posted May 01, 2019 07:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Sorry about this :-( As i said the other day, I think you should let him pursue you instead :-) I know I sound like Grandma's advices, lol !! But while his Leo Venus is likely flattered by being put on a pedestal, his Aries Moon might prefer to conquer and might enjoy to pursue more than being pursued ;-)
Too bad we don't know his ASC though...

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posted May 01, 2019 01:10 PM            

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Originally posted by winnertivanigrace:
lol Okay then. But me being Leo Sun is not patient enough to wait lol. He's too sloww. Thanks a lot anyway!! <333

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posted May 02, 2019 08:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
You have to rely on your Leo pride then :-)) Maybe he's just too confident that you're there waiting for him? (just guessing) <3

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Nope, he's not a confident guy. He's shy and timid. that's why he admires me for being such a proud and confident girl. Thats our overall personality. But when it comes to love, when we are in love we switch our attitude. I act like a cancer when in love and he acts like a leo. I hate it lol. I love my leo pride more lol. I hate it for being so miserable. I think we act more like our venus when in love (me as cancer venus and him as leo venus) It's making me vulnerable since I keep asking for love validation and he's being so confident and his attitude is always like "I know you love me and of course I love you. If not, I'm not gonna be here with you". Kinda annoying but he says it in sweet way. Hes sweet but annoying 😂

Do you also act like your venus when in love? or Do all people act like their venus not like our sun?

Anyway we hang out today. He remembered few days ago I wanted him to accompany me to have my car fixed. So he asked me out. He told me that he's been feeling unwell these few days thats why he's not feeling romantic. 😑 well at least he was supposed to tell me that he was not feeling well right?

About my waiting attitude. It's actually more like "ignoring" attitude. He feels like i kinda ignore him. Me being indifferent. Me actually act like i don't care. but deep down inside I'm actually dyiiiiinggg and cryinggg T_T This is actually my way to get his attention lol ( is it more like me being manipulative as a pluto? sometimes i dont realize it)

posted May 02, 2019 04:20 PM            

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Originally posted by winnertivanigrace:
Nope, he's not a confident guy. He's shy and timid. that's why he admires me for being such a proud and confident girl. Thats our overall personality. But when it comes to love, when we are in love we switch our attitude. I act like a cancer when in love and he acts like a leo. I hate it lol. I love my leo pride more lol. I hate it for being so miserable. I think we act more like our venus when in love (me as cancer venus and him as leo venus) It's making me vulnerable since I keep asking for love validation and he's being so confident and his attitude is always like "I know you love me and of course I love you. If not, I'm not gonna be here with you". Kinda annoying but he says it in sweet way. Hes sweet but annoying 😂

Do you also act like your venus when in love? or Do all people act like their venus not like our sun?

Anyway we hang out today. He remembered few days ago I wanted him to accompany me to have my car fixed. So he asked me out. He told me that he's been feeling unwell these few days thats why he's not feeling romantic. 😑 well at least he was supposed to tell me that he was not feeling well right?

About my waiting attitude. It's actually more like "ignoring" attitude. He feels like i kinda ignore him. Me being indifferent. Me actually act like i don't care. but deep down inside I'm actually dyiiiiinggg and cryinggg T_T This is actually my way to get his attention lol ( is it more like me being manipulative as a pluto? sometimes i dont realize it)

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Maybe your Virgo Moon is able to look like you're ignoring him, lol, but yeah, your Cancer Venus gets eager of romantic manifestation, and since he's cancer, he might feel it. I was referring especially to the fact that you said you are demanding and asking him if he loves you and show yourself insecure in those moments... His Uranus opposite your Venus in 4th is what makes him detached sometimes and things feel somehow unstable, I think. It is interesting though that you have such a reverse mirror of Sun/Venus (Leo-Cancer/Cancer-Leo)... this is very nice :-)

posted May 03, 2019 10:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Maybe your Virgo Moon is able to look like you're ignoring him, lol, but yeah, your Cancer Venus gets eager of romantic manifestation, and since he's cancer, he might feel it. I was referring especially to the fact that you said you are demanding and asking him if he loves you and show yourself insecure in those moments... His Uranus opposite your Venus in 4th is what makes him detached sometimes and things feel somehow unstable, I think. It is interesting though that you have such a reverse mirror of Sun/Venus (Leo-Cancer/Cancer-Leo)... this is very nice :-)

For me, my natal Venus is weird... I'm Aquarius Sun conjunct Aqua Venus, so I should act in a very independent way, but I'm not that way. When I'm in love, I just want to be with the guy and the entire world disappear... but I think it's my Piesces ASC and my Taurus Moon, they seem to affect me more than Venus in this.

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Can i ask some more questions? I'm confused and curious! 😥

1. Do my sun/venus and his sun/venus make double whammy aspect? or is it only one side. Since I only see My Venus conjunct His Sun in our synastry. But I see both Uranus square moon and also Moon Square Uranus,then this one is called as double whammy, isnt it?

2. Who do you think have the upper hand in our relationship? Since we have pluto, uranus, saturn on both side

3. Who loves more in our relationship? lol can we see that from our synastry? 😁

4. Do you think our Hard Aspect in composite will make the relationship survive or at least,happy in long term? Moon opp Uranus, Moon Opp Saturn. In synastry we have DW moon square uranus. When we both together we have fun, we feel loved, but sometimes we have moments that its just so cold between us when we are together. And actually most of the times this relationship makes me so lonely. When we are off I just don't feel loved. and its pretty sad. It burdens me. Relationship should make us beautiful and happy, right

posted May 04, 2019 12:40 AM            

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Originally posted by winnertivanigrace:
Can i ask some more questions? I'm confused and curious! 😥

1. Do my sun/venus and his sun/venus make double whammy aspect? or is it only one side. Since I only see My Venus conjunct His Sun in our synastry. But I see both Uranus square moon and also Moon Square Uranus,then this one is called as double whammy, isnt it?

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Sun/Venus apparently is no DW, but you still have that "mirror" Leo/Cancer-Cancer/Leo, so it might play out similar to a DW.
Uranus square Moon yes, it is DW, and it looks like the reason you have such on-off switches and feeling of detachment sometimes... but still, Uranus is the planet that gives you those sparkling moments, so it's kind of the other side of the coin.....

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. Who do you think have the upper hand in our relationship? Since we have pluto, uranus, saturn on both side

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The main difference I see in your synastry between you two is given from the Saturn and neptune aspects, your Saturn aspects are harder while his are more "balanced", and your Neptune idealizes/dreams more than his, but then you have a Neptune conjunction so he looks in tune though :-)

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3. Who loves more in our relationship? lol can we see that from our synastry? 😁

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Unfortuntaley, we might check this out if we had his exact TOB, cause this would be shown from the houses overlay :-(

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4. Do you think our Hard Aspect in composite will make the relationship survive or at least,happy in long term? Moon opp Uranus, Moon Opp Saturn. In synastry we have DW moon square uranus. When we both together we have fun, we feel loved, but sometimes we have moments that its just so cold between us when we are together. And actually most of the times this relationship makes me so lonely. When we are off I just don't feel loved. and its pretty sad. It burdens me. Relationship should make us beautiful and happy, right

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Comp. Saturn is not completely stable with that one conjunction to Uranus, but it might suggest that a long term relationship is possible whether you two are both self-reliant/less dependant from each others (and from the mood switches).
So it seems there is a good Venus, Mars, Pluto energy, so you have to keep this alive against the Uranus instability and the Saturn darkness.