posted June 26, 2017 07:15 PM            

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Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:
Lol now you know why I was/still slightly (who am I kidding...slightly lol) obsessed with that Libra/Cancer dude. He's a Libra Sun Conjunct Saturn with Cancer Moon, and I'm a Cancer Sun with Cap Moon in the 7th Trine Venus (plus my 1st house ruler is in the 7th) lol. Yeah, it would have been perfect lol. The funny thing is I never want the other person to feel attacked or bad when I have a discussion. I have a hard time disagreeing. The problem is being so focused on the other.

I get your husband and having the Libra/Cap and or Sat/Cancer influence. You're most likely probably right that he won't leave, as I can't really see myself leaving my Aquarian partner. I may want others or feel a connection, but I don't want to shake up my security...and what happens if it doesn't work out. Or I want to go back to the other person lol...the Libra side and me weighing the pros and cons. Honestly it would be a dream if I could have both because I love relationships...but he's a Scorpio Moon and would NEVER want that lol. I often wish I had strong Virgo in me, my mom is a Virgo Rising and my dad is a Virgo Moon.

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You and I are similar, I think bc Saturn in Scorpio conjuncts my Pluto libra which is my chart ruler and I have moon in the 4h. Also my partner and I both have Juno in aspect to saturn. So yes with the cap and cancer influence we both have and juno in hard aspect to saturn we both have, we value that security.

I like the security of my marriage but I do feel attracted to the idea of an open relationship. His mars conjunct Uranus on his DC does not want to share me. I thought that bc he is uranian he would go for an open relationship but he sees it as too high risk, he thinks he will lose me in the process but I think I would honor the agreement, I am good at been loyal and value our friendship and his loyalty as well.