posted May 18, 2018 08:51 AM            

But as someone in this thread said, they make you feel like a queen, and he does (besides me naturally being a queen ). And by that, I don’t mean putting you on a pedestal or bending over backwards for you every single time like Pisces. They treat you with equal respect. They will do things for you, but not to the point where they forget about themselves. With a Leo, it’s always us first before anyone. It doesn’t mean we always take advantage of others. It just means our happiness comes first.

Mine always walks with me in public loud and proud. It’s a great feeling.

With your Leo, he’s most likely to not tell you straight up he likes you right away. I don’t care what anyone else says here. There IS such a thing as being busy because of work. Virgo placements are prone to being a workaholic.

With that Mercury/Saturn conjunction, I would think this guy is not a big fan of online or over-the-phone communication. He might already feel uncomfortable talking or expressing his thought in real life, how much more with a mobile device?

I’ve seen Mars in Virgo men play the field before. They want everything to be perfect just like Venus in Virgo (which he also has). He won’t come up to you and tell you what he thinks/feels towards you until he decides it is time or he is good enough to do it.

posted July 08, 2018 07:36 AM            

He doesn't text every day. I wish he would. And if I try to have a conversation each day he has to cut it off (usually for work). He typically apologizes and promises (& does) to contact me later when he's not busy. It's something I wish would change, but at the same time I accept and understand it. I've since given him space. I noticed since I've done so he basically cyber stalks me, liking or commenting/tagging my posts and eventually shooting me a short message. I guess it's just his style. I'll let him take the lead. I just wish he could move faster, but his job prevents us from seeing each other more than a few times a month. He spontaneously got 3 days off and asked to spend it with me. His birthday is coming up and although we have only known each other a short time he wants to spend it with me. So I think these are all good signs.

He also leaves his notifications on his phone, responds quickly, but if I text too often he will cut me off. So I think he's just busy and doesn't have a wife but I'm staying cautious. He says he wants a serious relationship with me and hopes I can be his girlfriend (we're taking things slowly due to past hurt/schedule/long distance).

I did notice a bit of jealousy/possessiveness. He asked if I play around on dating sites once. And he's asked how many boyfriend's I have. I told him I'm single and honestly pretty inexperienced. I also mentioned how I turned down other dates while I waited for him because I like him. We haven't asked each other to be exclusive yet.

He hinted at me switching schools to move to his city a few times. When I told him I wasn't sure I liked my University he mentioned all the good Universities in his town.

posted July 08, 2018 12:07 PM            

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I've since given him space. I noticed since I've done so he basically cyber stalks me, liking or commenting/tagging my posts and eventually shooting me a short message. I guess it's just his style. I'll let him take the lead.

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Is it common for them to be jealous/possessive?

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posted July 14, 2018 08:44 PM            

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Bubbles0o:
[b]I've since given him space. I noticed since I've done so he basically cyber stalks me, liking or commenting/tagging my posts and eventually shooting me a short message. I guess it's just his style. I'll let him take the lead.

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Is it common for them to be jealous/possessive?

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posted August 06, 2018 03:33 PM            

On his Birthday he got called into work. We spent the whole month apart, didn't text much, and we were excited to meet for his Birthday which got canceled. He spent it at work with his co-workers. The next day I text him to ask how his celebration was.

He said it went well. He asked for a photo. I sent him a pic (not a nude). He said that I was beautiful, but my phone is old. So it's not the best quality. It was dark in my room, too. He said I was beautiful, the photo was blurry, and if I don't use filters or beauty software it will be better quality and I will still be beautiful. I got p*ssed. I wasn't using any software or filters, my phone is old. I informed him immediately. He said that's okay, and I was very beautiful and he missed me.

I was still a little angry but didn't want him to know. I had an audition the next day which I didn't tell him about. So I told him good night. He told me he had a wonderful evening and loved talking to me. Not to worry about the phone thing because it won't matter when I get a new phone.

IDK why that just crossed the line for me. I'm very sensitive. I felt like this was happening because he was so busy in the first place. so I said very gently, btw, the pixel count wouldn't matter if we were together. I don't need a new phone I need my man beside me. A few minutes later he asked if I meant when can we see each other. I said no, it means I know you're busy but when we're together my phone quality won't matter....Continued in Next post.

posted August 06, 2018 03:43 PM            

I didn't text him back. Like he's asking me for a report of my schedule. Ugh, the nerve.

I know damn well if I ask I'm not going to get his schedule. He wouldn't be able to give it to me if he wanted to. So I didn't respond to his text. The next day I went to my audition and I posted pictures but didn't tell where I was. He liked the photos on my social media feed.

posted August 06, 2018 09:59 PM            

"I feel hurt because I haven't seen you in a long time and it makes me feel like you don't really care."

This way you don't fall in the trap of playing games and letting pride dictate the outcome of your relationship. You are been authentic and actually trying. At least you are doing your part to avoid playing games.

posted August 07, 2018 05:51 PM            

**I don't like taking the initiative.

I don't want to send him messages telling him my availability or pressing him to see if he can get away from work. It will just **** him off even if it is what he wants now. I want him to come to me. And he expressly said, "You're busy so I just don't want to disturb you. And I never know where you are because you change cities often."

It's true, I change cities often. But so does he. I don't get his schedule. I want him to take the lead. I want him to know how I feel and what I think. But I also know Leo's are very touchy. I'm feeling a little emotional so that's not good.

posted August 07, 2018 06:03 PM            

"I feel hurt because I haven't seen you in a long time and it makes me feel like you don't really care."

Because I know he is genuinely busy.

I want him to take the next step by allowing me to see him more at night when he's off work. He doesn't feel comfortable because it's late and he likes to treat me like a lady I can tell. He's hinted towards me moving to his city for college. But I'm not comfortable doing so until he outright says I don't see you enough you should move here.

He doesn't like me to fly to his city for the weekend because he usually ends up working for 12 hours on one of the days. He's on call and he does get called in a lot. He says it's rude to me. He's so freaking polite it's driving me insane. He even says thank you I had a great evening/time talking to you if we send like 4 texts.

He thinks it's inconveniencing me. I don't know how to say I'm just busy because I miss you like crazy and if I don't find something else to do I'll be texting you and annoying you at work lol.

But honestly, I'd love to do these things for him. I'd love to clean his apartment while he's out working and have dinner ready when he gets off. He has no idea what it could be like because he spends so much time in a hotel. He thinks it's trashy to invite a girl to a hotel so we're always just going on dates in the city.

But at this point, I'm like hey prince charming (maybe the Aries Venus or w/e) you could have gotten into my pants like 30 minutes ago. Let's move things along already. He's crazy gorgeous, intelligent, and respectful. He's irresistible. I'm not like, let's move in together. Just he's gotta cut the chivalry act so we can get a little more physical. And he is always pushing to but I'm not comfortable if I can't "visit" regularly if you know what I mean.

posted August 07, 2018 06:44 PM            

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It's been 6 weeks. Granted I was in Taiwan for 2 weeks on holiday. He was very busy because he works late. But still, he could have asked me to come to visit him so I just feel stupid.

**I don't like taking the initiative.

I don't want to send him messages telling him my availability or pressing him to see if he can get away from work. It will just **** him off even if it is what he wants now. I want him to come to me. And he expressly said, "You're busy so I just don't want to disturb you. And I never know where you are because you change cities often."

It's true, I change cities often. But so does he. I don't get his schedule. I want him to take the lead. I want him to know how I feel and what I think. But I also know Leo's are very touchy. I'm feeling a little emotional so that's not good.

Any advice on how I should talk to him or approach him?

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Sometimes you have to grab the bulls by its horns and take the lead LOL, sounds like neither of you like taking the lead so we have a problem.

Whoever is less busy needs to be more flexible IMO. So if you are less busy then ask him: "When this week will it be an ideal time for us to meet bc we need to make this happen or we are going to fade into the background, I really miss you, I want to see you....blah blah blah....."

lol Sorry, I know you want him to take the lead, what does he have in Mars again?

posted August 07, 2018 06:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Bubbles0o:
I am not comfortable telling him,

"I feel hurt because I haven't seen you in a long time and it makes me feel like you don't really care."

Because I know he is genuinely busy.

I want him to take the next step by allowing me to see him more at night when he's off work. He doesn't feel comfortable because it's late and he likes to treat me like a lady I can tell. He's hinted towards me moving to his city for college. But I'm not comfortable doing so until he outright says I don't see you enough you should move here.

He doesn't like me to fly to his city for the weekend because he usually ends up working for 12 hours on one of the days. He's on call and he does get called in a lot. He says it's rude to me. He's so freaking polite it's driving me insane. He even says thank you I had a great evening/time talking to you if we send like 4 texts.

He thinks it's inconveniencing me. I don't know how to say I'm just busy because I miss you like crazy and if I don't find something else to do I'll be texting you and annoying you at work lol.

But honestly, I'd love to do these things for him. I'd love to clean his apartment while he's out working and have dinner ready when he gets off. He has no idea what it could be like because he spends so much time in a hotel. He thinks it's trashy to invite a girl to a hotel so we're always just going on dates in the city.

But at this point, I'm like hey prince charming (maybe the Aries Venus or w/e) you could have gotten into my pants like 30 minutes ago. Let's move things along already. He's crazy gorgeous, intelligent, and respectful. He's irresistible. I'm not like, let's move in together. Just he's gotta cut the chivalry act so we can get a little more physical. And he is always pushing to but I'm not comfortable if I can't "visit" regularly if you know what I mean.

But I feel like we're dancing around trying to act like a bunch of polite 14 year olds at the school dance! AHHH lol. Help!

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ohhhhhhhhhhhh this is a long distance thing. OH OH I am not good at giving advice about long distance stuff. I don't do long distance, I just don't have the patience for that. I don't even hook up with guys I know are just visiting the area even if we have a history together like my aqua friend who visited me three times this past month and I did not get with him.

I am kind of very virgo in this regard (practical), like I want to be able to see you and you live in another state, in my mind is not worth investing my time in that when there are a bunch of hotties in the city I live in already but I get, he is a CEO who is charming so you feel you should go for it.

posted August 08, 2018 04:05 PM            

I tried to play it cool with him initially. If you're not in my city you're not on my planet didn't work with him. He found many reasons to tell me I was worth traveling to. I then was like yeah but we won't commit because you're a man with needs I understand better than you ever will, haha. Which turned into him trying harder to show me he can be faithful.

Every logical curve ball I send his way...he has a logical and romantic explanation why he can overcome all barriers. Except for his work. So it's clear to me I'll have to move. But I'm not comfortable just doing it or even bringing it up.

Especially since we've seen each other only a handful of times it's hard for me to want to change schools even though I like him. Mainly because I want to spend more time bonding. But I realize we can't really do that bonding to make me feel comfortable unless I am near him.

Even if he wasn't a CEO he'd be perfect. He's a little ball of contradictions. He's sexy and charming. And he's modest. Every rollercoaster I go through he's got something to say to lift me up or bring me down to earth. And he told one of his friends who tried to bring up our age difference/some other obstacles I'm the perfect woman for him. His other friend told me he stood up in front of the whole group to say it. So I feel like we might actually have a shot at making each other really happy here.

posted August 08, 2018 05:03 PM            

You guys sound adorable. How big is the age gap? not that I care, just curious. The guy I am seeing I am 8 years older than him.

Well the good news is your both single and if you like adventures it might be fun moving to his city to see if things work out with him and if they don't for all you know you might end up meeting "the one" in his city, everything happens for a reason.

posted August 09, 2018 01:25 PM            

He's 38 and I'm 27. I know it's quite a gap, but we hardly notice until someone who knows our birthday's points it out.

His city is a working city in China, but there are schools and there's the sea. I'm from the US but I've studied abroad before. There's not much else but he loves his city. I'd be excited to move there and if it doesn't work out I'd be happy staying until the current takes me elsewhere. You can check astrology on a city OMG I didn't even know that! Thanks!

I also tried the I statement with him last night. We were texting. I found out he will be 12 hours away from me in Japan while I'm visiting Tokyo for work. I told him it was comforting he would be near...But..."I feel hurt because I haven't seen you in a long time and it makes me feel like you don't really care." He told me he likes me a lot and he really didn't want to disturb me. I didn't respond and fell asleep thinking about what to say.

The next morning I woke up and posted a picture of the yoga studio I was attending in Tokyo. One minute later he responded by asking me where I was. I didn't get his notification for some reason and a few hours later I responded. He thanked me for telling him and told me where he was and that he'd be around the area. I didn't say anything.

We'll pause here because I have to let you know a small backstory for this to make sense...a few days ago he posted something really cute. So I said, "How is it you're so handsome and sexy, but your mind has such rich content?" He told me some of my pics were very beautiful that day.

Okay, back to the story. I woke up and saw he posted a picture of himself with this caption, "There should be eternal beauty on the world to prove lasting love. There also should be lasting love to prove the eternal love."

posted August 09, 2018 01:46 PM            

And he is a Leo so he is young spirited. I have venus conjunct mars in Leo and like younger guys although I can date guys a few years older than me too but even then they tend to be young at heart when I do.

OMG you live in the US and he is all the way in China!!!!!!!!! That is quite a big lifestyle change although I am sure it would be a great experience to live in a China for a while so yes that could be very exciting.

God bless his Leo heart hahaha he sounds super romantic you are right hahahaha awwww

I am getting sucked into your love story now hahaha

Rooting for you two for real

posted August 10, 2018 01:17 PM            

I totally get that! Even when he's acting all stern you can tell he just wants to be a big cheese the moment no one is looking.

I will keep you all posted. My relationships are a disaster and I am always very appreciative of the help I've received here.

posted January 24, 2019 05:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
I used to say I would never date a Leo man because every single one I met before were always too romantic for my taste. Now I am dating one, he’s great for me because of all the Capricorn in his chart. He’s not too affectionate which I like lol.

But as someone in this thread said, they make you feel like a queen, and he does (besides me naturally being a queen ). And by that, I don’t mean putting you on a pedestal or bending over backwards for you every single time like Pisces.

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posted February 11, 2019 05:34 PM            

I have no advice here, but found your birthdays interesting because my old Leo love and I have SUPER similar birthdays. Mine is March 15 and his is August 3rd. One day off of yourself and your Leo ❤️