posted August 27, 2017 08:15 PM            

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Originally posted by manderin:
WHY do so many interpretations state that when someone's Sun is conjunct someone's ascendant it shows an extremely powerful attraction?

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Don't know, but I don't reach quite that far with how I interpret that. Someone's Sun conjunct or parallel my Asc is someone who tends to be naturally strengthening for me to be around or that I am naturally comfortable or find appealing. Sun person can be easily supportive of the Asc person, but yes, there will generally be some 'fit', even attraction ... depending of course on what else is in the synastry and whether it is pretty good overall.

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I've known three men with this who I dated and both times they were the sun. In all cases I really had a difficult time seeing them as more than just a pal and really was NOT interested in any of them romantically. No sparks at all on my end... and only one of those guys really seemed genuinely into me. Is this aspect all hype?

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Maybe from the sources you've been reading. Just because astrology websites have a lot of material about relationship astrology on them does not mean the person(s) behind the site are giving the best interpretations.

And then there is the structural issue of the chart. You can't know for certain you have this aspect unless the Ascendant has been properly tested for validity. That is why I don't bother including interpretations related to the Asc of either chart 90% of the time I chime in here. Unless I have cast the chart myself and validated an Asc I don't bother with interpretation of aspect to it. Ascendants in many charts are just inaccurate. Even charts based on specific times to the minute. They are routinely off far enough to affect aspects in that chart and in synastry with others.

So the main problem is not interpretation, but structure of the chart. Then there may be varying degrees of incomplete or over-reaching interpretation with particular aspects.

posted September 03, 2017 10:22 PM            

It's not something that will necessarily overcome differences in beliefs, worldview, etc.

posted September 24, 2018 04:38 AM            

Any ideas on how the owner of the angles would experience this?

posted September 24, 2018 05:36 AM            

I have it with a guy friend, his sun, well 8 degrees from conjuncting my asc. I knew he was a virgo sun just 10 min after meeting him, he has a reserved vibe I know from myself. I "get" him. Why he is so critisizing, etc, how he just wanna help out but it becomes unsufferable. But I understand him atlest!

posted September 24, 2018 07:40 AM            

I'm interested in knowing if anyone has experianced both luminaries of another, conjuncting their angles. Or vice versa.

posted September 24, 2018 09:59 AM            

The girl was a Gemini sun. They just met when he went on a trip with his best friend, so it seemed like the perfect fairytale romance. But with all the Saturn and Capricorn in my boyfriend's chart squaring and opposing her Venus, the feeling was not mutual (as he re-assured me). He had his feet firmly planted on the ground. She caught his attention because she was reading a book (ofc typical Venus in Gemini 🙄 . But it was more of a platonic interest, like the ones you get when you meet unique and interesting strangers. They were friends, but she wanted to be more than that.

She was so into him that even though she already knew he was taken, she would still try to go after him, even after he already came home to me. Then she would get mad and sulk every time her advances were not reciprocated. She stopped talking to him after I confronted her. She got so mad he took my side, she wanted nothing to do with him after. There was only so much I was willing to put up with.

I also have this with my boyfriend's best friend. He's also a Gemini sun and Gemini venus. I cannot stomach the idea of being with him, despite us having a tight Venus/Mars conjunction in Virgo. We also had Venus square Venus though, so that could really play into it. I have met quite a number of Gemini suns in my life, but I was never really into them. I see them as friend material, not boyfriend material. Complete opposite of how I see Sag suns.

posted September 24, 2018 04:35 PM            

(to be clear: it is only a friendship, but if he weren't already in a relationship, I would be v interested in dating him.)

posted October 01, 2018 05:36 PM            

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Originally posted by starrybuffalo:
I call BS! This aspect is for real!
My boyfriend's Sun is conjunct my Ascendant by 1 degree, and we ARE best friends, but that's the whole point.
We have a lot of other positive synastry aspects as well though, so you can't just rely on one aspect to make a relationship.

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posted October 02, 2018 06:00 AM            

But I do know that Sun conjunct DSC is very powerful. Attraction here happens and is quite potent.

I have met many Libra Suns who have expressed romantic interest in me the first time we meet. But then again its "Libra". They express love for everyone lol.

posted October 02, 2018 08:57 AM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
Exactly! I completely agree. The Sun conjunct Ascendant IS an indicator of attraction. If this isn't true for a person then chances are the Sun-AC synastry aspect isn't the issue, it's probably lack of Venus, Mars etc synastry

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posted October 02, 2018 09:11 AM            

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Originally posted by SeaGoat:
LunaIscariot was he attracted to you?

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posted October 02, 2018 09:39 AM            

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Originally posted by SeaGoat:
So in your opinion is it the Descendant person or the Sun person that is more attracted ?

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In my case, it is the Dsc people who are attracted first.

And then afterwards its like "oh OK. I like you too" in my case. Lol.

I attract Libras a lot. I had a dangerously sexy one flirt up a storm when I was at a friend's wedding very recently.

But I didn't "catch" the flirt, as I thought he was just being nice.

Then when I left my friend said that Raj(his name) was wishing me a safe trip. And I peeked through the window and screamed in casual Sag style "thanks friend. Have an awesome one too buddy!"

But my friend looked at me like wtf??? And asked me if I could pick up that he (the Libra)like me in the romantic sense of the word. That it wasn't as casual as I thought.

I totally missed that one.... And the Libra's birthday is coming up soon on the 9th. So I guess I will be seeing him again and see if we will still flirt. Lol

His Sun/Venus and Pluto sit on my DSC in Libra by 2 degree orb. And his Moon is in Taurus trine my Sun(out of sign).

All in all the opposition is close enough to feel similar. But different enough to feel "other".