posted November 03, 2018 07:08 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Well let me know what you think but only looking at the composite while comparing it to the natals you can see composite moon conjuncts both of our moons and his Chart ruler conjuncts composite Venus but my Pluto conjuncts that Pluto stellium in the composite. However his venus conjuncts composite Saturn which is also part of that stellium.

WE both fell hard for each other but I ended it and lost his trust.

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posted November 03, 2018 10:40 AM            

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Originally posted by ana_bee:
Mostly conjunctions and oppositions count. These are major. If they‘re missing, the relationship has less of an impact.. but who knows
I can imagine that tight trines and sextiles would accentuate the whole picture, like small hues.. they don’t define it though, as conjunctions, oppositions and squares would.

Node to node conjunctions are usually generational. It would mean that the relationship purpose aligns with your life direction. But there needs to be more to back that up, I think.

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posted November 03, 2018 02:25 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
So it's still considered generational if the persons North Node is in conjunction to the composite chart? I thought it was only in synastry but I don't know really.

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posted November 03, 2018 02:37 PM            

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Originally posted by ana_bee:
Well if you share the same NN in synastry, then it’ll also be the same NN in composite. It’s considered generational, when your birthday’s are only months or maybe a year apart. Although I’ m aware that technically generational means something else.

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posted November 03, 2018 03:42 PM            

also chart mirroring each other, with house placements, aspects, etc.

posted November 04, 2018 01:59 AM            

I got two loves of my life.

The college guy I was talking about in your Pluto 7th transit thread:
Both Suns in our second house
Venuses conjunct each other
Moons trining each other
Venus/Pluto double whammy
Pluto/Moon Double Whammy
Pluto/Sun double whammy

And the biggest aspects I think that made him really "the love of my life":
Amor in my 7th house and Sun
His Valentine on my Sun

I would literally die for him -- jump in front of him even when he's standing and healthy and can defend himself, and take a bullet for him. I guess it's because he hasn't really done me wrong and hurt me immensely. Yet. Just checked to find out that my ex also has amor and valentine on my sun but turned out our synastry was unhealthy especially when most of his planets fell in my descendant.

posted November 10, 2018 05:41 PM            

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Originally posted by dribaby:
Hmmm I had Venus conjunct moon before but it was more light hearted, I wasn't deep in love but I cared a lot for him. I guess everyone get affected differently from aspects

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posted November 14, 2018 08:43 AM            

If you only have it one way you may not feel it so strongly, but when you have it in DW + in Composite/Davison the feeling is very strong.

posted November 17, 2018 07:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
[b]Moon-Venus aspects give me that feeling. I have the trine/sextile DW in Synastry with 2 boyfriends and in Composite & Davison we have trine/square. Three words to describe the love we share - TENDER LOVING CARE. It results in us not having the heart to hurt each other and if we ever did unintentionally, we'll wanna quickly make amends. Isn't this what love is all about? With the first guy even though we broke up 8yrs ago, he was still very sweet to me when we met again. With the 2nd guy we also have Sun-Venus conjunction in Composite & Davison so it really adds to the loving feeling. I told him he will always have a special place in my heart and he said the same. I've never said that to anyone before.

If you only have it one way you may not feel it so strongly, but when you have it in DW + in Composite/Davison the feeling is very strong.[/B]

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posted November 18, 2018 04:56 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Isn't Moon square Venus in synastry/composite a bad aspect to have?

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In synastry we have trine/sextile DW so I believe the good outweighed the bad. Then again, I read that the square isn't a major problem.

From cafeastrology:

When the composite Moon is square composite Venus:

Differences with regards to attitudes towards money and values, as well as backgrounds, are likely to surface and cause minor problems in your relationship. Other family members or outsiders might cause problems for you. However, the desire to take care of one another is strong. This aspect is often found in co-dependent bonds, although it’s not necessarily a bad thing unless it’s seriously challenged by other difficult planets.

posted December 16, 2018 08:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
In synastry we have trine/sextile DW so I believe the good outweighed the bad. Then again, I read that the square isn't a major problem.

From cafeastrology:

When the composite Moon is square composite Venus:

Differences with regards to attitudes towards money and values, as well as backgrounds, are likely to surface and cause minor problems in your relationship. Other family members or outsiders might cause problems for you. However, the desire to take care of one another is strong. This aspect is often found in co-dependent bonds, although it’s not necessarily a bad thing unless it’s seriously challenged by other difficult planets.

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posted December 16, 2018 11:47 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I have the square in synastry I've read different things. Some people say it's problematic while others say it isn't.

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posted December 16, 2018 12:16 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I loved him with every inch of my soul, body and heart, like I would have died for him and taken a bullet for him at some point. I did end it but I fought like crazy for years to get him back and when he reached out to me like a decade later saying he regretted not getting back I was about to get married.

WE have sun trine moon, venus trine mars and venus sextile mars, moon conjunct and parallel moon, we also have moon conjunct persona moon exact, is like we shared the same soul and our moons conjunct our composite moon and davison moon.

If you feel the synastry in how the houses align with my chart from this chart is weak then again this is why I value davison charts and composites that link to the natals so much, I loved him completely and fully all the way, I have never been able to love that deeply and hard ever again in my life.

He was my type big time physically and emotionally 100%.

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Thanks for sharing this. It's good to know that the one whose relationship houses are not as aspected also feels so strongly.

posted December 17, 2018 08:35 AM            

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Originally posted by LibraGirl92:
Couldn't a womans venus conjunct a mans pluto be considered one or is it too extreme lol?

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posted December 18, 2018 11:06 AM            

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Originally posted by LibraGirl92:
Couldn't a womans venus conjunct a mans pluto be considered one or is it too extreme lol?

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In all the charts I've seen of couples with extraordinary stories where they are either high school sweethearts, or have had a period of separation but come back together later in life, or some other powerful circumstance...Venus/Pluto (usually conjunct) comes up VERY often in synastry.

You can sense it too. It's like the chemistry is palpable with these couples. I would definitely call this a "soulmate" aspect.