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Topic: Moon in partner's 8th house synastry - who feels it more/is obsessed?
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ChildofVenus
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posted February 27, 2019 05:20 PM
  
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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
I can't understand why people rule out an entire sign. You realize that that's 1/12 of humanity, right?
Because Gemini is a sign that is known to cheat. IP: Logged |
Brenda_S
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posted February 27, 2019 06:45 PM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Because Gemini is a sign that is known to cheat.
That is unfair to say lol. My Moon and rising is in Gemini, it wouldn't automatically make me a cheater. I think you're looking at it wrong. I say get to know him and see where it goes, without any agenda or negative assumptions about him. Unless he has history that proves him to be so I wouldn't just x him out. IP: Logged |
Selenite
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posted February 27, 2019 09:38 PM
i have this with my drummer, and was fairly obsessed with him when we first met. i am attracted and in love with him but am in a relationship with someone who i also love so, yeah. but his moon in pisces is in my 8th, square my sun.
his Scorpio 9 sun/pluto conjunction is exactly on my Venus..
and his 27 Sco Venus is on my 28 Sco Pluto / 0 Sag Jupiter
square my mars...
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anska5
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posted February 28, 2019 05:43 AM
Selenite, that's interesting, which of his houses does your Moon fall in?
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ChildofVenus
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posted March 02, 2019 01:18 PM
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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
That is unfair to say lol. My Moon and rising is in Gemini, it wouldn't automatically make me a cheater. I think you're looking at it wrong. I say get to know him and see where it goes, without any agenda or negative assumptions about him. Unless he has history that proves him to be so I wouldn't just x him out.
I'm trying not to be judgmental but it's hard because I've had experiences with this sign. Being as though BOTH of my parents are Gemini's I know how they are.
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dribaby
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posted March 03, 2019 01:08 AM
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Originally posted by anska5:
Hi,I'd be interested in your experience with moon in partner's 8th house overlay in synastry. I would have thought that it's the 8th house person who is more affected, but from the various infos I found online, I'm now completely confused. Some websites claim it's indeed the 8th house person that is most affected, but others say it's really the moon person that can't help and be obsessed. I'd be really grateful for anyone who has experienced this in synastry to share how it felt and who seemed more affected. Thanks so much!
My boyfriend's moon is in my 8th house and he definitely feels it more. We both love each other very much but he just feels it more intensely. He always says he loves me too much and how it scares him. It's a really deep house to have your moon at but one thing I can say is that it brings true unconditional love. Out of all the guys I've dated, never have i felt so accepted and loved in my life. I really appreciate this house overlay IP: Logged |
Selenite
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posted March 04, 2019 03:29 AM
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Originally posted by anska5:
Selenite, that's interesting, which of his houses does your Moon fall in?
i'm not sure but it's exactly conjunct his jupiter... IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted March 04, 2019 09:05 AM
Besides the obsession part about this overlay. Do you find that the Moon person likes to provide for the house person? Or help them financially? IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted March 06, 2019 06:07 PM
I haven't had a decent nights sleep since. IP: Logged |
Plut0nian2
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posted March 06, 2019 07:28 PM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Besides the obsession part about this overlay. Do you find that the Moon person likes to provide for the house person? Or help them financially?
Don't know if I mentioned it here earlier but in my case the Moon person did want to help me financially pretty quickly which was a bit not exactlt creepy but uncomfortable because he was going too fast for me. (I have Saturn in 8th H)
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ChildofVenus
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posted March 06, 2019 08:09 PM
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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
Don't know if I mentioned it here earlier but in my case the Moon person did want to help me financially pretty quickly which was a bit not exactlt creepy but uncomfortable because he was going too fast for me. (I have Saturn in 8th H)
Yeah I’m the Moon person and I really want to help the house person. I see where sometimes they ask other people for things. So I decided to help them they don’t want me to spend money on them. They don’t have any planets in their 8th house but it’s in Capricorn. I don’t mean to be pushy though I told them I would just help once and that I won’t do it anymore. Having Saturn in the 8th house and Capricorn being the ruler of the 8th house is different I think. IP: Logged |
MarsSaturnDelight
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posted March 07, 2019 04:18 AM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I haven't had a decent nights sleep since.
Why, because you want to help them financially? IP: Logged |
Plut0nian2
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posted March 07, 2019 07:30 AM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yeah I’m the Moon person and I really want to help the house person. I see where sometimes they ask other people for things. So I decided to help them they don’t want me to spend money on them. They don’t have any planets in their 8th house but it’s in Capricorn. I don’t mean to be pushy though I told them I would just help once and that I won’t do it anymore.Having Saturn in the 8th house and Capricorn being the ruler of the 8th house is different I think.
It is different since mine is in Aqua but Saturn or Cap in a house gives similar effects unless the Cap house has other planets affecting it like in my case for example my Cap DSC conjuncts Uranus and Neptune.
However his 8th H im Cap is empty. Saturn in or ruling the 8th H makes the person cautious to 8th H matters, it avoids receiving/ accepting/asking for things from other people because it knows well the burden that comes with it plus it likes to rely on himself.
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ChildofVenus
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posted March 07, 2019 08:03 AM
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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
It is different since mine is in Aqua but Saturn or Cap in a house gives similar effects unless the Cap house has other planets affecting it like in my case for example my Cap DSC conjuncts Uranus and Neptune.
However his 8th H im Cap is empty. Saturn in or ruling the 8th H makes the person cautious to 8th H matters, it avoids receiving/ accepting/asking for things from other people because it knows well the burden that comes with it plus it likes to rely on himself.
Yeah I get they like to do for themselves. But if you are asking for something then there must be something off somewhere obviously. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted March 07, 2019 08:04 AM
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Originally posted by MarsSaturnDelight:
Why, because you want to help them financially?
No because I want to see him but we aren’t dating. So I can’t just tell him to meet me. But I think I’ve figured something out where I’ll be able to see him once a month. There is something that I want that he has so I’ll buy it from him on a monthly basis. IP: Logged |
Plut0nian2
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posted March 07, 2019 03:48 PM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yeah I get they like to do for themselves. But if you are asking for something then there must be something off somewhere obviously.
You mean he did ask you to help him? IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted March 07, 2019 03:56 PM
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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
You mean he did ask you to help him?
No I mean I see where sometimes he'll make a post on social media. Asking if anyone has something (whatever he needs at the time) he can have or buy.
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ballerina
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posted March 07, 2019 04:05 PM
Are you seriously talking
about that kinda stuff here?
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All my love, with all my Heart
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ChildofVenus
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posted March 07, 2019 04:15 PM
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Originally posted by ballerina:
Are you seriously talking
about that kinda stuff here?
What kind of stuff are you referring to? I don't know what you mean? What do you assume I am talking about? IP: Logged |
ballerina
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posted March 07, 2019 04:17 PM
Yes, you do.
I shall leave it at that!------------------
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ChildofVenus
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posted March 07, 2019 04:17 PM
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Originally posted by ballerina:
Yes, you do.
I shall leave it at that!
If you say so I think it's funny how people always assume things because they are never correct. IP: Logged |
ballerina
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posted March 07, 2019 04:20 PM
I just know at this point!------------------
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ChildofVenus
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posted March 07, 2019 04:21 PM
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Originally posted by ballerina:
I just know at this point!
I guarantee you don't but assume all you want. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted March 11, 2019 11:08 AM
I hate this overlay being the Moon person.IP: Logged |
MarsSaturnDelight
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posted March 11, 2019 11:52 AM
Don’t forget, you have his Pluto squaring your moon too. This will certainly change the complexion of thingsIP: Logged |
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