posted November 25, 2017 07:40 PM            

1.Chiron Conjunct the North Node

I was the North Node. He was the Chiron. I think the relationship is much more painful for the North Node person because the Chiron person BRINGS the pain. It is not as noticeable to him because he lives with it daily. I have to be blunt or why waste your time reading? In this case, there were so very, very lovely synastry aspects. My Ceres Conjunct his Sun, exact. We have some lovely Venus aspects. However, a life theme of pain is a life theme of pain. That is what I mean by a single aspect ruining an entire relationship. After this, I met a person who had an amazing synastry with me, including his having my Jag position—Mars in Scorpio. In this case, my Chiron was conjunct his North Node. I would never want to be that level source of pain for someone, so I walked away from the relationship before it really started. To me, you never, ever, ever, ever mess with the charts. I would allow an orb of up to 5 degrees.

2. Nessus Conjunct the North Node

I have not experienced this. However, I have seen Nessus play out in synastry enough times to know that it would bring a theme of abuse to the relationship. The Nessus person would bring the abuse to the North Node person. I would allow an orb of up to three degrees.

3.Nessus Conjunct the Sun

I was the Sun. Nessus is a fierce beast when he touches a personal planet or angle. The dude may be good with everyone else but will tear the flesh of you *sigh*. The Nessus person was driven to abuse me like a person bites into a Big Mac in a McDonald’s drive through.

4. Nemesis Conjunct the Moon

I really hate Nemesis. It is a secret enemy. Betrayal hurts soooo much worse when it is by an unexpected source. The Nemesis person will break the heart of the Moon person.

5. Nemesis Conjunct the North Node

Once again, the North Node conjunction will show us a theme. I don’t know who wants secret betrayal?

6. Pluto Square Mars

I would not run from a relationship with this in it B-U-T, there is, likely, going to be some level of very heated interactions. This is an aspect for violence. I don’t think actual violence has to take place, but it will, likely, be close, and likely, cross the line, at times. I would not run from this one aspect because I am not SURE it has to be that bad. I am not convinced the way I am about the others, but I could be wrong and it may, always, bode violence. I have not seen it enough to make that statement, though.
It is a very passionate aspect, too, so has that sexy fighting kind of thing *sigh*

7. No Moon Aspects in Synastry

If I saw that, that would be the end of the relationship for me. The Moon is the heart. People bond heart to heart. If I had to die by firing squad to say one aspect that could mitigate this, I would say Moon/Mercury in good aspect—conjunction, trine or sextile. However, it would have to be very close(1-3 degrees)

8. No Venus Aspects in Synastry

Venus is taste and a “liking” for something/someone. If there are no Venus aspects, there will not be an understanding of tastes. You would be surprised how many things factor into taste——- attraction to the “mannerisms” of the other person, clothes, tastes in activities, music likes and humor, for a few.

9. Bilk Conjunct the North Node

Bilk will play out. How could you marry someone and think they are waiting to take advantage of you? *Shudder*

10 Saturn in Synastry

Saturn is a true double edged sword. Saturn keeps people together like glue. However, in close conjunctions, oppositions or squares(1-4 degrees), the Saturn can break the gentle spirit of the planet person( Moon or Venus, for two examples) due to a constant, carping criticism. Venus and the Moon are very sensitive planets in the natal chart. The Moon is the heart. Venus is one’s love nature.

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posted November 25, 2017 09:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
No single aspect, especially those involving asteroids can 'ruin' an entire relationship.

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posted November 25, 2017 11:31 PM            

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Originally posted by LexusVirgo:
Love this ami. =)

Chiron aspects are awful.i had my Chiron conjunct my first loves Venus his Chiron square my moon and Sun. It was awful

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I hear you, my Friend. Thanks for sharing your experience!

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posted November 25, 2017 11:32 PM            

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posted November 26, 2017 12:18 AM            

What about Chiron conjunct NNode 8 degree orb? Does it still count? & what about Venus square moon? I know two people with these aspects.

posted November 26, 2017 12:23 AM            

What about Chiron conjunct NNode 8 degree orb? Does it still count? & what about Venus square moon? I know two people with these aspects.

posted November 26, 2017 12:33 AM            

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Originally posted by LexusVirgo:
Venus square Saturn.

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Depends, the person involved might be able to handle it.

posted November 26, 2017 07:18 AM            

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posted November 26, 2017 04:22 PM            

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Originally posted by outofideas:
Haha, I researched Bilk and it turns out I have it conjunct my own North Node in the first house in Pisces, within 4 degrees, also conjunct my Antivertex within 1 degree.

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posted November 27, 2017 08:54 AM            

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posted November 27, 2017 11:55 AM            

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Originally posted by LexusVirgo:
Venus square Saturn.

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posted November 28, 2017 05:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
4 degrees is too wide for an asteroid. The Anti vertex is what YOU bring to the world, so Bilk is not too great there, but the trines are good. Just watch any themes of trying to take advantage of people when it comes to money.

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posted November 28, 2017 10:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
I have this with my partner of 6 years - our relationship is excellent.

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Agreed. One aspect is not fatalistic to a relationship. I appreciate the effort with this post but people, don't beat yourself up on an aspect listed here. Astrology is unique and personal. Ami points out aspects to watch for, but one will not make or break an entire relationship. If that were the case, many long term relationships should have fizzled years ago.

posted November 28, 2017 10:19 PM            

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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Agreed. One aspect is not fatalistic to a relationship. I appreciate the effort with this post but people, don't beat yourself up on an aspect listed here. Astrology is unique and personal. Ami points out aspects to watch for, but one will not make or break an entire relationship. If that were the case, many long term relationships should have fizzled years ago.

If you know your synastry with someone, including midpoints and declinations, you can see the full picture. But all too often we see one awful energy connection and throw our hands up like it's the end all. Our transits help with our focus or lack of, which is yet another reason why to study what you've got going on and rely less on singular aspect interpretations. Put the story together by knowing yourself and understanding the energy.

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posted December 06, 2017 06:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
No single aspect, especially those involving asteroids can 'ruin' an entire relationship.

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posted December 15, 2017 08:01 AM            

The only one that ruins a relationship for me seems to be lack of any aspect between my mercury and theirs. Even an effing quincunx between them is better than having no aspects between mercuries in my experience.

When there is no aspect between my mercury and theirs our convo goes like:

posted December 15, 2017 11:22 AM            

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posted December 16, 2017 06:49 AM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
^ I heard marriage tends to turn even good aspects into bad ones.

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No lol

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