posted May 02, 2019 11:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
@Hikaru29

i don"t know if i'd say things were more sticky than they were i think they always have been

when she first asked me out i turned her down because i knew it'd be deeply serious, and when i asked her out later when i realized i was being stupid i knew what i was doing would be binding

years later it still is

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Thanks for sharing this. In our pComposite, Saturn conjunct the Asc, sextile Mars/Pluto when we met and these aspects will be there for several more years. Similarly, we felt a seriousness at the beginning and knew it wasn't gonna be a casual fling. You may laugh at us but we were both surprised that we could last a year, considering our difficulties and several times almost breaking off.

posted May 03, 2019 07:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Thanks for sharing this. In our pComposite, Saturn conjunct the Asc, sextile Mars/Pluto when we met and these aspects will be there for several more years. Similarly, we felt a seriousness at the beginning and knew it wasn't gonna be a casual fling. You may laugh at us but we were both surprised that we could last a year, considering our difficulties and several times almost breaking off.

Saturn started to sextile Moon a few months into our r/s. I think that's the reason why I feel that it got more "sticky".

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her and i have always had ups and downs (aside from the ascendant conjunction saturn in our chart is square jupiter, trine moon, sextile mercury, and sextile mars) so i find it easy to relate to more than anything

we've had points where we'd "break up" for an hour or so (longest was a week a couple years ago, but that was a weird week still living together and having sex etc for nearly all of it)

i'd be lying if i said i never think about leaving her, i have, but the ways we're bound together outweigh that and the relationship is important even when things are hard