posted March 21, 2019 12:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Bismarck2:
What about mars in the 12th?

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posted March 22, 2019 09:06 PM            

My current 4 year relationship has nnode conjunct Juno on the IC. We are not moving towards developing a home unit together. As a matter of fact, our family situations are very much separate and I don't see that changing any time soon.

My ex husband of 15 years and I have composite nnode in the 11th house. No harsh moon/Pluto aspects. We were never just friends at first. And we arent now...lol.

There's so much out there about the nnode relating to a current life purpose of some sort, and how it should relate to your relationship with someone in regards to the relationship purpose. I'm more inclined to think it's a portal to enlightenment vs sole purpose and some may be ready for that some some may never be ready. Transits and other energy interacting with the node seem to be more telling.

posted March 23, 2019 03:44 AM            

NN in 11th says "perhaps start off as friends first". It did not say you WILL start off as friends. Like you said you don't have harsh moon/pluto with your ex. For this placement, I read it as these 2 ppl are better off as friends than lovers.

NN in 4th... the interpretation was to build a "family-type" of relationship. It didn't say anything about a shared physical home.

posted March 23, 2019 03:56 AM            

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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Transits and other energy interacting with the node seem to be more telling.

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posted March 25, 2019 11:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
^ Don't take it literally as this can also be applied to friendships, family relationships etc.

NN in 11th says "perhaps start off as friends first". It did not say you WILL start off as friends. Like you said you don't have harsh moon/pluto with your ex. For this placement, I read it as these 2 ppl are better off as friends than lovers.

NN in 4th... the interpretation was to build a "family-type" of relationship. It didn't say anything about a shared physical home.

I've NN in 5th but does it mean we WILL have children? It would be nice if we do but sadly, I don't see it happening in the foreseeable future. Anyway, the interpretation only says we're "suited" to have kids together (for whatever reasons... maybe we'll make a good team as parents?).

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That was my point, for others not to take it literally. Many people would without seeing deeper into the meaning of the nnode.

The 4th house rules the home and family. It's about your heritage, private life. It rules property and domestic life. It is about home and family.

So for the reference I made to the nnode in the 4th house was to state that the nnode may be there, but one or both individuals may not be equipped to work towards integrating 4th house topics into the relationship. It would take some real focus. It's not automatic. And it may be just a desire from one party in the relationship and not the other. In other words, it's a point of enlightenment that is not easily obtained.

posted March 25, 2019 11:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Do you think transit NN conjunct composite Venus is significant? It will form an exact applying aspect 1-mth later.

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posted March 26, 2019 12:51 AM            

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Originally posted by llewsacm:
You mean nnode transit conjunct composite Venus? Yes, it think that would be an opportunity for the couple to look at their relationship from a standpoint of love, money, possessions, etc. What Venus rules...and determine if they are on track in the relationship or if they need to make an adjustment.

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posted January 15, 2024 11:11 PM            

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Originally posted by ana_bee:
I’ve experienced compNN in 8th house twice, and both times it ended in a very long break up period, where it was hard to sort out all attachments. The last relationship produced a child.. so we’ll be broken up, but attached forever.

Another significant r/s had compNN in 6th house. We had a wonderful connection on a spiritual and creative level. We helped each other a lot with psychological issues and day to day stuff. I helped him to develope a healthier lifestyle .. we did a lot of cleaning and maintaining. His apartment never looked better!

Currently I’m dealing with compNN in 7th house! We both have that in our natal charts, so I wonder how this will play out!

BTW a general question:

Is the composite NN something that will ultimately play out in the relationship? Or is it more a ‘potential energy’ like in the natal chart. A direction you should work on, but will most likely never continually be able to reach, since the pull of the SN is more compelling. ??

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