posted February 15, 2017 11:32 AM            

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posted February 15, 2017 11:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
So, is this the Comp?

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posted February 15, 2017 11:53 AM            

A sense of love between the two people. nice communication but people may get "too close to each other" and may take things too personally from each other, so watch that.

You both get a positive vibe being together

A problem may be that you and he may not have a sense of where the relationship is gonna go.

It's direction may not seem clear or easy to grasp.

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posted February 15, 2017 11:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Ok

A sense of love between the two people. nice communication but people may get "too close to each other" and may take things too personally from each other, so watch that.

You both get a positive vibe being together

A problem may be that you and he may not have a sense of where the relationship is gonna go.

It's direction may not seem clear or easy to grasp.

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Very much accurate, but what do I do from here?

posted February 15, 2017 12:03 PM            

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posted February 15, 2017 12:06 PM            

Let me know who is whom, too lol

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posted February 15, 2017 12:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
If you can put up the synastry big, I will take a look and please put aspect lines to Chiron and the NN, too xx

Let me know who is whom, too lol

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This is the only Synastry one I could find. I am "A" and he is "S" so I think he's the outside.

posted February 15, 2017 12:33 PM            

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posted February 15, 2017 12:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I need the two wheels next to each other, my Friend. It takes too much eyesight to try to use this chart, with which I am not familiar

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posted February 15, 2017 12:57 PM            

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posted February 15, 2017 01:05 PM            

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posted February 15, 2017 01:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I see the outside person's Chiron conj the Mercury of the other. This can make for a best friend and soul mate kind of feeling at the beginning but Chiron seems as if it makes relationships break up in a fast way and kind of a strange, sudden way. Did this happen?

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posted February 15, 2017 01:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Venus conj the NN. The Venus person has an unconditional love for the NN person. Lovely.

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posted February 15, 2017 01:19 PM            

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posted February 15, 2017 01:20 PM            

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posted February 15, 2017 01:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
The saturn person on the outside may try to squish down the primal feelings/passions of the Pluto person( the inside person)

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posted February 15, 2017 01:42 PM            

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posted February 15, 2017 01:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
If he is the Chiron person and you are the Mercury, did he help you a lot with pain. Did you come to him sharing a lot of pain and you and he had great bonding over this?

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posted February 15, 2017 02:14 PM            

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posted February 15, 2017 02:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Usually, there is deep sharing from both people, for sure. I was thinking that the planet person kind of shared more and the Chiron person was more of the healer. Do you agree?

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I'm not sure, we didn't have a chance to get there and I think emotional maturity-wise I had already healed from a lot of the stuff from my past and he hadn't dealt with any of his stuff yet.

posted February 15, 2017 02:31 PM            

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posted February 15, 2017 02:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Did you read my articles about Chiron and personal planet synastry. I discovered these theories from seeing Chiron play out the same way over and over.

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No, I will definitely do that. Are they posted in your profile somewhere?

posted February 15, 2017 02:35 PM            

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posted February 15, 2017 05:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Lucia23:
My ex is an Aries the same age (which means similar outer-planet aspects)....mine has Sag Moon, not Scorpio.

I think this guy will come back if you want him to, but it's hard to say whether he has enough integrity to sustain a real, mutual relationship. It sounds like there might be some mixed messages from your end, too. But the things about this story that remind me of my ex are:

-the stewing, pouting, and torment when nothing really big or heavy emotionally is really happening. These guys are so emotionally uptight and fragile that they treat an ordinary few hours of things not being clear and easy the way the rest of us would treat a close friend dying. Someone on this site early on said I need a partner who's more consistently jolly--it's true--the huge, heavy, miserable emotional drama about nothing is just rough. Not sure what causes this. The interaction of Saturn and incompatible Neptune?

-the inexplicable pulling away and going cold on you. Consciously, they do this because they feel extremely sensitive about small slights--"she won't commit to me", "she didn't kiss me goodbye"----but the real reason is that they're too unable to emotionally self-regulate, and they simply cannot handle the regular ups and downs of everyday life, or the basic task of mutually communicating with someone they love. When people with Scorpio placements pull away, it can be subtle and confusing---but with an Aries Sun, the going cold is sooooo unsubtle, you can't miss it, it's like the Aries turns into a wall of ice. It's no fun.

-The "what does 'all in' even mean" and "it's been hard" reminds me of my ex. Uh, doucheweasel, "all in" means you're a couple in love, committed to each other, and you see each other regularly and --if you need space--you talk about that with the other person instead of going all stewy and AWOL on them. And when you talk and make plans together about the future and the other person fails to say the exactly perfect thing that thrills your Aries Sun but also makes your plodding, slow Taurus Venus feel secure, you TELL them why things feel off to you and what you are hoping for and looking for. You don't just go all weird on them.

-These guys have dark, heavy emotional needs that they expect everyone to take into account--but they're too Aries Sun-Mars to notice the other person's emotional needs. This might be better with a Scorp moon, especially if he has any placements in the "other people" houses (7, 8, 9).....my ex was all 4th and 12th house and he had issues with being able to communicate about emotions. The going cold and pulling away and "I'm not sure what I want" have always been interspersed with him showing up at my doorstep, passionate and weeping and trying to let loose with some scary, huge amount of "love."" He's not great at the happy medium between those things.

With his Taurus Venus (which makes his romantic processing sloooowww) and his Aries planets, which might be effected by Venus going retrograde in March and April (causing exes to reappear)., he may well still be processing and navigating your relationship.

I think Arieses his age have a lot of challenges (due to their outer-planet aspects) having good relationships with other people. A lot of these guys might not figure it out until AFTER their 2nd Saturn returns. But maybe after transiting Saturn moves out of Sagittarius for good, they'll do better?

You can probaby have the relationship if you want, but it will probably be the kind of relationship it's been so far.

He may also have challenges committing to one person. Even if it seems certain there's no one else in the picture, he may have a hard time being honest and acting with integrity about that sort of thing.

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posted February 15, 2017 06:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Can you post the synastry wheel?

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