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dribaby
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posted September 29, 2018 06:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dribaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What do you believe are some aspects that indicate a love like no other and feel is the love of your life.

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posted September 29, 2018 07:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun conjunct Dsc and Moon conjunct IC

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posted September 29, 2018 08:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon conjunct or opposite Venus in Davison or composite aspecting your own moon in your natal chart.

In Davison my ex and I have moon conjunct Venus and it conjuncts his moon in Pisces.

In composite we have moon opposite Venus and it aspects my moon in Pisces.

I really truly loved him with all my heart unrestricted and unconditionally and intensely and I felt truly loved by him.

We have moon conjunct and parallel moon in synastry too.

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posted September 29, 2018 08:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dribaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
Sun conjunct Dsc and Moon conjunct IC

What about Moon conjunct descendant? I have that with my current partner

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dribaby
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posted September 29, 2018 08:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dribaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Moon conjunct or opposite Venus in Davison or composite aspecting your own moon in your natal chart.

In Davison my ex and I have moon conjunct Venus and it conjuncts his moon in Pisces.

In composite we have moon opposite Venus and it aspects my moon in Pisces.

I really truly loved him with all my heart unrestricted and unconditionally and intensely and I felt truly loved by him.

We have moon conjunct and parallel moon in synastry too.


Were there any Pluto aspects involved in the composite?

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posted September 29, 2018 09:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes chart ruler was Pluto and it was conjunct Sun, Mars and Valentine but I feel it is the Venus/Moon conjuncting our natal moons.

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posted September 29, 2018 10:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dribaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Yes chart ruler was Pluto and it was conjunct Sun, Mars and Valentine but I feel it is the Venus/Moon conjuncting our natal moons.

Hmmm I had Venus conjunct moon before but it was more light hearted, I wasn't deep in love but I cared a lot for him. I guess everyone get affected differently from aspects

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posted September 29, 2018 10:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by dribaby:
Hmmm I had Venus conjunct moon before but it was more light hearted, I wasn't deep in love but I cared a lot for him. I guess everyone get affected differently from aspects


But that was synastry right?

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posted September 29, 2018 10:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Davison:

Our Composite! Our chart ruler conjuncts the SUN in composite and the Moon in Davison.

Our Synastry:

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posted September 29, 2018 10:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hypatia, can you post the synastry too?
I am curiouse to see it. Synastry shows how each one was affected and what were each ones feelings. The Composite shows the overall relationship theme as a whole

edit: ok, got it

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posted September 29, 2018 11:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well let me know what you think but only looking at the composite while comparing it to the natals you can see composite moon conjuncts both of our moons and his Chart ruler conjuncts composite Venus but my Pluto conjuncts that Pluto stellium in the composite. However his venus conjuncts composite Saturn which is also part of that stellium.

WE both fell hard for each other but I ended it and lost his trust.

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posted September 29, 2018 11:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think his Uranus in exact square to your Venus/Mars played a big role in this huge magnetic sudden attraction. Uranus on Mars and Venus is really electric and shocking.
As well as his Neptune in exact square to your Moon played a role in turning this romantic.

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posted September 30, 2018 12:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Makes sense specially considering his Neptune rules his DC and conjuncts his IC, my southnode and his vertex which squares my Moon on his DC...Good point about his Uranus on my venus/mars as it was "love at first sight."

But also our charts link to the composite Moon opposite Venus tsquare with Neptune at the apex right on my AC and when we met transit mars conjunct chiron was on that Neptune falling on my AC. Our charts also link to the Stellium involving the SUN and chart ruler PLUTO, I tap into that stellium with my natal Pluto and he taps into through his natal Venus/Pluto by conjuncting composite Saturn exalted in Libra.

I feel if our natals were not activating those key things in the composite our love would have not felt so strong and reached so deep into the core of our beings. Like we would have maybe felt that energy still but more superficially, more like we could sense a potential that we could not actually reach like a mirage that you can see but cannot touch but that is just a theory I am exploring at the moment...who knows.

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posted September 30, 2018 12:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also when we are in each other's presence we are like magnets to each other, we gravitate to one another like magnets even many years later so I wonder if is bc again our charts link with the composite so well, maybe the more the two natals interact with the composite the more you feel a magnetic pull. IDK that is something I have always wondered about us two, why we have this strong magnetic pull very in your face around each other.

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posted September 30, 2018 02:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My partner's Uranus also squares my venus conjunct mars and we clicked right away and have always found him interesting and stimulating, I cared for him fast too from the start but my connection with him is very different from what I had with ex although the bond is deep too, my partner has a more grounding effect on me, I think our davison moon in taurus opposite Jupiter exact is part of the reason or his venus in the 4th conjunct my venus and mars as Mars rules my 4th so we feel very comfy around each other but squabble too sometimes I think bc of the mars square mars.

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My best friend from childhood we have composite moon in pisces which opposes my natal sun exact and I adored him and he adored me. My natal pluto also conjuncted our composite AC.

I think Pluto ruling the composite chart or Davison and linking to your chart or natal Pluto on the composite/davison AC are also indicators of someone who is deeply important to you.

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posted September 30, 2018 09:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hypatia,

your partner's Uranus squares your venus/mars at what degree? Tight orb is the one that is felt. With your ex, it was nearly exact.

have you looked at the Draconoc as well? The Draconic explains any deep attraction that cany be seen even in the synastry. I bet your draconic synastry has some tight conjunctions of your Venus/mars to something in his.

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posted September 30, 2018 09:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunaIscariot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol the magnetic pull is super obvious!
It’s because you have DW DSC ruler conjunct the others ASC, it’s called the “magnetic” axis for a reason 👍
Super powerful when the ASC-DSC rulers conjunct or the ruler of the other person ASC is conjunct the others DSC and vice versa like in your guys case.
It acts like a venus/mars conjunction, and since the ASC is the physical body and appearance/energy, basic personality etc. it’s always involved with “love at first sight”, if someone matches your DSC strongly with their ASC symbolism orhe rulers conjunct to the others axis etc. it’s going to be an immediate mutual attraction no matter what else is going on in the charts. Which in your case was even stronger than just the DSC rulers conjunct the others ASC since you have Neptune in your first and his DSC is in Pisces, and your mercury was in the 9th house and he has Jupiter in his first...
The axis of your IC and ASC were also conjunct, so even more magnetism. All the angles are super duper magnetic and compelling when they conjunct, as are planets hitting the others angles or the angle rulers conjunct the other persons angles themselves.
You had a lot of planet to angle contacts, like your moon on his DSC and your sun in his 1st. His mars conjunct your ASC.
The nodes on the axis, another sign of a strong connection usually Karmic.

Looks like he was more into you than you were into him though.

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posted September 30, 2018 11:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Lol the magnetic pull is super obvious!
It’s because you have DW DSC ruler conjunct the others ASC, it’s called the “magnetic” axis for a reason 👍
Super powerful when the ASC-DSC rulers conjunct or the ruler of the other person ASC is conjunct the others DSC and vice versa like in your guys case.
It acts like a venus/mars conjunction, and since the ASC is the physical body and appearance/energy, basic personality etc. it’s always involved with “love at first sight”, if someone matches your DSC strongly with their ASC symbolism orhe rulers conjunct to the others axis etc. it’s going to be an immediate mutual attraction no matter what else is going on in the charts. Which in your case was even stronger than just the DSC rulers conjunct the others ASC since you have Neptune in your first and his DSC is in Pisces, and your mercury was in the 9th house and he has Jupiter in his first...
The axis of your IC and ASC were also conjunct, so even more magnetism. All the angles are super duper magnetic and compelling when they conjunct, as are planets hitting the others angles or the angle rulers conjunct the other persons angles themselves.
You had a lot of planet to angle contacts, like your moon on his DSC and your sun in his 1st. His mars conjunct your ASC.
The nodes on the axis, another sign of a strong connection usually Karmic.

Looks like he was more into you than you were into him though.


I feel you solved the mystery! For a while there I thought maybe it was that we have my Priapus conjunct his Isis trine his Priapus conjunct my Osiris but I think what you are saying fits more, as you mentioned is called the magnetic axis for a reason and thanks for pointing that out.

...yes my nodes fall on his IC/MC axis and vertex/antivertex with planets activating all that and essentially activating all the angles but you pointing out that our DC rulers both conjunct our ASC axis which align with his IC angle, Vertex and my Southnode while they square each other I think explains the strong magnetic pull.

Why do you think he was more into me?

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posted September 30, 2018 11:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Orange:
Hypatia,

your partner's Uranus squares your venus/mars at what degree? Tight orb is the one that is felt. With your ex, it was nearly exact.

have you looked at the Draconoc as well? The Draconic explains any deep attraction that cany be seen even in the synastry. I bet your draconic synastry has some tight conjunctions of your Venus/mars to something in his.


Very tight as well.
He has Uranus in scorpio at 23d06 so it squares exact my Venus and by 1d my Mars. He has Mars in Scorpio too at 22d03 and DC in Scorpio at 22d43.

In draconic my ex and I do have Venus conjunct Pluto Double Whammy.

But its interesting that in tropic we have a wide venus conjunct pluto in Libra aspect but our Composite Stellium essentially falls in between that venus conjunct pluto aspect we have in synastry.

I can say without a doubt our relationship felt very much like a venus conjunct pluto theme.

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posted September 30, 2018 12:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It sounds like a Venus-pluto relationship for sure.
Is his birth time correct or it is approximate? Both of your angles at the correct degrees?

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posted September 30, 2018 12:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunaIscariot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well because your moon was conjunct his 7th and his mars was in your first... your sun and mercury was in his 1st etc. He felt your energy in a stronger way.
you have planets falling into more attraction/relationship houses for him than him in yours.
None of his planets fall in your 5th, 7th or 8th...
and he didn’t actually have anything in Gemini, expect his sun in the 3rd which helps but that’s not that strong of a symbolism match compared to you for him.
Most of his planets fall in your 10th, 11th and the 3rd... not doing much for you feelings wise lol.
But your venus and mars is decently aspected by him, and he does match your 5th house in Taurus with his stellium in the 2nd including his ASC ruler in mercury there, and it’s in Scorpio; your venus and mars is in the 8th...
his venus conjunct Pluto matches your venus/mars in the 8th... he liked how passionate and sexual you are.
The conjunct is in Leo, but he doesn’t have any Leo planets or anything in the 5th...

Idk. Just my opinion just from looking at the charts, I feel like he was the more attracted, emotionally invested/involved and attached to you than you to him but that’s not to say you weren’t! lol I’m just saying it looks stronger from his side.
He probably pursued you, made the first move or was very doting on you etc. And I bet you were the one to end it as well.
I just feel like he was very obviously in love and into you and you knew that, and your venus and mars in Leo ate it up lol. You loved that he loved you.

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posted September 30, 2018 01:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Orange:
It sounds like a Venus-pluto relationship for sure.
Is his birth time correct or it is approximate? Both of your angles at the correct degrees?

Yes mom is extremely confident of my time of birth and that is the time of birth he gave me and he said is accurate and like L pointed out it would finally solve the magnetic pull mystery which is very strong.

Add that he comes off as someone who has virgo rising with mercury in scorpio. It fits him very well, shy, reserved, private, detail oriented, good at reading people, very organized and clean.

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posted September 30, 2018 01:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dribaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess there's really no aspects that determine why someone is the love of your life. Maybe it's progressed synastry as well that got me like this

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posted September 30, 2018 01:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by dribaby:
I guess there's really no aspects that determine why someone is the love of your life. Maybe it's progressed synastry as well that got me like this

HUH? You haven't posted the davison, composite or synastry of this person you feel is the love of your life, progressed synastry I feel is more predictive in nature, about timing, if you feel this strongly for this person it should show in the Davison/Composite and Synastry.

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posted September 30, 2018 01:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Yes mom is extremely confident of my time of birth and that is the time of birth he gave me.

what were the transits to your Composite when the relationship broke off? And what transits to the Composite when it started?

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