posted August 14, 2019 08:39 PM            

I usually never cling onto things of this sort. I would only find it hard to get over someone if they've been in my life for a long time, but I barely knew the guy and I just can't get over it!

His Cancer Sun (4th) conjuncts my Moon in the 8th house. And his Moon conjuncts my Venus in the 8th, as well as my Mercury and Mars (7th). I thought usually in 8H synastry, the planet person feels it more, and sometimes both. But in my case, it feels like I'm the only one going crazy over this.

I'm so embarrassed lol.

Thoughts on what might be causing this please?

posted August 15, 2019 06:19 AM            

And for good reason, there are some other nice personal aspects here too.

posted August 15, 2019 03:11 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Please post the whole chart and use astro.com

Thanks.

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I've tried this whole morning but it wouldn't aaaa!!!!

posted August 15, 2019 03:12 PM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
Pluto square Venus keeps the obsession.

And for good reason, there are some other nice personal aspects here too.

Eg, the Moon conjunct Sun.

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posted August 15, 2019 04:29 PM            

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Originally posted by athenaia:
Please post the synastry. Or at least leave your guys' birth information here and then delete it when a chart has been posted by someone

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posted August 15, 2019 04:58 PM            

There could possibly be a bottom kite installed with the apex being your Uranus.

There's also a mystic rectangle with your Mercury, your Pluto/his Saturn, your Uranus and then his Moon/your Mercury and Mars.

There's also a yod with his Pluto and his Uranus forming the base, the apex ONCE AGAIN being his Moon/your Mercury and Mars.

So fated relationship is an understatement.

I think that there is way too much stress on his Moon in this relationship. It's all way too heavy, especially for a Gemini Moon to handle. Your Mars there could also be another stressor for him. His Venus is also unaspected.

Your Venus is conjunct his Chiron so unfortunately this was always going to be a very hurtful experience for you.

posted August 15, 2019 07:32 PM            

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Originally posted by athenaia:
Uhhhhh wow! No wonder you can't get over this guy. I see a grand kite with the apex being his Gemini Moon and your Mercury/Mars.

There could possibly be a bottom kite installed with the apex being your Uranus.

There's also a mystic rectangle with your Mercury, your Pluto/his Saturn, your Uranus and then his Moon/your Mercury and Mars.

There's also a yod with his Pluto and his Uranus forming the base, the apex ONCE AGAIN being his Moon/your Mercury and Mars.

So fated relationship is an understatement.

I think that there is way too much stress on his Moon in this relationship. It's all way too heavy, especially for a Gemini Moon to handle. Your Mars there could also be another stressor for him. His Venus is also unaspected.

Your Venus is conjunct his Chiron so unfortunately this was always going to be a very hurtful experience for you.

You're really young though.. a significant age gap here. I think in due time you'll be fine. Maybe you can find peace in the fact that yes this was fated but it seems like one of those karmic relationships that will never really get to be seen through in a traditional way. There's some kind of lesson to be learned here that only you may be able to understand.

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*Gasps*, yes he's in his 30s and I'm in my 20s. I don't mind it because I'm more comfortable dating guys a bit older than me. I'm old in my soul I guess lol, I never get along with men my age...

With that being said, we had some minor misunderstandments that led to us not talking to each other anymore. He felt like I was being too stiff about things that didn't matter and it made him a bit :/. I didn't know how to handle it tbh, the energy between us was kind of driving me nuts. I was freaking out tbh, so my mind kind of shut down in the process, and I started paying attention to minor details and emphasizing them.

It made me really sad, because I knew it was a fated rs and still it fell off over minor things that could've been surpassed if we communicated enough. Which was the reason why I started overthinking things too much, him being too reserved when it came to expressing himself and me freaking out in this whole process.

I've thought the same thing. I've said to myself that there's probably something for me to learn through what happened (maybe for him too??), but what could I possibly learn while we didn't even last that long. So it's kind of effy. Ah!