posted November 17, 2018 04:24 PM            

Except of a sudden and then on-off sexual attraction what else can this aspect indicate?

Does the Uranus person irritate/**** off the Mars person?

Have you experienced it?
Are you the Mars or Uranus?

posted November 17, 2018 10:14 PM            

Wow.

posted November 18, 2018 01:16 AM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
Ok I hope this time that the title is more specific I'll maybe get some replies.

Except of a sudden and then on-off sexual attraction what else can this aspect indicate?

Does the Uranus person irritate/**** off the Mars person?

Have you experienced it?
Are you the Mars or Uranus?

In my case I'm Uranus (my Neptune also conjucts his Mars all on my DSC)
The aspect is exact in our synastry, he has this aspect natally but it's 10 orbs wide.

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Probably the more specific the title the less replies

I have a DW opposition with this guy... Every time we were together, it lasted for a couple of weeks only. And I hope now it's completely over cuz although sex was off the charts (Mars/Pluto aspect DW too) I really am not sure why I'm attracted to him, I'm not even into him lol sounds weird but I wanna be with him, and not be with him at the same time. I can have an amazing time with him though. And it's never boring for sure. But it's a very on again/off again relationship as you described.

posted November 18, 2018 06:54 AM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
anonymidarkness..

Wow.

How far is Uranus from your Mars in your natal?

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posted November 18, 2018 08:13 AM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
No, she turned me on all the time lol, I was the one who irritated her Uranus all the time.

It was an amazing relationship tho, the best I've had, the whole relationship moved at the speed of ferrari(also crashed like one injuring both fatally but ahh well thats a given). I felt like my Mars was on steroids when I was around her, I felt like I could do anything for her, scale mountains, slay dinosaurs, hell u name it! I'm feeling the fire even right now as I speak....phew...what a ride, literally and figuratively speaking.

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WoooW!!! What a fiery response!!
you're indeed on fire!! I loved it
Can you tell me the orbs of the synastry aspect? Plus do you have it natally? If yes how tight it is?

How did you irritate the Uranus person?
How long did it last?

posted November 18, 2018 08:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Probably the more specific the title the less replies

I have a DW opposition with this guy... Every time we were together, it lasted for a couple of weeks only. And I hope now it's completely over cuz although sex was off the charts (Mars/Pluto aspect DW too) I really am not sure why I'm attracted to him, I'm not even into him lol sounds weird but I wanna be with him, and not be with him at the same time. I can have an amazing time with him though. And it's never boring for sure. But it's a very on again/off again relationship as you described.

And it's not that he irritates me, but I'm p*ssed off when he asks me a question that's relevant for the now and only listens to my response hours later. Like dude don't ask me a question if you're not gonna listen to my response. He only calls me up immediately when I don't respond, lol weirdo. Then he's p*ssed at me for shutting him out. So I guess it certainly goes both ways.

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Do you have it natally too? Does he? I mean the Mars oppositen Uranus.
Also the opposition may be a little more problematic?
I'm asking because in our case he doesn't have it natally (wrll I mran it's 10 orbs) but it's 0 degrees in our synastry.

How long did it last?
(His Pluto squares my Mars too)

I feel like the last paragraph has to do with your Mercury aspects?

posted November 18, 2018 08:43 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I'm experiencing the trine aspect DW and he has Mars trine Uranus natally while I have sesquisquare. Our interaction is unconventional enough - unpredictable yet fresh & exciting. I like it but I don't think I want too much of it. Sexual attraction is intense and consistent. I don't sense any on/off.

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posted November 18, 2018 12:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:

Trine is supposed to be softer, more positive but not as stronger.
I don't know about the sesquisquare at all. I don't know if minor aspects count.
Do you have the sesquisquare natally? Hownclose it is? Does your Uranus trine hisbMars and vice versa on synastry?

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Yes, I have the sesquisquare natally at 2 deg. He has the trine natally at 1 deg. In synastry my Uranus trine his Mars and his Uranus trine my Mars. I feel that this is enough to generate an instant sexual spark. Then again, we also have Mars/Pluto DW...

posted November 18, 2018 03:42 PM            

Anyways, I have Moon-Mars-Chiron opposite Uranus (and saturn) Natally.

Makes me very rebellious, emotionally erratic (note, emotionally. In other ways I'm a super reliable taurus girl) Uncommon ideas about norms etc

So well I have this in synastry with everyone born the same year or the year before me.

I have this with my crush, or former crush, but we also have venus-uranus and sun-uranus double whammies.

Our friendship started out of the blue and seemengly just by a coincedence. Ironically, it started Because of me getting irritated about something and leaving class in a hurry because I was super irritated and felt like I was being "smothered" and controlled by the teachers ahah typical uranus-moon and gemini stellium.

Anyways, not to dwell on details, we became a team ( him, I and an other guy) out of the blue thanks to my restlessness and me storming out..

How we met, uranus theme.
How we suddenly started to flirt, uranus theme. ( I ignited things, with a strong eye contact one day ahah typical venus aries of me )

How we some periods are together working on projects for months, to not see eachother for several months, uranus theme.

Also, I have uranus-mars aspect.
He has uranus-venus aspect natally.

We are from different backgrounds, and have different ethnicities and religiouns, he is not even my type! haha

Now, we are, just friends. Maybe thats too typical uranus?

Irritations, well that I'm not sure of, bc I have it natally, so I'm by default an emotionally irritable person. He goes on my nerves very often. And I go on his nerves too! We are getting better at talking things out though.

But his tactic is to, smooth things over, and if it was up to him, he would never talk things out! His tactic is to just be extra warm kind and attentive if he has done something to upset me.

posted November 18, 2018 05:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Yes, I have the sesquisquare natally at 2 deg. He has the trine natally at 1 deg. In synastry my Uranus trine his Mars and his Uranus trine my Mars. I feel that this is enough to generate an instant sexual spark. Then again, we also have Mars/Pluto DW...

Yes, trine is softer but electrifying nonetheless, in a positive way. It doesn't really create irritation. But being a Taurus and having some Saturn aspects natally, I do like some sense of stability/predictability in my r/s.

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posted November 18, 2018 06:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
I am the Uranus Neptune like you, and my bf's Mars is conjunct Neptune by 1' applying and Uranus by 3' applying. I think it's more sexual and creative than irritating. (The Sun square Mars and moon square Mars are the irritating aspects )
We tend to bounce ideas off each other and have a psychic link.
My Mars also widely trines his Uranus and Neptune at 8' and 5'.

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So he has natally Mars conjuct Uranus and Neptune. Do you feel like you are the one affected by this aspect?
I have Pluto square Venus and Mars natally. When someone's Pluto squares them I don't feel it at all. Same goes for others' Uranus and Neptune opposing my Sun (I have it natally so I don't feel the energy at all but others do).
I am suspecting that in my case I will be the only one feeling the Neptune conjuct Mars as the Neptune person since he has it natally.. It's like I'll feel it by myself since he already has it in him.
With Uranus is different he doesn't have it natally I mean it's 10 orbs.

posted November 18, 2018 06:32 PM            

Since you have this aspect natally I would like to know if it really affects you in synastry. In my case I have Sun oppo Neptune-Uranus and Pluto square Venus, Mars and Jup.
I never feel it when others' Pkuto squares Venus and Mars or when their Neptune/Uranus oppose my Sun.

So the relationship is quite Uranian in many ways. We have different backgrounds, religions, ethnicities and countries too.. even color. Lol

In your case the on-off is also true
I mean since you may be together for a few weeks/months and then not see each other for a few weeks/months.

I disliked the friend thing you said in the end. It makes me so sad ending up just being friends

Do you have Neptune/Pluto/Moon contacts?

Mercury in Libra is like that too!

Now are you in a relationship or just pure friends?

posted November 18, 2018 07:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
Do you have it natally too? Does he? I mean the Mars oppositen Uranus.
Also the opposition may be a little more problematic?
I'm asking because in our case he doesn't have it natally (wrll I mran it's 10 orbs) but it's 0 degrees in our synastry.

How long did it last?
(His Pluto squares my Mars too)

I feel like the last paragraph has to do with your Mercury aspects?

* I posted a thread with the title Mars conjuct DSC/Uranus/Neptune because his Mars conjucts all of these in my chart, I got no rrsponse probably because the title had too many planets lol That's why I hoped this time would be better since it's more specific (taking the planets one by one)

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I have the opposition at 10 degree, so wouldn't necessarily count it... But he has it at 7.
In synastry we have it at 1 and 2 degree approx.

It lasted for approx a month - twice. I was the one to cut it the first time. Second time it was rather mutual though. (we were on separate pages as far as life path goes, although I think that was the excuse rather. I don't think I would've settled with him anyway.)

And you're probably right about the Mercury aspects.

posted November 18, 2018 08:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
Melinn yes
I've been that person "I've have it but I don't have any idea how it works"
It's Sun-Venus square and opposition I've had it everytime but I can't really understand how it really works like I do with other aspects.

Since you have this aspect natally I would like to know if it really affects you in synastry. In my case I have Sun oppo Neptune-Uranus and Pluto square Venus, Mars and Jup.
I never feel it when others' Pkuto squares Venus and Mars or when their Neptune/Uranus oppose my Sun.

So the relationship is quite Uranian in many ways. We have different backgrounds, religions, ethnicities and countries too.. even color. Lol

In your case the on-off is also true
I mean since you may be together for a few weeks/months and then not see each other for a few weeks/months.

I disliked the friend thing you said in the end. It makes me so sad ending up just being friends

Do you have Neptune/Pluto/Moon contacts?

Mercury in Libra is like that too!

Now are you in a relationship or just pure friends?

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It's interesting what you're saying, actually been contemplating about it lately. The natal vs synastry aspects.

I think ultimately one likes to have their yin brought about in a yang aspect. Not the yang to mirror another person's yang.

For example, if you have Venus in your 7th, Venusian aspects in a person are important to you. So ideally your partner should have Venus in their first house. It's your inner that you wanna see outwardly.

Say in my case... Mercury square Mars. So naturally I'm argumentative. If I argue with a person, it's just too much yang energy. But if a person has Mars strongly within their subconscious, they'd probably like this energy exuding from me.

My ruling planet Mercury is in my 11th. There's this guy I'm so turned on by his way of expressing himself lol. Initially I thought it's probably his Mercury being in Aquarius. But I don't think that's the reason, since I'm not very different in that sense. I think it's his Mercury in quincunx aspect to my Mars. This quincunx aspect mirrors my 11th house ruling planet. His way of expressing himself is 'unique' to my Mars (in aspect to Mercury natally). Yeah maybe traditionally it's a not as good aspect. In this case I'm just turned on by it.

So what you said... You probably do or act the way you do anyway. So that person just hopping on the bandwagon won't strike anything different in any way.
But say your Pluto/Venus/Mars/Jupiter aspects... Perhaps you would like the Scorpio rising sort? And their ruling planet Mars in Libra from the twelfth close to their 1st house cusp... That would mirror your Pluto/Venus/Mars/Jupiter shebang on their outer persona.
Or your Sun oppose Uranus/Neptune, perhaps you'd be attracted to an Aquarius moon in their twelfth house? It would feel like your Sun's light can be received by someone if you know what I mean... Hence will feel worthy in that person's presence.

posted November 18, 2018 08:48 PM            

Some say it's the outer planets impacting the inner planets.

Maybe it's both.

I always wonder what people of my generation feel when their Uranus is conjunct my Moon.

Can they feel it? Or is Uranus too big to feel anything from the little Moon.

posted November 18, 2018 08:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
So he has natally Mars conjuct Uranus and Neptune. Do you feel like you are the one affected by this aspect?
I have Pluto square Venus and Mars natally. When someone's Pluto squares them I don't feel it at all. Same goes for others' Uranus and Neptune opposing my Sun (I have it natally so I don't feel the energy at all but others do).
I am suspecting that in my case I will be the only one feeling the Neptune conjuct Mars as the Neptune person since he has it natally.. It's like I'll feel it by myself since he already has it in him.
With Uranus is different he doesn't have it natally I mean it's 10 orbs.

Do you have other Neptune/Uranus even NN aspect that may create that beautiful psychic link you're talking about?

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No he doesn't have it natally, we are 8.5 years apart in age. He does have Mars parallel Uranus and Neptune though, (both are parallel my Sun-Mercury). I guess that's the same thing.
I actually think he might feel it more than I do. Like he sees me in a Uranus-Neptune way that I can't exactly see in myself. Maybe vise versa...

We also have my Sun-Mercury in his 12th, exactly conjunct his Uranus. His Sun trine my Uranus-Neptune 3' and 6'. His Moon trine my Uranus-Neptune 0' and 3'. His Mercury trine my Uranus-Neptune 1' and 1'.
My Moon trine his Uranus and Neptune 5' and 8'. My Venus sextile his Neptune 3'. His Neptune-ASC conjunct my Vertex.

posted November 18, 2018 11:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
@sassaqua
I'd look at moon as a receptive planet, so you receiving energy from my Uranus... It'll just make you react to me different in association with me? So I might like your emotional energy I'd think? (Since I generally like Uranian aspects) I can only think of one person with her moon in Capricorn, doesn't aspect my Uranus tight enough though. But if I'd have to describe it... Sometimes I pity her 'out of whack' style of acting when she claims she 'can't help herself acting the way she does' (in response to me being critical of her actions). It's like, I find it amusing and crazy at the same time. And it doesn't necessarily bother me contrary to many others around her. And the way she excuses her actions... I'm like alright you're cute enough anyway I'll just let it pass.

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Hey Brenda_S -

thanks but the question I was posing was in continuation of the discussion here above about - when someone has it already natally. What the impact is when someone else touches it, and they DONT have it natally.

It's the best way i can put the question. But yes, like what Plutonian is saying up there ^^.

I'm talking with this guy and it's really interesting - his Moon is only aspected by a Neptune square. It's occurred to me that, every one of our generation would probably smother him, aid him in some way, look after him, and maybe too there has been deception. All things Neptunian.

Does he feel anything different when he has the aspect? Probably not. He's just accustomed to the results of the aspect. But, to other people, he is a new experience through their Neptune squaring his Moon. So yes, the outer planet does probably respond.

posted November 19, 2018 12:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
I'm not sure about what I'm going to say but it's true for me. Whenever someone's Pluto squares my Venus and Mars I don't feel it at all because I have it natally.
Same goes for their Uranus and Neptune opposite my Sun. It's like those aspects don't affect me personally at all but it affects them which is normal.
So in my case with my Neptune conjucting his Mars I know I'll be the one feeling this aspect as Neptune since he has it natally.
However he doesn't have Uranus-Mars conjuction so I think this will affect him too.
You know what I mean?

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In my experience both feel it just that the intensity can be different or the one with same aspects in natal could be used to such energy. E.g. I know the attraction is felt both ways but I'm more thrown off by it than him and it took me some time to understand what I feel while he seems to be quite cool about it. IMO as this is part of his psyche, this energy is familiar to him. When you're familiar with something, you don't "feel" it but it isn't that it's not affecting you in the way it's supposed to. Not sure if you know what I mean?

I've similar aspects in synastry with my ex so in a way I'm familiar with this energy, but with this guy it's double dosage (DW Mars-Uranus and DW Mars-Pluto).

posted November 19, 2018 02:12 AM            

For a classic example - a person who has Pluto aspecting Venus will be used to people of their generation obsessing over them in love. Obsession will be part of their love experience. But, probably too, they will be more experienced in handling obsessive feelings because they have it natally, and have learned coping strategies over time. Whereas others, without their Venus aspecting Pluto may go a bit bananas with that person (their Pluto aspecting their Venus).

Or for another example, Pluto and Mars in challenged aspect - generational peers with Pluto impacting their Mars will be aggressively triggered. While they themselves will have learned to channel that energy through out their experience with it.

With the aid of astrology then, there are tools to maybe approach people with outer planet aspects more carefully if wanting to attract such a person.

Sorry, all a bit theoretical and having trouble collecting precisely what I want to say because it goes a bit deeper than this again. And the rest of their chart matters. And also, while it is their experience, even if it is a "negative" one, it is still their love experience. So delivering something too far from that experience will not be comfortable for them. Eg, the Mars and Pluto.. they may be experienced with violence even, but, anything too smooth will not register as a "love experience".

posted November 19, 2018 03:19 AM            

In your case the Uranus aspects are definately valid imo they are too loose natally and too tight in synastry. So they should make an impact.

I have some weird things going on again and again with the ones I attract (and am attracted to) that don't make that much sense.

I get exactly what you're saying actually anfdI do agree but I feel that there is even more to it or it is a bit more complicated dependingnon on the natal planets.

Similar to the example about Mercury-Mars is what happened twice with the nodes in my case. I have NN in 7th H and two of the ones I've fallen for in the past have their NN in their 1st H.

However that Moon in Aqua example is far from truth. Actually Aqua Moon is the second worse Moon after Aries for me.

Even though I have Sun in Cancer I like Aqua Sun and Aqua Mercuries which both make a quincunx to mines. Not only I like them but we actually understand each other which is weird. (I have Mercury contra-parallel Uranus).
Even though I have Leo Venus, Mars and Jupiter I don't like Mercury in fire signs not even Leo (which is conjuct my three planets). Not that I have a huge problem with them I just don't feel anything special.
I also love Mercury in late Scorpio which square this 3 planets and trines my Mercury.

However my Moon is in Pisces and it just receives a 5 orb trine from Sun plus a minor aspect to Saturn. I don't want hard aspects to my Moon especially squares.. Actually I like Scorpio Moon the most and then early Cancer Moon (not mid one because they are conjuct my SN). So I actually dislike most Moon signs.

I think it's even more particular and clear than wbat you describe it. When someone has soft aspects to a planet natally he probably won't like at least the squares to that planet in synastry.
When someone has hard aspects natally he will be bored with the soft aspects to that planet in synastry or it will not make enough of an impact to him to feel attracted to that person.

However I have many questions still left.
One of them has to do with what you mentioned about my Venus and Mars square Pluto.
I have Cancer Sun, Mercury and ASc, Pisces Moon and Pluto in Scorpio is in 5th H of Scorpio.
So it is obvious with that much water why I am attracted to heavy Scorpio men.

What I have problem understanding is Venus in Capricorn conjucting their Saturn.. Why is it always that? Ok I have Capricorn DSc with Uranus, Neptune, NN, Jun and Lilith in there.. and you'll tell me well girl it's pretty obvious then why you're always attracted to Venus in Cap.

And what about the quincunx with my Leo Trio?
The real question is how the hell do we have so similar tastes with those people but I am so different with Venus and Mars (especially Venus) in fire signs??? they're trining mines yet we couldn't be more different maybe with the exception of Leo which is not bad but still I'm not attracted to that either.

I told you these because I want to do a comparison with a friend of mine born 3 days earlier than me.
She has the exact same signs in her natal chart and the Pluto squares are tighter than mines by 1 orb while the Neptune & Uranus-Sun opposition is looser by 3 orbs.
The only difference is her Moon in Capricorn and her AsC which is in Pisces but has the whole sign of Aries in her 1st house.

She is attracted to Aries, Leo and Libras.. I mean their chart is full of Aries or Leo or Libra or a mix of those 90%. She actually felt the best and like she has the same interests and stuff with a guy whose Venus and Mars conjucted hers.
But Sun, Moon and Mercury in Aries/Libra square her Sun, Moon and Mercury in Cancer and Capricorn. Her relationships are indeed problematic, they are different both emotionally and mentally. Her communication with the ones she chooses sucks and she knows it herself, so does their emotional worlds, but she is attracted to those men.

Now tell me please how this person with the exact same planet signs except of the Moon is
attracted to completely different people than me. She hasn't been once attracted to Scorpio/Capricorn men (I mean not one of them had a personal planet on there or heavy Pluto aspects), she has Uranus, Neptune, NN PLUS her Moon in Capricorn but she isn't attracted to them at all.

posted November 19, 2018 03:52 AM            

I agree with you.
The Neptune-Moon is a good example.
I feel with the Mars Neptune conjuction the native is used to others practically serving him or him serving/sacrifising himself for others (depending on his Mars sign, house and the rest of the chart).
It can go as far as having others offer themselves sexually like they are hypnotised by the Mars-Neptune native.

Having Pluto square Venus and Mars doesn't make me personally violent at all, but love is painful and intense. If someone doesn't feel as intensely about me then it's indeed like he isn't in love with me even if he is in his way. It is just not enough for me.

I can't say that others are triggered by me more it feels like it creates sexual attraction and others feel the Pluto vibes coming from me but I am not even aware of it.

Anyway that is not he point but I get what you mean.