posted May 08, 2018 09:44 AM            

Could it be that those men with Mars conjunct your Moon felt like "real" men. Thereby allowing your Cap Moon to relax and feel protected(don't mean to sound sexist)?

Imo I think its still your Cap Moon that saw Pisces Moon as "weak". Unless your Mars is in aspect to Pluto/Uranus/Saturn or in the 1st,10th,11th or 6th house.

Mars in Pisces ime tends to appreciate the artist, drifter,romantic,bleeding heart types. So these people are " soft " by nature.

My sister has Mars/Uranus, Mars/Saturn opp and very few men impress her. She also has Venus/Jupiter in Aries(Mars-like) and her Moon in 1st.

Her 7th house cusp is in Cap and so I think Cap placements or Saturn strong people may have a chance.

Moon in Aries, Moon in Cap,Moon in Scorpio females or those with Mars,Saturn,Pluto in aspect to the Moon don't like "soft" guys ime(barring Mars/Venus considerations)

I am a gay male. Some guys hit on me and I don't know how to take that as my Moon is square Mars,Venus conj Saturn and Mars is on the Asc by opp. So I don't like being "passified" and interpret their initiatives as that.

However I do like to chase. My Mars is conjunct the 7th and sextile Jupiter and trines N.Node. I always see myself as the initiator and more passive guys-those with Moon in Pisces, Cancer,Lib,Tau(barring other aspects) arouse me. I like "soft" guys.

Even guys with Mars in Libra,Pisces, Cancer or Taurus I don't find threatening. (Barring other aspects from Pluto,Saturn etc). So even when they approach.,I can be more receptive because I can flip the script on them.

The best experience was with a Mars in Cancer opp Neptune conjunct my Moon in Cancer. They were very soft and I liked that so I didn't play hard to get when they made a move.

posted May 09, 2018 05:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Interesting.

Could it be that those men with Mars conjunct your Moon felt like "real" men. Thereby allowing your Cap Moon to relax and feel protected(don't mean to sound sexist)?

Imo I think its still your Cap Moon that saw Pisces Moon as "weak". Unless your Mars is in aspect to Pluto/Uranus/Saturn or in the 1st,10th,11th or 6th house.

Mars in Pisces ime tends to appreciate the artist, drifter,romantic,bleeding heart types. So these people are " soft " by nature.

My sister has Mars/Uranus, Mars/Saturn opp and very few men impress her. She also has Venus/Jupiter in Aries(Mars-like) and her Moon in 1st.

Her 7th house cusp is in Cap and so I think Cap placements or Saturn strong people may have a chance.

Moon in Aries, Moon in Cap,Moon in Scorpio females or those with Mars,Saturn,Pluto in aspect to the Moon don't like "soft" guys ime(barring Mars/Venus considerations)

I am a gay male. Some guys hit on me and I don't know how to take that as my Moon is square Mars,Venus conj Saturn and Mars is on the Asc by opp. So I don't like being "passified" and interpret their initiatives as that.

However I do like to chase. My Mars is conjunct the 7th and sextile Jupiter and trines N.Node. I always see myself as the initiator and more passive guys-those with Moon in Pisces, Cancer,Lib,Tau(barring other aspects) arouse me. I like "soft" guys.

Even guys with Mars in Libra,Pisces, Cancer or Taurus I don't find threatening. (Barring other aspects from Pluto,Saturn etc). So even when they approach.,I can be more receptive because I can flip the script on them.

The best experience was with a Mars in Cancer opp Neptune conjunct my Moon in Cancer. They were very soft and I liked that so I didn't play hard to get when they made a move.

I am curious as to what aspects your Moon makes?

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posted May 09, 2018 05:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
I think it really depends on what the underlying energy of the conjunction is. And by that, I mean, the sign it’s in. I have Moon in Cancer, conjunct my bf’s Mars in Cancer. It feels really nice. He gets so protective of me and he takes care of me only when I want/need it (which is not all the time). It doesn’t feel as smothering as it should. He also has Moon in Cap though, so that really highly plays into it. Although I am very highly sexually attracted to him (my Mars trine his Venus), I feel that most of the time, he’s not as aggressive as I’d like him to be in bed. He was at first, but at that time, I didn’t like aggressive sex yet because I was too young. Now I’ve gotten older, it feels that the switch flipped on both of us.

As we’ve gotten serious, he started getting less aggressive. He says it’s because he doesn’t like doing nasty things to girls he actually cares about. I’m like.. wth? That literally sounds so backwards imo, especially to my Mars in Libra. Most of the time, I am doing most of the work and I don’t feel like I can truly relax and be sensual. It didn’t use to bother me, but only time will tell when it will catch up.

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posted May 10, 2018 05:21 AM              

I won’t even say it’s easier, either.

posted May 10, 2018 06:55 AM            

I have my (female) mars (and NN) conjunct someone's moon in leo; and his venus-mars conjunction is semi-square my moon.

posted May 10, 2018 09:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
It’s not hotter than the square

I won’t even say it’s easier, either.

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posted May 10, 2018 09:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Starry~*:
I will second this. Current BF has Mars in Libra conjunct my moon. HOT.

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posted May 11, 2018 09:59 AM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
My 9th house Mars is trine 5th house Scorpio Pluto (3 degrees) and sextile my Uranus-Neptune Cap 7th house conjunction (1 degree). I also have a 10th house Aries Venus so I suppose I like a man who is blunt and honest in love like me.

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Mars in 9th.
Your Mars trine Pluto
Mars sextile Uranus
Mars conjunct Neptune

Are those the placements?

posted May 12, 2018 06:14 AM            

I have a male friend who liked me in the past where his Mars on my Moon, he even tried to give me a clue that he would propose me by pretending borrowed my finger ring, but it didn't create the spark I wanted, I said we would be best as a best friend, so we are, he is the one friend who is in sync with me, we kind of respect each other like what I want. It's different with the square or the opposition though. My Mars's husband has a wide square to my Moon, our relationship is definitely not boring. I have venus in 3rd house and he has venus in Gemini. I abhor boredom in a relationship, but I am glad his Moon doesn't make an aspect to my Mars as I know Moon can get irritated a lot with Mars. Like I do to him lol. (Moon conjunct Mars can be a hit or a miss, in my opinion conjunction aspect can be a hit or a miss)

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As we’ve gotten serious, he started getting less aggressive. He says it’s because he doesn’t like doing nasty things to girls he actually cares about. I’m like.. wth? That literally sounds so backwards imo, especially to my Mars in Libra. Most of the time, I am doing most of the work and I don’t feel like I can truly relax and be sensual. It didn’t use to bother me, but only time will tell when it will catch up.

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Your bf has moon in Cap, mars in Cancer, and venus in Gem, right? (Leo sun?)

My husband has the same moon, mars, and venus placement. He was very very aggressive and emotional in the beginning of our relationship, he even cried one time and other times almost cried after we did it! Then he slowly was just being aggressive, he liked to dominate, sometimes I felt like I was being punished because it could go wild, rough, and kinky. Rarely a gentle romantic sensual intimacy (which I like, Taurus Mars is one of yummy for my water venus), he often told me that he would tie me and sometimes he did. On a day off, we could spend a day just in the bedroom/house, he didn't want to go anywhere which surprising for his sun sign.

After we got married and I am pregnant, he still wants it everyday. Even if I say I am tired and not in the mood because of the pregnancy and all the work, he keeps trying his luck by persuading or trying to get my pants off in a playfully way. But we kind of have a give and take intimacy, sometimes he wants me to do all the work (it doesn't bother me as finally I can move as what I want), other times he wants to dominate. He still sometimes wants to tie me though, and slap my butt/my breasts or squeeze/suck my breast pretty hard (sometimes I don't like how hurt it can be like but he keeps doing it, like, he gets angry during intimacy lol).

The strange thing is, he seems always get turn on when we fight (if it's not a volatile one) and also if I cry because of how mean he can be with words. And likes being babied! (not in a smothering way though)

posted May 14, 2018 12:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Mars in 9th.
Your Mars trine Pluto
Mars sextile Uranus
Mars conjunct Neptune

Are those the placements?

And the Moon?

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posted May 14, 2018 12:57 AM            

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Hmm.. I don't think I will be attracted to a Man who has their fire Mars conjunct my fire Moon. I have venus in water, I prefer earth/water Mars and most of the time attracted to them for a relationship more than to air/fire Mars. But I do get a long best as a friend with fire/air Mars as my Mars is in fire.

I have a male friend who liked me in the past where his Mars on my Moon, he even tried to give me a clue that he would propose me by pretending borrowed my finger ring, but it didn't create the spark I wanted, I said we would be best as a best friend, so we are, he is the one friend who is in sync with me, we kind of respect each other like what I want. It's different with the square or the opposition though. My Mars's husband has a wide square to my Moon, our relationship is definitely not boring. I have venus in 3rd house and he has venus in Gemini. I abhor boredom in a relationship, but I am glad his Moon doesn't make an aspect to my Mars as I know Moon can get irritated a lot with Mars. Like I do to him lol. (Moon conjunct Mars can be a hit or a miss, in my opinion conjunction aspect can be a hit or a miss)

Your bf has moon in Cap, mars in Cancer, and venus in Gem, right? (Leo sun?)

My husband has the same moon, mars, and venus placement. He was very very aggressive and emotional in the beginning of our relationship, he even cried one time and other times almost cried after we did it! Then he slowly was just being aggressive, he liked to dominate, sometimes I felt like I was being punished because it could go wild, rough, and kinky. Rarely a gentle romantic sensual intimacy (which I like, Taurus Mars is one of yummy for my water venus), he often told me that he would tie me and sometimes he did. On a day off, we could spend a day just in the bedroom/house, he didn't want to go anywhere which surprising for his sun sign.

After we got married and I am pregnant, he still wants it everyday. Even if I say I am tired and not in the mood because of the pregnancy and all the work, he keeps trying his luck by persuading or trying to get my pants off in a playfully way. But we kind of have a give and take intimacy, sometimes he wants me to do all the work (it doesn't bother me as finally I can move as what I want), other times he wants to dominate. He still sometimes wants to tie me though, and slap my butt/my breasts or squeeze/suck my breast pretty hard (sometimes I don't like how hurt it can be like but he keeps doing it, like, he gets angry during intimacy lol).

The strange thing is, he seems always get turn on when we fight (if it's not a volatile one) and also if I cry because of how mean he can be with words. And likes being babied! (not in a smothering way though)

Maybe his Mars trine Pluto makes him likes the rough? Does your bf has Mars/Pluto?

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"I know Moon can get irritated a lot with Mars. Like I do to him lol. (Moon conjunct Mars can be a hit or a miss, in my opinion conjunction aspect can be a hit or a miss)"

VERY TRUE. There was fighting sometimes but I dealt with it lol

posted May 14, 2018 11:28 AM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
Mars is sextile Uranus AND sextile Neptune because Uranus and Neptune are conjunct each other. In other words, Uranus and Neptune are both at 18 degrees of Capricorn sextile my Mars at 19 degrees of Pisces.

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Oh OK. I see

Mars sextile Uranus
Mars sextile Neptune
Mars in 9th

Uranus/Neptune conjunct has unusual spiritual interests or interest in the paranormal.

Mars in aspect to both would suggest am unusual sex drive or unconventional approach to sex. Maybe even finding unusual people sexy i.e not into the conventional good looks types of people.

Now looking on to the Moon can also point to aspects influencing the emotional attraction.

posted November 26, 2019 10:13 AM              

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I don't think I like this aspect in synastry as the Moon person, it just seems like the Mars person is only interested in sex. Too sexually aggressive it's a turn-off I feel this might be a "rape" aspect.

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Good grief! These kind of generalizations are not only not very accurate in most cases (as many or most men are not rapists to begin with), but can be harmful.

Many of my good, platonically based female friends happen to have Virgo Moon, and near my Virgo Mars Jupiter conjunction (it really is a strong, repeating pattern).

I was sexually involved with many of them in Egypt (long story, but there was a "state" program of creating more purely human bodies at the time because of some weird, left over animal mixing that had happened in much earlier times when the Earth wasn't quite so slow vibratory and so physically "set"*), but in this life, while there is some attraction, it's not that strong or overwhelming, and in fact, one of these friends hit on me in what could be considered a rather crude way.

While Mars is very 1st Center resonant, Moon is very 2nd Center resonant i.e. the Moon can be a little lusty herself, though in a different way than Mars. That's why a strong combination of them, along with other supporting factors, can indicate a very strong mutual romantic-sexual attraction, and potentially even more than Venus, because Venus is 4th Center based and is faster vibratory than the Moon (i.e. less resonant with slow vibratory physical energies).

*(This "state" program involved many fully or nearly fully human priests and priestesses voluntarily having sex with each other to produce more and more purely human bodies for Souls to incarnate it. This is one of the more "out there" information found in the Cayce work, but my partner has had dreams about being involved in these programs, even back to early Atlantis, as well has having a very intense dream about incarnating in a part human part horse body that was a very difficult life for her).

posted November 26, 2019 10:41 AM              

There has been a couple exceptions to this (one major and one minor), and ironically, it's these women that I chased, which ran away.

Life, go figure, when I finally go and be all "male" like, two women that I am very attracted to were like, "see yah later." Sometimes you just got to laugh with life (laughing at yourself...).

In the first case, my Moon was in a general sextile relationship to her Mars, and her Moon was in a general sextile relationship to my Mars, neither in technical aspect. But we had mutual Venus Mars oppositions with her Mars in my 1st.

posted November 26, 2019 10:42 AM            

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
[b]I don't think I like this aspect in synastry as the Moon person, it just seems like the Mars person is only interested in sex. Too sexually aggressive it's a turn-off I feel this might be a "rape" aspect.

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Good grief! These kind of generalizations are not only not very accurate in most cases (as many or most men are not rapists to begin with), but can be harmful.

Many of my good, platonically based female friends happen to have Virgo Moon, and near my Virgo Mars Jupiter conjunction (it really is a strong, repeating pattern).

I was sexually involved with many of them in Egypt (long story, but there was a "state" program of creating more purely human bodies at the time because of some weird, left over animal mixing that had happened in much earlier times when the Earth wasn't quite so slow vibratory and so physically "set"*), but in this life, while there is some attraction, it's not that strong or overwhelming, and in fact, one of these friends hit on me in what could be considered a rather crude way.

While Mars is very 1st Center resonant, Moon is very 2nd Center resonant i.e. the Moon can be a little lusty herself, though in a different way than Mars. That's why a strong combination of them, along with other supporting factors, can indicate a very strong mutual romantic-sexual attraction, and potentially even more than Venus, because Venus is 4th Center based and is faster vibratory than the Moon (i.e. less resonant with slow vibratory physical energies).

*(This "state" program involved many fully or nearly fully human priests and priestesses voluntarily having sex with each other to produce more and more purely human bodies for Souls to incarnate it. This is one of the more "out there" information found in the Cayce work, but my partner has had dreams about being involved in these programs, even back to early Atlantis, as well has having a very intense dream about incarnating in a part human part horse body that was a very difficult life for her).

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posted November 26, 2019 11:04 AM              

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You mentioned that you were sexually involved with many of your friends who you have this with. So yeah that says a lot.

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I should have clarified that this was in another life. I did say that in this life, while there was some mutual attraction, it wasn't that strong. To clarify further: We are all completely platonic in this life.

One of these friends did hit on me in this life, but I gently rebuffed her. Had she been single at the time or in an open relationship, and if she wasn't so close with my partner (they are besties), then I probably wouldn't have rebuffed her.

Yes, it does sound like the guy you've been communicating with is a bit sexually aggressive and pushy, but rape is a very strong word and shouldn't be used lightly. Problem is, I would say on average, in the west, I would hazard an intuitive guess about 30 to 40% men are like the guy you are talking about. And the younger they are, the more that percentage goes up. You may perhaps be a bit naive to men's nature?*

The more free testosterone they have, the more they tend to be like this. When I was younger, I was loaded up with the stuff, but because of my deeper beliefs, because of how I was raised by my Mom, and because I am a very old soul, I was always quite passive in romance. More like a woman in the sense that I focused more on attracting and being chased, rather than chasing. I have very strong Venus energy, with Libra Moon, Taurus MC, and Venus in the 7th opposed my Ascendant.

I find it immensely ironic that the couple times that I was a bit more aggressive and more "chasy", the women ran. When earlier, I had girlfriends break up with me because I was TOO passive.

* (Oh honey, let me channel my inner woman or gay man briefly, and tell you a little secret about many straight to straight'ish males. Men have this problem with their hearts. Many men's hearts are far more closed than many women's hearts. But, deep down, some part of them miss and does desire connection with their inner feminine, but they are unconscious of that. They start to unconsciously equate sex with women as a way to connect to the Feminine/Yin, which some part of them knows there is a lack of connection to.This of course, doesn't work, you can't fix an inner problem with outer patches.

So when you add the stronger testosterone, the f' or kill it hormone, along with this gaping hole of where connection to their own hearts and Feminine/Yin energy could and should be, you get beings that become overly focused on the physical act of sex. Not all men are wired this way, for some it's a physical difference, and for others, it's an energetic difference [me], but many males are wired this way until their hormone levels start decreasing as they get older and their bodies more imbalanced.

This is just a sad fact of human life for now. The good news is that it's a gradually improving situation, and there are more and more older Souls coming in, and we're upping the collective vibration of humanity slowly but surely and this is leading to more and more men with more and more open hearts and who are generally more conscious).

posted November 26, 2019 03:29 PM            

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I should also add that rape is often far less about sexual attraction and desire, and more about power and control.

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posted November 26, 2019 03:30 PM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion:
I should also add that rape is often far less about sexual attraction and desire, and more about power and control.

Mars is more the former, though it can partake of the latter some. But the latter is more twisted Saturn and Pluto, along with Mars, and with little of the fast vibratory or Yin attuned energies to balance it all out.

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I agree that it’s about power and control, but I also do not like mars conjunct my moon/Venus. My BIL not only hit on me, but he caused a hell of a lot of trouble. When I was avoiding him when he was staying in this house (I also had other reasons for not being around him, like a different sleep schedule), he started a huge argument, yelling out at the house from upstairs, because I was avoiding him. After a couple of hours of arguing, my dad escorted him to a motel for the night.