 09:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Yin:
Love is everything.

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posted January 05, 2017 09:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Whereas in my dreams you and Mr Sag always come together at some point, face to face up close. So it's like you two are farther along in a process.

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posted January 05, 2017 10:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Not always. Sometimes the best lesson you can learn from such experience is that you need to give up even if its painful and to go on with your life.

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posted January 05, 2017 10:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:

I honestly don't know which one of you is right.

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I wont say I am. Everyone experience is different. Mine is too. I simply cannot go on like this. Its better for me to give up and to give myself time to heal and to forgive. I wont forget for sure but I need to forgive. Myself.

posted January 05, 2017 10:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Sometimes I think, it's just such a privilege to love...to have someone to love...if we look at it in a different way, without any expectation. Just having someone who touches our hearts, that can be a blessing. Loving them whether they love us back or not, just carrying the love inside can be a good feeling.

But yes, it always depends on the individual people and the circumstances. It's no fun having to work side by side with someone who tempts you and makes you long for closer company all the time.

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posted January 05, 2017 10:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Mutual love of star crossed lovers hurts worse than simple unrequired love.

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posted January 05, 2017 10:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Actually, you two got ahead of yourselves and took it further than you ever got in my dreams.

Really.

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Yes, I suppose we did.
At least temporarily. You know I donīt really trust these things.

posted January 05, 2017 10:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:

I honestly don't know which one of you is right.

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I think in some way they both are.

Love IS everything, however sometimes love is not enough to make a relationship work out.

Though of course it depends on our views of relationship. Sometimes I feel as if we are limiting ourselves with the categorization, esp. the black and white scenario.

If it is not a traditional romantic sexual relationship definitely leading into marriage, then it`s nothing.

I guess that is not my view. (though a nice traditional romantic relationship is definitely a nice thing, well if two people love each other and are compatible in any way, if not, then it`s maybe not so grand in the long run).

There are so many shades in relating to other people, so many different ways, why always see that as defeat or loss? Can`t it also be enrichening?

But of course I think if what we really want - and nothing else- is marriage, then this view of mine would be completely incompatible with that.

BTW I love marriage, Iīve seen grand examples in my surroundings that it CAN work actually. so it is not that I advocate some alternative lifestyle here whatever it is, I guess I just try exchange any kind of expectations and dreams for what is really happening, which actually I could never have dreamed of myself to be honest. lol

Yeah not making much sense here, so I will shut up now.

posted January 05, 2017 10:53 AM            

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Originally posted by firemoon:
@Faith, I also meant to say earlier you're really a beautiful writer... I mean, that dream description though. Pretty sure if I remember correctly your mercury is conjunct my venus?

I'm smitten lol

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AW thank you!

posted January 05, 2017 11:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Yeah not making much sense here, so I will shut up now.

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You made perfect sense, and I agree with you and see it the same way...

posted January 05, 2017 11:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
AW thank you!

If my Mercury (5 Aqua) is conjunct your Venus than my Venus is sextile your Venus, and I am counter-smitten. (Co-smitten? Or, "Likewise, smitten." ??) I can't actually write it just comes together by accident sometimes.

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Yeah my Venus is 8 Aqua, sextile my moon at 7 Sag, so conjunct (I'm assuming) your venus?

posted January 05, 2017 11:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
At first, when I discovered that I have this aspect I didnt think would be this painful. I thought of love and stability, commitment and being tied by destiny. I thought this love we have for each other would bring us together and that we will be happy. I was a giant fool. I dont wish to anyone to have aspect. To anyone. Saturn is no friend. Its a cruel teacher.

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It's not over, Rosalind.

Saturn = delays

posted January 05, 2017 11:20 AM            

Bye everyone, good luck with whatever you're up to!

posted January 05, 2017 11:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
It's not over, Rosalind.

Saturn = delays

Nobody knows how long the delays are, but we don't know the end of this story yet.

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posted January 05, 2017 11:33 AM            

Anyway oh please, I hope you don't actually think that! F*ck Saturn he shouldn't be able to rain on the Aqua-Sag parade of free and liberated self expression lol.

Re Saturn-Venus, I've had it once and it was terrible, but like with anything there are many factors to take into consideration..

posted January 05, 2017 12:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Yin:
It's not over until I'm dead!!!
I'm a friggin Sag. Hope springs eternal.
Maybe that Cancer boy will never be mine. But I will do my damnedest to make it happen and will never give up. It's LOVE. It's worth it.

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