posted February 11, 2017 03:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
It would be hard to say WHY? He has a sense of aggression to you, perhaps. His Mars conj your Sun, but, moreover, there is a Moon square and I don't think this relationship would really be simpatico, no matter what it was.

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posted February 11, 2017 06:16 PM            

But since you asked...

I see no nodal conjunctions between you two, unless it would be ascendant which we don't know. The DW saturn trine Venus is not that powerful because because both of those aspects have wide orbs. But should one of you have Capricorn or Aquarius Ascendant, that should give more power to that wide DW.

Tighter more significant aspects:

--Your mercury squares his sun. Your Saturn exactly opposes his Mercury. Your Uranus almost exactly trines his Venus. Not exactly binding aspects.

--The BIGGIE or heavy hitters: Natally you have a trine between Moon and Mars. Well, his Pluto trines both of those personal planets of yours, and your pluto trines his sun, hence the mutual fascination. I say "mutual" because if he didn't generate some kind of interest in you, you wouldn't have bothered finding out his date and location of birth, pulling out his chart and posting it here. No one does for this just out of curiosity about people they don't care about.

Plutonian matters can be compelling, even when one is not Plutonian. Last night's eclipse fell on his Venus, so there will be more clarity about what is going on with him romantically.

posted February 11, 2017 06:39 PM            

Are you saying that my Saturn will square my Venus? I already have Venus square Saturn in my natal chart. Also what is Venus retro trajectory?

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Originally posted by Belage:
ETA: honestly, I suspect you will get involved with him and it will likely result in heartbreak for you as Saturn in Sagg will square your Pisces Venus at some point in the near future. Also keep in mind that the upcoming Venus retro trajectory started on your Venus at 26 degrees of Pisces. So you are particularly affected.

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posted February 11, 2017 06:46 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Why do you think I will get involved? He's married I am not going to get involved with a married man. I asked this question out of curiosity. Because I just can't believe he would constantly flirt with me when he knows I know he's married and has family.

Are you saying that my Saturn will square my Venus? I already have Venus square Saturn in my natal chart. Also what is Venus retro trajectory?

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I am saying that transiting Saturn currently in Sagg will square your Venus in Pisces in the near future. Saturn square Venus transit usually brings a feeling of denial of relationship/love or heartbreak

Regarding Venus retro, you might find this thread of interest: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/237307.html

posted February 11, 2017 07:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
I am saying that transiting Saturn currently in Sagg will square your Venus in Pisces in the near future. Saturn square Venus transit usually brings a feeling of denial of relationship/love or heartbreak

Regarding Venus retro, you might find this thread of interest: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/237307.html

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posted February 11, 2017 07:14 PM            

And you have your Saturn in Sagg conjunct his moon and square his Venus. Ouch...

In a romantic synastry chart, I look for nodal contacts. I Look for binding Saturnian aspects. I look for Venus aspects.

also I think about the timing. Is there an upcoming hard Saturnian/Plutonian/Uranian/Neptunian transit to someone's personal planets, most likely not a good time to start a new relationship.

posted February 11, 2017 07:52 PM            

I mean there has to be something going on in our synastry hence the reason why we've been hooking up for so long.

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Originally posted by Belage:
This other guy, again, no nodal conjunctions. Unless it is from his ascendant which we don't know.

And you have your Saturn in Sagg conjunct his moon and square his Venus. Ouch...

In a romantic synastry chart, I look for nodal contacts. I Look for binding Saturnian aspects. I look for Venus aspects.

also I think about the timing. Is there an upcoming hard Saturnian/Plutonian/Uranian/Neptunian transit to someone's personal planets, most likely not a good time to start a new relationship.

ETA: With this other guy, you have no real venus aspect besides an inconjunct Venus/Uranus aspect. No moon contact. ...What is holding you together?

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posted February 11, 2017 08:39 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:

I mean there has to be something going on in our synastry hence the reason why we've been hooking up for so long.

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Your chart is a map of your psyche. With your Venus/uranus square, you will tend to value unpredictable, unconventional, non committed relationships. Hence the hooking up.

posted February 11, 2017 08:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
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I mean there has to be something going on in our synastry hence the reason why we've been hooking up for so long.

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Your chart is a map of your psyche. With your Venus/uranus square, you will tend to value unpredictable, unconventional, non committed relationships. Hence the hooking up.

posted February 11, 2017 08:52 PM            

But there has to be something in his chart that causes him to like unstable relationships.

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Originally posted by Belage:
Some people handle their venus square Uranus by settling down with someone who is vastly different from them, someone who might be much younger or much older, someone from a different social or economic background, different race or religion, or a long distance relationship. In other words, there is a strong element in terms of differences that maintains some kind of separation within the couple.

It usually works if both parties in the couple have Uranus/Venus aspects in their natal charts, along with some binding Saturn aspects.

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posted February 11, 2017 09:23 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Well I was in a relationship with the same guy for 9 years. After awhile things became retuine and then the guy started talking about marriage and having a family. There were also other issues going on but I ended things between him. So I do know what it's like to be in a stable relationship. Yes I do enjoy hooking up with this guy but you're saying that there really isn't a attraction between us? We also have a Venus/Pluto aspect in our synastry and one in our composite.

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I didn't say that there really isn't an attraction between you. I was looking for aspects indicating longevity and stability, which is something people usually want to know if they are enquiring about a relationship.

You feel you had a stable 9 years relationship. But you previously referred to it as "hooking up". This really shows how differently people view stability. I would never refer to a stable relationship I was in as hooking up. So what is a stable relationship will vary greatly depending on one's Venus, moon and 7th house aspects.

posted February 11, 2017 09:29 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:

But there has to be something in his chart that causes him to like unstable relationships.

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Moon trine Uranus would make him like unconventional relationships. But he still longs for stability, hence him wanting marriage and a family.

posted February 11, 2017 09:45 PM            

So basically I would need to be with someone who is ok with unconventional relationships? Or someone who also has a Venus/Uranus aspect in their chart?

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Originally posted by Belage:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
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But there has to be something in his chart that causes him to like unstable relationships.

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Moon trine Uranus would make him like unconventional relationships. But he still longs for stability, hence him wanting marriage and a family.

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posted February 11, 2017 10:39 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Moon square Venus in a natal chart makes a person like unconventional relationships? I didn't know that.

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I said Moon trine Uranus would make someone like unconventional relationships.

posted February 11, 2017 10:48 PM            

Venus opposition Pluto
Moon trine Mars
Mars trine Mars
Moon trine Pluto
Venus square Mars

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Originally posted by Belage:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
[b]Moon square Venus in a natal chart makes a person like unconventional relationships? I didn't know that.

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I said Moon trine Uranus would make someone like unconventional relationships.

Moon square Venus can show conflicting emotions. [/B][/QUOTE]

posted February 11, 2017 11:13 PM            

You easily share personal information with each other, and probably delight in so doing. This is a chatty aspect that indicates much exchange, stimulation, and a mutual desire for variety and changes in the environment. Together, you like to keep busy, and if you share a home, the atmosphere is active and involved. You tend to be sensitive to each other’s feelings and moods, and turn to each other for easy conversation. You may delight in sharing memories with one another. The female in this relationship may be quite talkative, finding a wonderful outlet in her partner. As a couple, you are involved with each other and find it quite easy to solve problems in a rational and reasonable manner.

https://cafeastrology.com/composite/moon_mercury.html