posted August 18, 2018 05:37 PM            

We immediately fell in love, were engaged within a week upon reconnecting.

I first met him when I was 17 and I dated his cousin. He always loved me, but at the time I was too in my "ego" and wasn't drawn to anyone who had true love for me, so I went with the one who hurt me. When my heart was finally healed and ready for true love, he and I found each other.

Our relationship is so EASY. 2nd time having sex, we had a shared vision of our son. He is now here with us and is 8 months old!

Since getting together, we have gone from dead broke, to creating a successful business together! We hangout together all day, are best friends, and have never gotten in a fight.

We communicate perfectly. Are so perfectly sexually compatible and are so similar. I know this is what a soulmate is

Wanted to share our synastry and composite charts to see what it looks like. Our relationship is so good and healthy I didn't even know it was possible! LOL. Many of you may remember me talking about my horrible old relationship, so what a breathe of fresh air!

Never settle my friends, wait for this! It's worth it.

If anyone wants to point out what they think could have caused this connection, I'd be happy to know

If anyone wants me to add any asteroids, lemme know which.

posted August 20, 2018 01:42 PM            

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Originally posted by pocketrocket:
I injoyed reading your post so beautiful.. i like this tight conjunction Ve/Mo ))

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Thanks love! I wanted to share as I’d been in this forum years and been quite vocal about the immense struggles and drama with my ex!

I also know that mostly in the past I have posted seeking analysis of charts of relationships that had not yet developed (and were never meant to, tbh)

I truly had no idea a relationship like this could exist, had I, i would never have ****** around with those losers in the past! Like I was trying to make very toxic relationships that had a sliver of love work bc of that damn tiny sliver of love!

Now I see you can have the whole thing be love! Not just a sliver ✨

posted August 21, 2018 04:49 PM            

the committed relationship part of the composite is the venus/Jupiter conjunction sextile to mars and opposed to the sun.

posted August 21, 2018 09:44 PM            

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posted August 22, 2018 10:05 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
hi ,missblyss

the committed relationship part of the composite is the venus/Jupiter conjunction sextile to mars and opposed to the sun.

the venus/moon midpoint is opposed to Saturn and trine to pluto which could symbolized the devotion between you.
Uranus with the sun gives the astral/psychic connection which was probably contributing to your shared dreams and feelings of soulmates.
I would add the vertex and true Lilith(h13) because these symbols are often strong when a soulmate feeling exist.i say this because you composite is favorable but not uncommon. it seems there would be added intensity to account for your feelings of soulmates.
todd

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posted August 22, 2018 10:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
So happy for you. Valentine, the most unselfish love, conj the ASC.

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he is so unselfish in how he loves me, selfless really <3

posted August 24, 2018 04:18 AM            

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Originally posted by hikoro:
you have the love stellium in composite, it seems.

sun and mercury conjunct opposing moon
i think that when the moon opposes sun/mercury, it counts as the love stellium

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Could you explain further please?

posted August 24, 2018 02:14 PM            

Its alignment I think. And many of us may get to that point when we let go of the illusion of "wanting" love. And more towards giving it.

I don't think I will experience that in this lifetime however. I am too self-protective, sensitive and easily disappointed to endure.

I am not the type to opt for open heart surgery(metaphorically speaking). And thus "love" will always evade me. I am not made of that strong, bold substance to keep an open mind about taking that leap of faith.

posted August 24, 2018 08:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
You found love because you were READY to receive it and not preoccupied with how it was "supposed" to look. And your heart was open.

Its alignment I think. And many of us may get to that point when we let go of the illusion of "wanting" love. And more towards giving it.

I don't think I will experience that in this lifetime however. I am too self-protective, sensitive and easily disappointed to endure.

I am not the type to opt for open heart surgery(metaphorically speaking). And thus "love" will always evade me. I am not made of that strong, bold substance to keep an open mind about taking that leap of faith.

But I dream and fantasize. That's enough for me.

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love this is soooo true!
it actually took me over three years to heal from my ex, but I took it VERY seriously. I did a lot of shadow work and integration and honestly was pretty much reborn. The person I was when my current partner and I got together was entirely different than who I was with my ex.

I really knew EXACTLY what I wanted when I got into this and I actually had to go through about 10 guys to get to him. each guy exhibited a quality that I would not deal with ( I have very high standards bc this person was gonna essentially be my daughters dad)

posted August 24, 2018 08:48 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Miss the composite is amazing!! Love stellium with Jupiter (laughs, good-will/tolerance and forgiveness) and Neptune/Saturn (spiritual connection/stability and commitment) involved as well as those lovely trines with mars for passion. 👍
That moon conjunct venus EXACT must be magic too.
So happy for you! ❤️❤️❤️

I’m curious about the ex though, you should post the sybastry and composite. Before it sounded so similar to my situation I wonder if there is any similar Astro markers for this? Would be a good case study of what to AVOID lol

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this is our synastry

posted September 03, 2018 07:32 AM            

If this IS a happy relationship (a miracle to see because mostly people post charts in trouble), it's a great opportunity to explore how you 1) feel/experience and get around some of the challenging points if you ever care to share. Eg, that moon conjunct is fairly challenged would you say with no easy bits?

Also, I am quite interested to see how/what's important when linking natals into the composite. Some people say it's imperative, which sounds completely logical.

However, testing this logic, I wonder, as the composite is a new entity entirely, perhaps no linkings are ok? A refreshing change maybe? Remembering that the connection is there already with synastry.

I'm interested in exploring the threshold between connections with the natals and the composite atm

Happy days btw.. it's a lovely post and generous to share good new providing insight for all

posted September 03, 2018 09:58 PM            

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Originally posted by capricorncheriscty:
The relationship is "so easy"? Never had a fight? Ever? How long have you two been together? I hate to be a debby downer but don't let that Neptune in 5th synastry and composite Sun-Neptune conjunct color your glasses too rosy...I would hate to see one or both of you become utterly disappointed and heartbroken along the way, because your expectations are seemingly too high.

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It's great to be hopeful. But I love a bit of Cappy wisdom.

I've learned to enjoy my Jupiter conjunct Mars in Sagittarius, but also come to cherish my earthy Saturn caution. They can work together

posted September 04, 2018 12:20 AM            

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Originally posted by capricorncheriscty:
The relationship is "so easy"? Never had a fight? Ever? How long have you two been together? I hate to be a debby downer but don't let that Neptune in 5th synastry and composite Sun-Neptune conjunct color your glasses too rosy...I would hate to see one or both of you become utterly disappointed and heartbroken along the way, because your expectations are seemingly too high.

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Nah, we are honestly so blatantly honest and soul-connected that I would bet a billion dollars we won’t break up. We’ve never even come close.

We have never had. FIGHT, but we have had “issues” with eachother ie one of us being bothered or annoyed by something. The biggest issue is sometimes if we don’t talk about what we are annoyed about we can get a little passive and moody. We BOTH do that. But, we always come around to talking about it and work through it. We’ve never yelled at eachother. We’ve never had a bad argument. Mostly, he and I can suffer from moodiness and when I am moody I can get annoyed if he does something.
The thing is though is we both are pretty aware that our moods are our own and even though we sometimes do project them on eachother, we know deep down that it is really our own personal problem.

We’ve been together 18 months, but since the first day we have lived together, never been apart! I also got pregnant literally RIGHT away. THe first time we had sex, we had a shared vision of a baby boy named Echo and we knew we would conceive and I knew that he was my son’s father (I had known a little boy was coming through me but didn’t know who the dad was).

We’ve been through a LOT. He saved my life when i had two Gand mal seizures while pregnant adn nursed me back to health (took me 9 montsh to heal bc the combo of pregnancy and seizures was BAD)

We were DEAD broke and have developed a thriving company together!

Don’t get me wrong, we do get annoyed of eachother at times. BUT, we don’t ever let that cause us to abuse eachother or even utter mean words to eachother. We love eachother and respect eachother at a deep core level. I believe he is my twin flame, if those exist

posted September 04, 2018 12:22 AM            

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Originally posted by abrightfutureahead:
I love this post. It’s inspired me to ensure I wait for the right man. I will no longer give my body and so to a man who offers me a sliver of love when you could wait and be with someone who completes you. So glad you got your happy ending xxx

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Thank you love! That is exactly why I wanted to post this! So people know it IS possible.
I think i was tested by the universe because before him I had to go through about 10 different guys. I would see something I didnt like in them and i cut it off, instead of justifying bad behavior.

posted September 04, 2018 12:23 AM            

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Originally posted by capricorncheriscty:
The relationship is "so easy"? Never had a fight? Ever? How long have you two been together? I hate to be a debby downer but don't let that Neptune in 5th synastry and composite Sun-Neptune conjunct color your glasses too rosy...I would hate to see one or both of you become utterly disappointed and heartbroken along the way, because your expectations are seemingly too high.

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And relationships are not always easy. We mirror eachtoher a lot, and sometimes that makes us look some difficult facts in the mirror!