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manderin
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posted August 26, 2017 08:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
WHY do so many interpretations state that when someone's Sun is conjunct someone's ascendant it shows an extremely powerful attraction? I've known three men with this who I dated and both times they were the sun. In all cases I really had a difficult time seeing them as more than just a pal and really was NOT interested in any of them romantically. No sparks at all on my end... and only one of those guys really seemed genuinely into me. Is this aspect all hype?

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GrlyGirl200
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posted August 27, 2017 11:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl200     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I actually personally think there is a bit of falseness to Asc planet stuff that people don't really touch on. Keep in mind the Asc is essentially how you appear, not who you are or who you are emotionally (it's more but in simple terms its this). So I think this along with Asc to Venus, Mars, and Moon is one of those things that can create a situation in which the person has all these thoughts about the Asc (depending on the planet)...and depending on the inner placements of said Asc they are correct or incorrect.

Another factor to take into consideration is the Sun for a man is not thought to be a sexual planet or point of attraction. A man tends to find his Moon, and Venus (I would include Mars in that...but that is just me) attractive and sexy. So that could be another reason these men are not terribly attractive/attracted to you.

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Kannon McAfee
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posted August 27, 2017 08:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by manderin:
WHY do so many interpretations state that when someone's Sun is conjunct someone's ascendant it shows an extremely powerful attraction?

Don't know, but I don't reach quite that far with how I interpret that. Someone's Sun conjunct or parallel my Asc is someone who tends to be naturally strengthening for me to be around or that I am naturally comfortable or find appealing. Sun person can be easily supportive of the Asc person, but yes, there will generally be some 'fit', even attraction ... depending of course on what else is in the synastry and whether it is pretty good overall.

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I've known three men with this who I dated and both times they were the sun. In all cases I really had a difficult time seeing them as more than just a pal and really was NOT interested in any of them romantically. No sparks at all on my end... and only one of those guys really seemed genuinely into me. Is this aspect all hype?

Maybe from the sources you've been reading. Just because astrology websites have a lot of material about relationship astrology on them does not mean the person(s) behind the site are giving the best interpretations.

And then there is the structural issue of the chart. You can't know for certain you have this aspect unless the Ascendant has been properly tested for validity. That is why I don't bother including interpretations related to the Asc of either chart 90% of the time I chime in here. Unless I have cast the chart myself and validated an Asc I don't bother with interpretation of aspect to it. Ascendants in many charts are just inaccurate. Even charts based on specific times to the minute. They are routinely off far enough to affect aspects in that chart and in synastry with others.

So the main problem is not interpretation, but structure of the chart. Then there may be varying degrees of incomplete or over-reaching interpretation with particular aspects.

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Randall
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posted September 03, 2017 04:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks, Kannon.

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Kannon McAfee
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posted September 03, 2017 10:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was reminded today that a grade school friend with whom I had a mutual attraction (it just didn't go anywhere) was born when the Sun was about 1 from my Asc. Even on fb today she's more attractive to me than any of my other school mates from back then.

It's not something that will necessarily overcome differences in beliefs, worldview, etc.

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manderin
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posted September 04, 2017 04:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, maybe the fact that Sun rules my 12th has something to do with it.

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Randall
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posted September 11, 2017 06:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Indeed.

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