posted April 23, 2018 04:29 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Very busy can mean, "I have two jobs and I am married but yes I like you."

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I like that because it is seldom not true.

Well I looked up the ephemeris for the birthday written.

Moon/Jup conj in Can square Pluto- emotionally defensive. Fearful of people getting too close.

Mars conj Venus in Virgo- Strong passions
Feels lust strongly. Demonstrative and physical.

Sat-Merc conj in Virgo- Not very verbally communicative, even shy. Self evaluative and self deprecating.

4 signs in careful Virgo is the personal planets suggest someone cautious. Very cautious and the type to be exacting and critical of himself. Especially when we see that Leo Sun/Venus and Mars is in Virgo- neverending self improvement.

I do get the "busy" part. That you can blame on Sat-Mer conjunction. He really could be very busy as this aspect can create a workaholic of note.

When dating someone who works hard be prepared to talk about work and take an interest in what they do. That could get their attention.

posted April 23, 2018 11:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I like that because it is seldom not true.

Well I looked up the ephemeris for the birthday written.

Moon/Jup conj in Can square Pluto- emotionally defensive. Fearful of people getting too close.

Mars conj Venus in Virgo- Strong passions
Feels lust strongly. Demonstrative and physical.

Sat-Merc conj in Virgo- Not very verbally communicative, even shy. Self evaluative and self deprecating.

4 signs in careful Virgo is the personal planets suggest someone cautious. Very cautious and the type to be exacting and critical of himself. Especially when we see that Leo Sun/Venus and Mars is in Virgo- neverending self improvement.

I do get the "busy" part. That you can blame on Sat-Mer conjunction. He really could be very busy as this aspect can create a workaholic of note.

When dating someone who works hard be prepared to talk about work and take an interest in what they do. That could get their attention.

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posted April 23, 2018 11:47 AM            

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Originally posted by FireVirgo:

But the whole too busy to reply story is a load of BS. It takes five seconds to send a text. If someone is really interested, they will make time to get to know you.

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I second this LOL and I have venus and mars in Leo, do you have Leo in you too?

posted April 23, 2018 12:13 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I second this LOL and I have venus and mars in Leo, do you have Leo in you too?

I feel leos tend to not buy that "busy" B.S. and we don't have much patience for it. We are like either you are in or you are not, make up your mind! LOL

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I have Leo Venus and have two decades experience dating Leo men. When they love you, it's like the sun is shining directly on your head 24 hours a day. Just don't get them in a bad mood.

But I recently had my eye on a Pisces that word-for-word was telling me, what this Leo guy is saying to her. And it was very frustrating for me to read between the lines. That's why I said that!

posted April 23, 2018 01:05 PM            

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Originally posted by FireVirgo:
I have Leo Venus and have two decades experience dating Leo men. When they love you, it's like the sun is shining directly on your head 24 hours a day. Just don't get them in a bad mood.

But I recently had my eye on a Pisces that word-for-word was telling me, what this Leo guy is saying to her. And it was very frustrating for me to read between the lines. That's why I said that!

I just don't understand why people can't be straightforward and honest. I mean, if I'm interested in someone, I have no problem making time for them, no matter how busy I am. It's not that hard!

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My also Venus in Leo husband is like you and I too....

posted April 23, 2018 04:02 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
My also Venus in Leo husband is like you and I too....

11 years I have never felt ignored by him, when we were dating he always wanted to hang out, we were always hanging out.

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posted April 23, 2018 05:23 PM            

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Originally posted by FireVirgo:
That’s how it should be! And you’re right, either you’re in or you’re out. Leo Venus wants ALL the attention! There is no half-way! lol

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Agreed. I too have a Leo Venus and I have no problem going after someone I want. If he doesn't show enough genuine interest or he's not quick enough to keep up with me, on to the next one! I interpret the "too busy" speech as "not that interested" in which case BYEEEEEE.

posted April 23, 2018 06:45 PM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
Agreed. I too have a Leo Venus and I have no problem going after someone I want. If he doesn't show enough genuine interest or he's not quick enough to keep up with me, on to the next one! I interpret the "too busy" speech as "not that interested" in which case BYEEEEEE.

It doesn't matter what sign you are, the rules of dating are universal and they never fail...if someone is into you, they will make time for you. Unless there are extenuating circumstances preventing him from talking to you (of which there are almost none unless he's being shady) I would take his behaviour at face value. Being a almost 40 year old man, he knows EXACTLY what he's doing.

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posted April 24, 2018 11:55 AM            

I feel Leo since we have so much self-worth/self-importance are like:

posted April 24, 2018 09:53 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I feel Leo since we have so much self-worth/self-importance are like:

"How DARE you not give me an explanation?! Don't you know that I am SUPER awesome? Don't you know that is not an option with ME bc I am special?" LOL

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LMAO - I feel like I'm supposed to be embarrassed...but I'm NOT! This is SO me.

posted April 25, 2018 01:47 PM            

Update: I do not know his birth time or place sorry.

The conversation is very one-sided. I ask him questions about himself, he responds promptly. Throw in a few jokes. Felt weird. But when I asked he said I'm good.

I want him to start the conversation with me for a change. I want it to be a real conversation (you know back and forth). If he asked me more about myself I'd feel like he was interested. He says he is. A colleague thought he would converse more in person. He's tried to make plans but I was busy. He said when he's not busy he'll come find me. I believe he's busy and tired because he's a CEO. I'm holding out!

posted April 25, 2018 02:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Bubbles0o:
Thanks for all your responses and insight! It really helps.

Update: I do not know his birth time or place sorry.

The conversation is very one-sided. I ask him questions about himself, he responds promptly. Throw in a few jokes. Felt weird. But when I asked he said I'm good.

I want him to start the conversation with me for a change. I want it to be a real conversation (you know back and forth). If he asked me more about myself I'd feel like he was interested. He says he is. A colleague thought he would converse more in person. He's tried to make plans but I was busy. He said when he's not busy he'll come find me. I believe he's busy and tired because he's a CEO. I'm holding out!

If there's anymore insight or advice you can give let me know.

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CEO huh?! You go girl! sounds like maybe he is legit busy but if he is a CEO the odds that he is married just went up LOL JK. Or his wife left him bc he is a workaholic.

posted April 26, 2018 10:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Bubbles0o:
Thanks so much. Good point. I flat out asked him again if he's officially single - never been married. And he's only had a few girlfriends, but they all failed because he is dedicated to his work. He said he needs someone who is gentle, considerate, and understanding. He says that's why he likes me awww <3 So maybe he doesn't hold the best conversations in text, but we'll see in person?

We have a date next month. Ahhh so excited!!! Please keep your fingers crossed my dating life is a whirlwind haha & again thank you all for all your help. You all really feel like a second family *hugs*

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posted April 26, 2018 11:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Bubbles0o:
Thanks so much. Good point. I flat out asked him again if he's officially single - never been married. And he's only had a few girlfriends, but they all failed because he is dedicated to his work. He said he needs someone who is gentle, considerate, and understanding. He says that's why he likes me awww <3 So maybe he doesn't hold the best conversations in text, but we'll see in person?

We have a date next month. Ahhh so excited!!! Please keep your fingers crossed my dating life is a whirlwind haha & again thank you all for all your help. You all really feel like a second family *hugs*

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posted May 06, 2018 10:20 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Very busy can mean, "I have two jobs and I am married but yes I like you."

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