posted July 04, 2018 10:13 AM            

Trying again.

Mars mars mars. Aries ASC, mars in first, Scorpio stellium! A lot of energy happening here. Passion, intensity, yet stability too. A grand trine in Earth of Saturn, Moon and Mars. A lot of deep connectedness between you two.

Saturn is on MC and opposite Chiron on IC, so watch for this. This squares the ASC, and that can be very rough indeed. I do feel like the grad trine and otherwise well aspected Saturn will help you immensely. What I do also see is that it may be hard to access this. I say this because you have a large stellium in the 9th of outer planets. But it's stuck inside and hard to get to. 9th and 3rd houses have important lessons to accomplish. This is about learning and expansion. Sag starts the 9th house, so use Sag activities to get to this learning and stability. Play, have fun, broaden your perspectives and learn through experience and travel... 3rd starts with gemini so lighter learning, reading, communication will help understand and work with your Chiron wounds. Otherwise this stability can be very hard to get to for you.

I do think the trine from Moon and Mars, and all of this earth, gives you the ability to succeed.

EDIT: you can also use your partnering and the daily routines of your life to support the learning you need for the 9th and 3rd house axis. This means the opposite houses are important too- 1 and 12. By building your relationship with expanding your spiritualism and developing your individual selves, it will benefit and boost your learning together as a couple. These signs highlighted are Libra and Aries. So drive and identity as individuals but also balanced by harmony as a couple and in your day to day endeavors. I know this can be said of any couple, but you two more than most. This will be very important.

posted July 04, 2018 12:10 PM            

Right off the bat I really love this composite.
I’m seeing lots of compatibility and harmony with all the trines and sextiles so that’s great.
Also the kites and grand trines with pretty much all the planets involved and integrated is ideal.
There is no afflictions in this composite besides the oppositions from mars, but since it’s part of a pattern it’s a lot more constructive and actually beneficial since you have so many harmonious aspects, it’s nice to have a few hard so the relationship doesn’t feel too boring/easy or lazy, adds some much needed spice and excitement. Stelliums also benefit greatly from an opposition whether in synastry or composite, since it adds balance.

The stellium of sun,venus,Pluto in Scorpio and in the 7th tells me there is great potential for a very deep, intimate, passionate and intensely bonded relationship. Also very emotionally fulfilling with all the lovely harmonious moon aspects, great emotional understanding and compatibility.
Only odd ball out is that mercury in sag lol since all the other planets are in water or earth and it’s not part of a trine. So this probably means the only “issue” you may have is communication, since it’s lacking in aspects for the most part and that mars opp mercury shows a potential for arguments or combative communication. Or challenging each other’s opinions in a more abrasive manner.

Also, the fact that planets are in the 5, 7th and 8th is great for a romantic relationship and a bonus that Saturn is nicely aspected. So longevity and stability/commitment is possible too, especially with all the fixed signs and earth signs.

posted July 04, 2018 04:02 PM            

My only concern is that he is almost 6 years younger than me! I don’t know whyyyyyy I always attract younger guys and friends. It’s annoying.

Ask my natal chart is all air and fire and I feel like this composite is the opposite, how does that affect me? I’m grateful for the Aries ascendant in composite.

posted July 04, 2018 04:02 PM            

His:

Synastry

posted July 04, 2018 07:06 PM            

HIm- Juno in composite squares his Sun/Chiron. Mars Sun Venus in composite squares his natal Leo Moon. Composite Saturn squares his Libra venus. Pluto is conjunct his natal NN.

So to bring this all home, for you this is to show that you will grow as an individual in the strength of who you are through your relationship. As the two of you come together and accomplish, just by being, you will benefit and strengthen your idea of who you are. Uranus square your mars- I see that as the unexpected wakes up your actions. This is good because it facilitates action on your part, and it will bring otherwise unexpected opportunities. The moon opposite your jupiter means to me that through your shared emotions you can grow your beliefs and experiences. AS you learn and experience together it will head you to your own personal goals.

For him, This is a relationship he takes seriously. The commitment is not lost on him, and it does help him even if it does stir up old wounds. But these wounds need to heal. Your passion and identity as a couple helps him emotionally. He can learn to connect and express himself a little better as the two of you bond. The Saturn square his venus to me means that the commitment between you two gives strength to his love, his confidence in terms of how he loves and what he loves. I know these are squares but they just are a wake up call, so to speak. The Pluto conjunct his nn, well that just indicates he stands to gain through the transformation this relationship and the lessons it brings him. It will be very impactful for him, I think.

In synastry his Saturn on your ASC can be challenging . It can be a weight, and he may feel the need to correct or direct you. You see this in parent child relationships sometimes and you see how the parent steers the child, but in lovers it can be hard. Especially with you being an Aqua Sun Mercury in the 11th. You're a freedom loving one, for sure.

Your chiron on his ASC is similar. You open wounds in each other, but free will gives you the option to learn and heal or to lick and retreat. He definitely sees you as serious relationship with all your planets in his 7th. I think this helps smooth out the chiron ASC issue, because your wounds are tied to your love experience and he can help balance this in a way. You're a little more reserved in your love nature, and he probably is not quite as familiar with this.

I love the sun trine mercury and the pluto trine moon. Great connections here and the sun trine mercury is really important given the importance of communication.

Saturn square sun? watch the heaviness here but I would hope the composite helps ease this challenge. He may be a little erratic for your emotional needs, but if you can let go I think you can deal with this given your Aqua nature. I like the balances, because he's a 3rd house sun, so he's a little mercurial in nature. I think the exchange of ideas and communication is likely pretty stimulating. And you get in to deep subjects given how you hit his 8th house. i think he's a pretty good partner match for you, with cancer on his 2nd house cusp he can give to your emotional needs in the way you need, as an 8th house moon. He may be a little more reserved sexually than you, but I think this is workable. You both light up each others relationship houses, so I think you will be more than ok.

posted July 04, 2018 07:19 PM            

Updated time makes him a Virgo sun AND moon, Taurus rising.

I was so hopeful prior to this. I feel like we’re just completely incompatible now. The Leo moon makes sense. The Virgo moon makes no sense to me. I have not one Virgo moon in my life, past or present. I just do not connect with them. I am almost positive his mother has the birth time wrong. I can normally guess someone’s sun and moon without them telling me. He has to have a fire moon. Australian birth Certs don’t have times so the time is just going off his mother’s memory and she had like 7 kids so I’m not accepting it!

I’m so sorry to do this to you guys after you crafted such beautifully detailed responses.

posted July 05, 2018 08:50 AM            

I’m also noticing that yod!
Involving your mars, Pluto and his sun/moon.
The nature of these planets being sexual (mars/Pluto) is also adding a ton of chemistry and magnetism between you two. Love it.

posted July 06, 2018 07:52 AM            

That grand trine of mars, moon and Saturn adds stability in itself and the fact that Saturn is involved just adds to it. Especially being in earth signs AND houses. Also that Scorpio stelllium being in a fixed sign and house again just adds to the stability of the relationship.

posted July 06, 2018 08:08 AM            

So it’s still quite positive. I guess I’m glad the strllium falls in 8th house composite as I have my moon there Natally and that energy just resonates really well with me. Only time will tell if the age difference becomes a non factor or unbearably apparent. It’s weird though, all of his friends are my age and all of my friends are his age.

posted July 09, 2018 09:26 PM            

the vertex conjunct the descendent marks this as a relationship that seems to have a destincal feel to it ,as you both have had similar unusual and coincidental experiences and feelings in your lives. the fact that someone else can relate to the oddities in your lives can bring a greater sense of intimacy.with the sun/moo0n midpoint conjunct the vertex, this feeling of karma or destiny is likely very strong and likely shows that a series of odd coincidences occurred for you and he to have even met.

the Chiron/south node conjunction on the nadir opposed to Saturn conjunct the north node at midheaven can as mentioned above sometimes be problematic as it can show a overriding rigidity and/or domination impulses.
on the other hand chiron's influence can add a psychic aspect to the relationship and the mc/ic orientation can show a similarity in ambitions and goals. I think the Jupiter/Neptune conjunct sextile to pluto would also add to the common ambitions and goals that you have.

Lilith is opposed to juno giving a deep emotional sense that this could be a serious relationship .
sometimes the Saturn/chiron opposition can limit emotional intimacy but overall this seems to be at least a very good friendship whether or not it goes to another level