posted September 04, 2018 12:24 AM            

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Originally posted by HieronymusTush:
It's so wonderful to read stuff like this when often we all use astrology to understand and analyze the negative - thanks so much for posting, I wish you and your family heaps of joy!

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posted September 13, 2018 05:40 PM            

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Originally posted by outofideas:
Could you post the Davison chart please? Without cutting out the bottom part?

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posted September 13, 2018 11:17 PM            

Very dreamy and loving with sun/neptune/jupiter/venus

posted September 13, 2018 11:50 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
That is such a nice composite!

Very dreamy and loving with sun/neptune/jupiter/venus

It made me really happy to hear that you have finally found true love

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posted September 14, 2018 01:37 PM            

Also venus conjunct jupiter is a very light aspect that leads to lots of laughing usually and just enjoying each other's company socially.

Mars on an angle in hard aspect to Pluto would be great for sex. I know Mars conjunct Pluto in composite is. They also have moon opposite mars which if is her mars should be nice but I think that is his mars, when their mars aspects my moon I feel all they want is sex as a woman like I feel they come off too aggressive but I suppose if you get passed that initial impression and go for it that it can be great for sex too.

posted September 14, 2018 05:00 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Venus in Virgo and Moon in Virgo are both placements of people that tend to want to talk things out calmly and who are not prone to fights but that conjunction is opposing Mars. Is that Mars in Aries or Mars in Pisces? I feel mars in pisces would avoid fights too and be accommodating. Then one of you has moon conjunct jupiter in gemini, again a placement conducive to wanting to talk things out calmly so is Mars in gemini

Also venus conjunct jupiter is a very light aspect that leads to lots of laughing usually and just enjoying each other's company socially.

Mars on an angle in hard aspect to Pluto would be great for sex. I know Mars conjunct Pluto in composite is. They also have moon opposite mars which if is her mars should be nice but I think that is his mars, when their mars aspects my moon I feel all they want is sex as a woman like I feel they come off too aggressive but I suppose if you get passed that initial impression and go for it that it can be great for sex too.

Her venus in Aries squaring his Neptune could explain why you got engaged after one week, venus in aries is comfortable with going fast and his Neptune is putting her on a pedestal and explains why they fell in love so quickly.

It does sound however like you guys got married/engaged, had a child and started a business all within the first year of knowing each other. There are a lot of gemini placements and then there is your venus in aries placement, you are burning all these milestones within the first year or two of a relationship and the honeymoon phase lasts 6 months to two years research shows. I feel that you guys will eventually get bored with each other and when that happens you will slowly start to fight and that Mars opposite Pluto and Pluto on the IC will manifest in a different way than is manifesting right now. I don't think the fights will be awful though bc you guys have too much mercury in your charts but fights will eventually start to happen. Just give it 4 years to a decade, you might still have an overall successful marriage and never get divorced don't get me wrong. I don't doubt you love each other and have a good thing going but that venus square neptune will fade away with time, I feel you two are still in the honeymoon phase that is all. The relationship can last and succeed but it will not always feel like is feeling now. You also moved too quickly and that might backfire and lead to divorce later on when the rose colored glasses of neptune fade, you start to get bored, grow restless and the fights start to happen.

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yes we romantically moved fast, but we have known eachtoher for 10 years and have spent many years as best friends. we know eachtoher extremely well and beyond it all are very close friends.

and beyond that, I had visions of a man for years who was meant to be with. I also did many meditations to connect with my son Echo. I knew exactly the qualities of the man who was going to be his dad and knew just what echo wanted in a father, but my logical mind couldn't put together who it was.

that is why we got together so fast, when we immediately got together I saw that he was my sons' father. he was the one I was waiting for. he was the man who I had been calling in. he had every quality that I was dreaming of.

I find it interesting, I made a facebook post about our love and how we moved so fast in a FB group. there were over 200 other comments of people who got together VERY quickly like that and were also extremely happily married years later. to me, that is shocking in itself. I don't think you can always just assume this nepune aspects are delusional and can't stand the test of time. so many of these people got together super quickly and it seems that among the people who got married immediately, there was actually a higher percentage of longevity.

when you know, you know. I got married three years into dating my ex and that was an abusive **** show.

posted September 14, 2018 08:08 PM            

I would not be surprised if you guys last a lifetime, you do have a nice synastry, composite and davison. I am more concerned about you eventually getting bored since you have venus in aries and uranus ruling your DC but uranus is in Capricorn so that is good I feel, Capricorn is good with commitments and sticking it out beyond the honeymoon phase. However he has Saturn ruling his DC and he has Saturn conjunct Uranus in Sagittarius with Venus conjunct Jupiter in Gemini, I would worry he would grow restless at some point with those placements but I would still go for it no doubt and hope for the best and yes you guys can still make it a lifetime together, these are just possible manifestations, not a guarantee.

I like how your composite chart ruler Sun conjuncts your DC ruler Uranus and how that falls in your 5th and opposes your Venus conjunct Jupiter. I could see how that means you did come together to have baby conceived out of pure love.

posted September 14, 2018 10:17 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Interesting so you were best friends first, ofcourse that makes a difference but you say many successful couples get married very fast who last a lifetime, I know that happens but I am under the impression that those are exceptions to the rule but yes I know is possible.

I would not be surprised if you guys last a lifetime, you do have a nice synastry, composite and davison. I am more concerned about you eventually getting bored since you have venus in aries and uranus ruling your DC but uranus is in Capricorn so that is good I feel, Capricorn is good with commitments and sticking it out beyond the honeymoon phase. However he has Saturn ruling his DC and he has Saturn conjunct Uranus in Sagittarius with Venus conjunct Jupiter in Gemini, I would worry he would grow restless at some point with those placements but I would still go for it no doubt and hope for the best and yes you guys can still make it a lifetime together, these are just possible manifestations, not a guarantee.

I like how your composite chart ruler Sun conjuncts your DC ruler Uranus and how that falls in your 5th and opposes your Venus conjunct Jupiter. I could see how that means you did come together to have baby conceived out of pure love.

It also makes sense you were friends first since your DC ruler and your composite DC ruler are both Uranus.

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even though we both have gemini, we are actually both very loyal and almost boring in relationships. like, neither of us are the type to have causal sex or even be interested in it (not to say we haven't, but we both like took Xanax and forced ourselves when we were younger bc we though there was something wrong with us that we didn't have the urge)

my husband was with his previous partner for 7 years!! and she was very abusive (literally just got out of jail for beating and robbing and carjacking her own grandma-so you can imagine. what she did to him)... yet he STILL stayed with her that long. hes just one of those people who wants to be in a relationship you know. I am okay with being alone, but it is just so easy to be with him. even when we were single, we weren't really messing around with too many people. he's also really open and would be fine if I wanted to have an open relationship *I don't though*... but if at some point I did get bored, that would probably be the route we would go

I think the main thing that makes us compatible is that we have the same goals and view life in a similar way. there is not much disagreement between us. literally, the ONLY problems that we have is that he can be moody at times (scorpio man haha) and me being so sensitive energetically, it can start to bother me.

we've been through a lot. he saved me while I had two grand Mal seizures and a brain bleed. this happened while we were dead broke too! then we found out I was present. when we found out, all my friends were not supportive and neither was my family! it was such a hard time, definitely stressful as **** , but we made it together.

posted September 14, 2018 10:56 PM            

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Originally posted by missblyss:
even though we both have gemini, we are actually both very loyal and almost boring in relationships. like, neither of us are the type to have causal sex or even be interested in it (not to say we haven't, but we both like took Xanax and forced ourselves when we were younger bc we though there was something wrong with us that we didn't have the urge)

my husband was with his previous partner for 7 years!! and she was very abusive (literally just got out of jail for beating and robbing and carjacking her own grandma-so you can imagine. what she did to him)... yet he STILL stayed with her that long. hes just one of those people who wants to be in a relationship you know. I am okay with being alone, but it is just so easy to be with him. even when we were single, we weren't really messing around with too many people. he's also really open and would be fine if I wanted to have an open relationship *I don't though*... but if at some point I did get bored, that would probably be the route we would go

I think the main thing that makes us compatible is that we have the same goals and view life in a similar way. there is not much disagreement between us. literally, the ONLY problems that we have is that he can be moody at times (scorpio man haha) and me being so sensitive energetically, it can start to bother me.

we've been through a lot. he saved me while I had two grand Mal seizures and a brain bleed. this happened while we were dead broke too! then we found out I was present. when we found out, all my friends were not supportive and neither was my family! it was such a hard time, definitely stressful as **** , but we made it together.

but even through all that stress, the one thing that was constant was us being there for eachtoher. we've been together around 20 months now... but most of it has not been very honeymoon-like. it took so much trust to make it through that. like finding out I was pregnant after the seizures, while being broke.. having a brain bleed, being only together for 3 weeks!! but we trusted eachtoher and dove right in and I feel Iike that is why we are being rewarded now with all the beauty and positivity in our life.

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Beautiful. Thanks for sharing .

"His previous partner for 7 years!! and she was very abusive (literally just got out of jail for beating and robbing and carjacking her own grandma-so you can imagine."

posted September 15, 2018 01:39 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Beautiful. Thanks for sharing .

"His previous partner for 7 years!! and she was very abusive (literally just got out of jail for beating and robbing and carjacking her own grandma-so you can imagine."

Holy sh*t, WoW.

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posted September 15, 2018 12:33 PM            

I know that it can happen with sun square AC in synastry.. But was it like you weren't each other's type (physically) but decided to give it a shot and found it great?

I remember reading about you and that guy you believed was your soulmate, you certainly had some intense aspects with him... It's inspiring that you found the courage to let go of that relationship and move on to a healthy one...an adventurous aqua dc and the aries venus crave passion but the pisces in you needs a security which a cancer AC can provide

posted September 15, 2018 01:13 PM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
So.. there are no natal planets connecting in to either charts.

Interesting!

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Can you give a CONCRETE example? I am not sure what you are saying....

posted September 15, 2018 01:26 PM            

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I know. my ex was abusive and ****** too, I think ive told you about him some? I only lasted with him four years... but im just like **** if we lasted with those crazy people where each day was hell and drama, I know we can last with eachother! I just know we can

despite our minor annoyances, I would be devastated to lose him and would gladly fight though any boredom or negative feelings because at the end of the day I know he is meant for me and our relationship is just so good

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I truly believe in you guys at this point, the way you talk about gladly fighting through the boredom ect...your values are in line with having a long lasting relationship.

Regardless, it sounds like you are enjoying something really special that I am sure will at the very least last a long time and since you were friends before you met I feel if you two end it at some point you will remain great friends and will always care for each other.

posted September 15, 2018 02:55 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
Missblyss, would you mind telling us why you weren't noticing each other at the beginning?

I know that it can happen with sun square AC in synastry.. But was it like you weren't each other's type (physically) but decided to give it a shot and found it great?

I remember reading about you and that guy you believed was your soulmate, you certainly had some intense aspects with him... It's inspiring that you found the courage to let go of that relationship and move on to a healthy one...an adventurous aqua dc and the aries venus crave passion but the pisces in you needs a security which a cancer AC can provide

And sun conjunct neptune in the composite, one of the effects of it is having similar dreams, such as your having dreams about same babies, with the conjunction in the 5th the way it manifests relates to children!

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yes absolutely!! it is a really good lesson in this so I love sharing it. it's also a hilarious and crazy story.

so when we met, I was 17 and he was 19 and I met him because I was dating his cousin. his cousin was my first boyfriend and the boy I lost my virginity too. funnily enough, him and his cousin are more like brothers (they lived together and were best friends and even look alike!)

when I was 17 I was very different than I am now. I was very insecure, I was starving myself, sort of anorexic, taking lots of adderall. I actually never even felt physical attraction for my then boyfriend (named Max). I would get myself really drunk every single time before I saw him so that I could have sex with him. The sex was TERRIBLE. Literally, left me SWOLLEN and it would take him two hours to come...I didn't know that good sex really existed bc it was my first time, so I didn't know better than to know it was horrible. I just thought maybe I was asexeual bc it never felt good and I was never naturally aroused (sorry for being so graphic but lol). He played ego games with me and was hot and cold, on and off. I played even worse games with him and was honestly a little ***** (I told everyone he had a small dick etc).

I sort of knew that my current husband liked me at the time, but he never made me feel uncomfortable. He was like my best friend... he was the one I could be honest with. the one who would pick me up when my boyfriend ignored me. he was the one who was always there for me.

at that time, I didn't like guys who treated me well. I liked the guys who were hot and cold, because I felt that if people liked me too much, there was something wrong with them. I felt so bad about myself, that I couldn't love someone who truly loved me.

at that time, I didn't know what love was. I thought that the bonding that came from having sex with someone was love. However, I was never NOT drunk around my boyfriend, I never hangout with him in the day, I never showed him my real self. it was 100% ego and me trying to impress him and make him love me.

so fast forward ten years later. Michael (my current husband) comes over to my apartment with another dude that was trying to get with me. he literally told Michael on the way to my house, "don't go near jenna, she is MINE!"

When I saw Michael, I ran into his arms! my best friend from ten years ago. it was so hard, because Michael got into a very abusive relationship while I was away in boarding school and his gf was extremely controlling and wouldn't let him talk to me, so I hardly saw him at all for YEARS. he had only been broken up with her for a few months when he came to my apartment.

I have done SO much spiritual work to work through my relationship issues.inner child work, shadow work, etc. I was finally ready to be with someone who TRULY loved me.

so that night, I was talking to Michael, and I just was flooded with the intuitive knowing that he has always loved me... and finally I could see that. and I was finally ready to LET him love me. I finally was able to see that ALL F****** ALONG he was the one for me! he had been silently waiting there, loving me as a friend and being there for me EVEN when I denied him......

he never judged me, never held it against me that I had sex with his cousin..... never made me feel bad about it. (my past relationships, the guys were so jealous and would never have been able to handle that.... so it really showed me how stable he was to be okay with it)

so when we got together, it was very intense. I wasn't hooking up with some random guy, I was hooking up with someone who was my close friend. the second time we had sex we had a shared vision that he was the father to my son echo (who I have known about since 2015). two weeks later echo was conceived!!

I don't believe in twin flames, but I know he is my primary soulmate <3

and I also know he is the man who was meant to be the father to my daughter.

his venus conjuncts my moon and my daughter's sun almost exactly

posted September 15, 2018 03:00 PM            

They both are scorpios (of course I am a pisces)

and on top of that, I always had these certain traits that in Max, my first boyfriend, I was OBSESSED with. it was weird traits, that almost brought out this karmic, primal longing. One was the way his belly sort of stuck out (hes not fat but its almost rounded like a baby).

the other thing was his freckles

the other thing was his teeth that are kinda pointy.

the funny thing is, these are all the physical traits that my husband shares with his cousin!! it was like, my soul KNEW that these were the traits I was drawn to. they were the clues to who I was meant to be with. bc these aren't traits that are like normally desired lol...

posted September 16, 2018 04:49 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Can you give a CONCRETE example? I am not sure what you are saying....

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Yes hypatia238, there is an idea that the natal charts of the two people must in some way connect (to some degree - angles, aspects) to the composite. Some people say that if one connects and the other doesn't, it can be unrequited love.

I note here that I do NOT see any of the natals connect into the composite chart.