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Hyperqueen
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posted October 01, 2017 07:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hyperqueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have you ever experienced this? I have it with my best friend and it's draining, but she keeps coming back, and I like her, but omg. I get so insecure because of her

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posted October 01, 2017 08:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hyperqueen:
Have you ever experienced this? I have it with my best friend and it's draining, but she keeps coming back, and I like her, but omg. I get so insecure because of her

Are you the Mars or Node person? I have this aspect with someone I'm the Mars person.

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posted October 01, 2017 09:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hyperqueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Are you the Mars or Node person? I have this aspect with someone I'm the Mars person.

I'm the mars person too!

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posted October 02, 2017 02:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Blues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've found south node connections... educational. There was one lady who put her Saturn on my SN. She helped me grow up a lot among other things. It never was going to last, but she shaped me.

I think they can be kindred, like maybe someone who's there that can help remind you who you are, who you were before this lifetime.

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posted October 02, 2017 07:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Gemini Blues:
I've found south node connections... educational. There was one lady who put her Saturn on my SN. She helped me grow up a lot among other things. It never was going to last, but she shaped me.

I think they can be kindred, like maybe someone who's there that can help remind you who you are, who you were before this lifetime.


Never going to last why? Is that usually the case with South Node connections in synastry?

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posted October 02, 2017 08:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Blues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Never going to last why? Is that usually the case with South Node connections in synastry?

Because she was older, by 5 years, and at that age, 5 years was a lot. Because she was the one "in charge" in the relationship, and yet we both would be more comfortable in traditional roles. And because I would have ultimately resented having a lover for the rest of my life that had already done it all, that I could never have the joy of showing her something new. There were other reasons too, but those were the Saturn conjunct SN ones I thunk.

From what I've read, SN connections begin very comfortably but over time, they start to feel limiting in one way or another.

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posted October 02, 2017 11:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The south node tends to suck the energy from whatever planet it touches. When someone's southnode conjuncts my moon I feel so emotionally drained after being with them for long periods of time. Eventually I have to cut ties with them for my own health.

According to Vedic astrology however, SN conjunct mars in synastry of a romantic relationship is a good thing. This is because mars is a malefic planet and the depleting of it's energy can be a good thing in a romantic relationship. This combination is supposed to deplete the arguing and combativeness between two people in a romantic bond. I've never experienced it though so I can't comment on the validity of this.

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posted October 02, 2017 01:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for OnTheOtherHand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm the south node person and I find it draining. I have it with a guy I met back in April, after one date of maybe an hour or so and a couple of phone calls over a 2 week period I decided I didn't want to take it any further. His Mars is in Cancer so maybe it was just that but I found his manner of communication a bit manipulative and had that same sense of 'I need to get away from this' it's hard to decribe but it's not an 'I'm in danger' thing, it just felt like if I got involved that I'd never get out of it. I told him I didn't want to take it any further yet he still messages regularly, I made the mistake of replying in August but not now.

I know these connections are supposed to be past life ones and he clearly feels a link, mind you we share a couple of other links too but none are strong enough for me. I agree with Manderin about cutting ties for ones own health even though I'm supposedly the draining one. Interesting about Mars/SN being good in Vedic, though it didn't deplete our arguing and combativeness..I think that was me though, our communications just didn't gel.

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posted October 02, 2017 02:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for areesquivel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im South Node and my boyfriend is Mars, though we also have Sun (me) conjunct his North Node so maybe those two are playing a big role...
Anyways as in draining, I would say I drain his energy a bit, his Mars is in Libra 4 degrees away from my South Node, I can be erratic yet he keeps me somehow grounded.

Can I ask where the insecurity comes from? you as the Mars person?

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posted October 02, 2017 02:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for OnTheOtherHand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh wow, I have my sun conjunct his north node too, this is interesting. Yes, where does that inescurity come from? I'd like to know too! I wonder if it's just mars/SN, The sign or house must play a part too I would think?

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posted October 02, 2017 02:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by manderin:
The south node tends to suck the energy from whatever planet it touches. When someone's southnode conjuncts my moon I feel so emotionally drained after being with them for long periods of time. Eventually I have to cut ties with them for my own health.

According to Vedic astrology however, SN conjunct mars in synastry of a romantic relationship is a good thing. This is because mars is a malefic planet and the depleting of it's energy can be a good thing in a romantic relationship. This combination is supposed to deplete the arguing and combativeness between two people in a romantic bond. I've never experienced it though so I can't comment on the validity of this.


So Mars conjunct South Node isn't as bad then?

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posted October 02, 2017 03:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for areesquivel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by OnTheOtherHand:
Oh wow, I have my sun conjunct his north node too, this is interesting. Yes, where does that inescurity come from? I'd like to know too! I wonder if it's just mars/SN, The sign or house must play a part too I would think?

You as the SN person decided to stay away then? maybe the Mars in Cancer has to do with it, my boyfriend has Libra Mars and I believe I'm more combative than he is and somehow I feel he keeps me grounded.

As for the NN/Sun connection I've heard means the NN person feels drawn to the Sun person, he for examples always says he really likes my personality and he finds me more than anything appealing as in personality.

Still wondering how Mars feels about SN then...

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posted October 02, 2017 03:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
So Mars conjunct South Node isn't as bad then?

No it's good in a romantic setting- If you believe the vedic thoughts on this. I haven't seen it though.

I HAVE seen nn+Mars which Vedic astrology considers very bad in a synastry because they say it enhances combativeness and arguing... and I do agree with them on this one.

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posted October 02, 2017 04:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for OnTheOtherHand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, I wonder if the mars in cancer was more it, he came across as quite intense and needy and when we spoke it was quite combative and I perceived alot of what he said at those times as manipulative, I am a bit on the sensitive side though. I'm libra sun with pluto/mars conjunct in Libra too. I also have libra merc so intense communication does tend to put me off
The sun node thing matches my experience too, he said I was like a shining light (!) There were lots of how perfect you are and how funny you are, your hair is perfect etc. I hate all that, say it once or twice and I'll appreciate it but don't keep on when I tell you how uncomfortable it makes me.

I wouldn't necessarily say that these aspects are simply good or bad, it depends on the signs too, like all astrology, and whether you can handle the energies.

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posted October 02, 2017 04:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for OnTheOtherHand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hyperqueen, what does she do that makes you so insecure? If you don't mind me asking?

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posted October 02, 2017 04:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by manderin:
No it's good in a romantic setting- If you believe the vedic thoughts on this. I haven't seen it though.

I HAVE seen nn+Mars which Vedic astrology considers very bad in a synastry because they say it enhances combativeness and arguing... and I do agree with them on this one.


I wonder how this would play out in regards to friendship. This is something about Mars conjunct South Node in synastry.
http://astrolady.wixsite.com/astrolady/mars-conjunct-south-node-in-synastry-ck5c

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posted October 02, 2017 05:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just to make it clear in case it wasn't- What I mean by I haven't seen it is- I haven't seen a couple with this in synastry. So I don't know what to think about it. I only know what I read about it.

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posted October 02, 2017 08:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for areesquivel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I wonder how this would play out in regards to friendship. This is something about Mars conjunct South Node in synastry.
http://astrolady.wixsite.com/astrolady/mars-conjunct-south-node-in-synastry-ck5c

That description fits me "Nevertheless, the South Node person is irresistibly attracted to the Mars person, and the Mars person readily gives the South Node personal sexual pleasure. Mars also supports the Node personís actions and strives to further their goals"

Me as de SN person this is exactly how I feel.

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posted October 03, 2017 02:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jjj     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had it w someone recently (I was SN) but I broke up w him, bc the relationship was going nowhere. We had sex just once , but it was very good and I find myself longing for more sex and he would happily give me more, justvthat besides that I don't feel any potential and it makes me kinda sad and nostalgic. But yes I'm very attracted to him although he is not "my type".

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posted October 03, 2017 03:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I had it w someone recently (I was SN) but I broke up w him, bc the relationship was going nowhere. We had sex just once , but it was very good and I find myself longing for more sex and he would happily give me more, justvthat besides that I don't feel any potential and it makes me kinda sad and nostalgic. But yes I'm very attracted to him although he is not "my type".

Do you have any Saturn aspects with him?

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posted October 03, 2017 04:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jjj     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes but they are quite wide in orb except his Saturn exactly trine ny mars. In parallels his Saturn parallels my AC and my Sun. His Venus trines tightly my NN. But apparently is going nowhere...

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posted October 03, 2017 12:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for OnTheOtherHand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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That description fits me "Nevertheless, the South Node person is irresistibly attracted to the Mars person, and the Mars person readily gives the South Node personal sexual pleasure. Mars also supports the Node personís actions and strives to further their goals"

Me as de SN person this is exactly how I feel.



Oh god, this makes me question whether I'm doing the right thing now! Be strong..

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posted October 03, 2017 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for areesquivel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@OnTheOtherHand

I know we have the same synastry Mars/SN Sun/NN based on that I can tell I do feel we do connect, but then again there are other aspects to take into consideration...

You have a lot of Libra placements basically squaring that Cancer Mars of his... I will tell you this, this guy also has a packed Libra house and I myself have a packed Cancer house, so its A LOT of squares, yet feels right... don't know how to even describe...

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posted October 03, 2017 02:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for OnTheOtherHand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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@OnTheOtherHand

I know we have the same synastry Mars/SN Sun/NN based on that I can tell I do feel we do connect, but then again there are other aspects to take into consideration...

You have a lot of Libra placements basically squaring that Cancer Mars of his... I will tell you this, this guy also has a packed Libra house and I myself have a packed Cancer house, so its A LOT of squares, yet feels right... don't know how to even describe...



Yes, I'm with you..it has to feel right. I'm someone who won't care about the astrology of it if it feels right (other than out of interest to gain insight) if it feels right then all those squares are clearly doing something good...

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posted October 10, 2017 10:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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