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Topic: Moon conjunct Mars synastry
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ChildofVenus
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posted November 26, 2019 04:24 PM
  
I guess I just prefer the trine from a guys Mars to my Moon. To me that’s more easier to handle. The energy isn’t so strong and aggressive. But I really like Mars conjunct Mars I feel like a man’s Mars conjunct mine he knows what I like sexually and it makes us sexually compatible.IP: Logged |
athenaia
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posted November 26, 2019 06:43 PM
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ChildofVenus
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posted November 26, 2019 07:44 PM
The Mars person is an ******* who tries to manipulate the Moon person. I’ve been texting this guy and he called me another woman’s name. Tried to say it was a mistake because we have the same numbers. So yeah I’m not dealing with anyone’s Mars on my Moon no thank you.IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted November 26, 2019 09:43 PM
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Originally posted by athenaia:
I kinda love Moon conjunct Mars? I guess it depends on the signs and how "well" functioning the natal planets are (let's say you have a natal t-square with your Moon with malefics like Saturn and Pluto, certainly someone's added Mars would not be pleasant there) I've only experienced it twice as the Moon - in one instance, the sexual chemistry is so thick you could cut it with a knife, but nothing has ever been acted out on. In the second instance, it was lust at first sight. What was supposed to be a friendly platonic dinner ended up with us making out and ripping the clothes off each other a few hours later. Also I was the Mars with someone's Moon once and there was also instant sexual chemistry. This was a years long relationship and it was never short of passion. So I personally endorse this conjunction in synastry...
I'm curious as to how I would feel around anyone else with their Mars in the same place. My Moon/Venus/SN squares my Mars, but it's in Pisces, and I used to not be easy to get a rise out of. Even with him - but I could *not* relax around him at all. From the first moment he arrived. I felt no attraction towards him at all, and had no clue that he was attracted to me. I hadn't been happy with the way he'd treated my sister at times, but I was giving him a chance for her. I have friends with Mars in Gemini, but I think they're further along. IP: Logged |
Bismarck2
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posted November 26, 2019 11:15 PM
What happens if the man is the moon person?IP: Logged |
Librapurr
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posted November 27, 2019 12:35 AM
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Originally posted by athenaia:
I kinda love Moon conjunct Mars? I guess it depends on the signs and how "well" functioning the natal planets are (let's say you have a natal t-square with your Moon with malefics like Saturn and Pluto, certainly someone's added Mars would not be pleasant there) I've only experienced it twice as the Moon - in one instance, the sexual chemistry is so thick you could cut it with a knife, but nothing has ever been acted out on.
It started like that in DW Mars trine moon, were nice in the beginning. However, I think because nothing happened, it became like this :
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Originally posted by teasel:
I agree that it’s about power and control, but I also do not like mars conjunct my moon/Venus. My BIL not only hit on me, but he caused a hell of a lot of trouble. When I was avoiding him when he was staying in this house (I also had other reasons for not being around him, like a different sleep schedule), he started a huge argument, yelling out at the house from upstairs, because I was avoiding him.
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
The Mars person is an ******* who tries to manipulate the Moon person. .
As above, his Mars were acted the most crazy, possibly, because I tried to avoid him.
I tried to keep positive attitude as long as I could, but his Mars were going more and more negative. With Pluto in the mix, it became pretty tense.
I wonder if all this negative and power struggle only because sexual tension couldn’t be released.It seems like mostly only people who weren’t in physical relationships with their Mars/Moon synastry had the negative experience with it. IP: Logged |
kani
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posted November 27, 2019 07:00 AM
I have a DW mars moon conjunct with my boyfriend in synastry and it can create a lot of energy that sometimes also gets released via arguments. It's not always about sex, well at least with me. I had much thicker sexual attraction with Mars opp Venus/Sun and Venus conj. PlutoIP: Logged |
H20AC
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posted November 27, 2019 11:09 AM
I’m a woman and I have Moon in Libra in the 8th. I have had this aspect with a coworker. His Mars was right on my Moon and to this day he keeps calling me and try to get close to me. I don’t know why but I don’t usually feel super attracted to the Mars person, also my stellium falls inside his 4th conjunct his IC and other planets.
I prefer Aries Mars opposite my Moon. It’s a bit scary. Intimidating. But better than the conjunction.IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted November 27, 2019 11:21 AM
What about Moon trine Mars?IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted November 27, 2019 11:22 AM
I've a t-square involving Mars/Moon/Venus so anyone putting their Mars on my Moon will not be well-received as it will be squaring my Mars at the same time. I know a guy online who puts his Mars on my Moon and while he's very keen to meet me, I'm not. In fact, I find him a little too cheeky...trying too hard to impress. One that turns my t-square into a grand cross seems to work though, like my ex who has his Mars opposite my Mars, and even though it also square my Moon/Venus. My current guy has his Sun opposite my Mars square Moon/Venus and it also works. Sexual chemistry with both were/are fantastic, in different ways. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted November 27, 2019 11:34 AM
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
I feel that most of the time, he’s not as aggressive as I’d like him to be in bed. He was at first, but at that time, I didn’t like aggressive sex yet because I was too young. Now I’ve gotten older, it feels that the switch flipped on both of us. As we’ve gotten serious, he started getting less aggressive. He says it’s because he doesn’t like doing nasty things to girls he actually cares about. I’m like.. wth?
Cancer Mars are really tender and nurturing during lovemaking. My guy has this Mars sign as well and it trine my Pisces Mars. He's never rough with me and I like it.
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MMarie
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posted November 27, 2019 11:41 AM
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Originally posted by H20AC:
I’m a woman and I have Moon in Libra in the 8th. I have had this aspect with a coworker. His Mars was right on my Moon and to this day he keeps calling me and try to get close to me. I don’t know why but I don’t usually feel super attracted to the Mars person, also my stellium falls inside his 4th conjunct his IC and other planets.
I prefer Aries Mars opposite my Moon. It’s a bit scary. Intimidating. But better than the conjunction.
Do you feel the mars in the opposition has the same attraction towards you as in the conjunction?
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Randall
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posted December 04, 2019 06:16 PM
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SoulOfABird
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posted December 05, 2019 05:43 AM
You know.. I was just about to make a topic about this aspect. I just can't get behind the hype of moon-mars aspect in synastry. I don't know why. Although, I probably don't have a right to talk because Ive been single since birth, but from my experience the guys Ive been attracted to are not Aquarius mars. My moon is in Aqua but the idea of Aqua energy sexually doesn't do much for me. The sexual nature is too airy and unconventional for my liking.
Aqua is supposed to be unemotional and detached.. that energy during sex? Uhh Im not really feeling it. I know guys with mars in Aqua conjunct my moon and Id see them more as friends.
When I think of sexual intercourse, with no feeling behind the act just doesn't really bring out my femininity or turn me on.
For that reason I just cant understand the hype of Aqua mars.. I barely even like Aqua moon men.
Despite people thinking Aqua moon is unemotional, Im pretty emotional. IP: Logged |
SoulOfABird
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posted December 05, 2019 05:55 AM
Honestly Im jealous of water moon women because water mars men are the best lovers (especially Cancer and Pisces mars) in my opinion. And the most attractive 😩IP: Logged |
Annerice
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posted December 05, 2019 08:25 AM
my partner's mars (gemini) squares my moon (virgo). He often gets on my nerves, LOL.
We also have mars-venus opposition.
I would say the moon-mars aspect in our case is more about heated discussions or verbal quarrels between us, than of great chemistry.But I remember having a huge attraction to a male whose mars conjuncts my moon (4 degrees), though we have other aspects in synastry. IP: Logged |
Sara1984
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posted December 20, 2019 06:36 AM
Do you think having this conjunction in Libra (3°) can be less "aggressive"? My moon is in the 5th house and his mars is in the 9th. Moreover in the same houses we also have the conjunction at 0° with the child esteroid.  I really love virile and hot-blooded men (I'm a scorpio woman with capricorn mars and asteroid eros in the 8th house) and I don't get scared easily but I've read disasters about this conjunction and I am a little bit scared for my lovely sweet moon in the 5th house (which it's squared with my hot Mars in my natal chart and therefore we have a "wonderful" Mars square Mars in synastry) XD IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted December 20, 2019 11:40 AM
I hate this aspect the man is only sexually interested in the woman and nothing more. The Mars (man) will try to emotionally manipulate the woman to try and get sex out of her. The guy thought that if he showed me a meme about how it's important for people to make love during sex because it's spiritual. That it's ok for him to revert back to asking to see my breasts.Even when I try to change the subject to something else he'll find a way to make it about sex. I don't see why people make a big deal about this aspect being so romantic and loving. Because that's not the case at all or at least it isn't for me. I just feel like I'm being pursued by a sex addict. IP: Logged |
anska5
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posted December 20, 2019 12:10 PM
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I don't see why people make a big deal about this aspect being so romantic and loving. [/B]
I don't think people call this aspect "romantic", strongly sexual and emotionally charged, yes. They only differentiate, that it's often present in "romantic relationships" i.e. non-platonic, but definitely not "romantic" in the sense "lovey dovey". What you are describing sounds more like this guy has a pluto flavoured mars or some other pluto theme going on in your synastry which causes this effect. I love moon conjunct mars and while the mars person in my case left no doubt that he was very sexually attracted to me and the attraction was out of this world, I certainly didnt feel hounded...
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ChildofVenus
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posted December 20, 2019 12:17 PM
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Originally posted by anska5:
I don't think people call this aspect "romantic", strongly sexual and emotionally charged, yes. They only differentiate, that it's often present in "romantic relationships" i.e. non-platonic, but definitely not "romantic" in the sense "lovey dovey". What you are describing sounds more like this guy has a pluto flavoured mars or some other pluto theme going on in your synastry which causes this effect. I love moon conjunct mars and while the mars person in my case left no doubt that he was very sexually attracted to me and the attraction was out of this world, I certainly didnt feel hounded...
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Sara1984
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posted December 20, 2019 01:36 PM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I hate this aspect the man is [b]only sexually interested in the woman and nothing more. The Mars (man) will try to emotionally manipulate the woman to try and get sex out of her. The guy thought that if he showed me a meme about how it's important for people to make love during sex because it's spiritual. That it's ok for him to revert back to asking to see my breasts.Even when I try to change the subject to something else he'll find a way to make it about sex. I don't see why people make a big deal about this aspect being so romantic and loving. Because that's not the case at all or at least it isn't for me. I just feel like I'm being pursued by a sex addict. [/B]
I'm sorry to hear this! In my case I don't think this will happen, especially because he seems a little intimidated/overwhelmed by me. And it is also because he is a true gentleman with women IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
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posted December 20, 2019 03:05 PM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I hate this aspect the man is [b]only sexually interested in the woman and nothing more. The Mars (man) will try to emotionally manipulate the woman to try and get sex out of her. The guy thought that if he showed me a meme about how it's important for people to make love during sex because it's spiritual. That it's ok for him to revert back to asking to see my breasts.Even when I try to change the subject to something else he'll find a way to make it about sex. I don't see why people make a big deal about this aspect being so romantic and loving. Because that's not the case at all or at least it isn't for me. I just feel like I'm being pursued by a sex addict. [/B]
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Randall
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posted December 25, 2019 09:49 PM
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ChildofVenus
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posted December 26, 2019 01:27 PM
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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
What sign?
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NxNW
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posted July 04, 2020 11:36 AM
I have a Gem Moon in the 11-H and I find that most men I've encountered with their Gem Mars conjunct my Moon are really interesting at first b/c our conversations flowed well but it would later on become somewhat of a power struggle where they'd try to talk over me. Sometimes they'd be argumentative just for fun but this can easily devolve into a negative experience for me where I, the Moon, feel belittled/insulted and just plain emotionally drained.So obviously this Mars-Moon aspect depends a lot on other synastry factors between the two people but it doesn't necessarily imply the two are secretly attracted to one another by default. I also do think maybe the signs matter in this. Like the previous comment about Aquarius, maybe Air signs with this aspect are less likely to feel it in the same way that the more sensual/sexual/emotional Earth/Fire/Water signs might? IP: Logged |
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