posted August 31, 2019 09:39 PM            

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Originally posted by IV4Four:
Yeah I definitely feel that energy this weekend going into next week. She recently asked me for money which I've been holding back from her, only for her to turn around and tell me that she was planning on getting a tattoo and that bothered me a bit.

Is it possible for you to give me the exact dates of these transits?

*Also* I was really planning on breaking up with her today, and after seeing everyone validate my feelings, and also seeing the synastry validate the same things, I definitely feel like even tho she may seemingly "look my type"(venus in Aries) I do strongly believe that I want to be with someone who not only looks my type, but is also emotionally, and spiritually available(mars in PIS). Right now I can not get that from her, and i feel like it would be years in waiting before she is able to be that way with me(if she even can). I just think that this is the lesson I needed to learn within this particular relationship. It's just not for me, and I need to(pluto-conjunct venus) let go of her and stop trying to control the outcome of the relationship, it is what it is, and it isnt for me.

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IV4, I hope our reading didn't influence your decision in a negative way! I mean... I feel sorry if something discouraged you or so here... there might be so many different interpretations of your chart and I dont think one should take such an important decision based on astrology! Of course I know you wouldnt just for this reason but for what you're experiencing, I just think you should consider the situation and your feelings regardless what astrology says!
Basically, I think you do have a certain bond here, with strong feelings (Comp. 7th house planets) but with a few issues... with the Sun in 9th house Piesces and the Uranus/DSC, you might need to be very open to maintain this rs, whatever it means in reality.
Given this, you are a Taurus 8th house with Moon in 2nd, and Capricorn Saturn 4th house. This clearly shows you're someone who needs stability and committment... and with your Aries Venus in 7th house, you certainly need honesty and mutual affection, otherwise you become impatient and unsatisfied, and with your Pluto 2nd house opposite Sun I bet you dont like not being in control of the situation... Your Chiron/Jupiter Cancer is also in 10th house, so I think you really need to take decision in a self-confident situation... moreover, your NN 5th house Aquarius square Pluto/square Mercury is able to analyze and ponder about choices quite deeply, so I am sure once you take a decision you're going to carry on in a self-reliant way :-)

Natally, you're going to have some "nervous" transits from Mercury and Mars at the beginning of next week. Together with tr Saturn conjunct Neptune, tr NN conjunct Chiron and tr Chiron conjunct Venus. After next week, you'll be more relaxed until the second half of September, when you will have tr Venus square Uranus and tr NN opposite Uranus, this might give you more confusion and uncertainty. In the meantime though tr SN/Saturn is conjunct Composite Neptune/Uranus, with tr Uranus square Jupiter, so this is when things might get to a turning point in the relationship, after mid september. Tr. Chiron is conjunct your natal Venus until the end of September, when you are going to have tr MC conjunct Saturn, so I think you might find yourself in a more stable situation by then or feel more confident about your decision.

posted August 31, 2019 11:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
IV4, I hope our reading didn't influence your decision in a negative way! I mean... I feel sorry if something discouraged you or so here... there might be so many different interpretations of your chart and I dont think one should take such an important decision based on astrology! Of course I know you wouldnt just for this reason but for what you're experiencing, I just think you should consider the situation and your feelings regardless what astrology says!
Basically, I think you do have a certain bond here, with strong feelings (Comp. 7th house planets) but with a few issues... with the Sun in 9th house Piesces and the Uranus/DSC, you might need to be very open to maintain this rs, whatever it means in reality.
Given this, you are a Taurus 8th house with Moon in 2nd, and Capricorn Saturn 4th house. This clearly shows you're someone who needs stability and committment... and with your Aries Venus in 7th house, you certainly need honesty and mutual affection, otherwise you become impatient and unsatisfied, and with your Pluto 2nd house opposite Sun I bet you dont like not being in control of the situation... Your Chiron/Jupiter Cancer is also in 10th house, so I think you really need to take decision in a self-confident situation... moreover, your NN 5th house Aquarius square Pluto/square Mercury is able to analyze and ponder about choices quite deeply, so I am sure once you take a decision you're going to carry on in a self-reliant way :-)

Natally, you're going to have some "nervous" transits from Mercury and Mars at the beginning of next week. Together with tr Saturn conjunct Neptune, tr NN conjunct Chiron and tr Chiron conjunct Venus. After next week, you'll be more relaxed until the second half of September, when you will have tr Venus square Uranus and tr NN opposite Uranus, this might give you more confusion and uncertainty. In the meantime though tr SN/Saturn is conjunct Composite Neptune/Uranus, with tr Uranus square Jupiter, so this is when things might get to a turning point in the relationship, after mid september. Tr. Chiron is conjunct your natal Venus until the end of September, when you are going to have tr MC conjunct Saturn, so I think you might find yourself in a more stable situation by then or feel more confident about your decision.

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Of course not! I have honestly fought with this idea for some time and it's more so a realization that we just aren't on the same wavelength and also the distance is extremely hard especially seeing that we do not have a real emotional connection. I honestly have felt that I'm holding on to the idea of the situation and not what it actually is.

posted August 31, 2019 11:49 PM            

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Originally posted by IV4Four:
Of course not! I have honestly fought with this idea for some time and it's more so a realization that we just aren't on the same wavelength and also the distance is extremely hard especially seeing that we do not have a real emotional connection. I honestly have felt that I'm holding on to the idea of the situation and not what it actually is.

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I believe you! Well... from such perspective, tr Chiron conjunct your natal Venus in 7th house is certainly leading you to face the relationship issues... in mid september then, tr Venus square Uranus and tr NN opposite Uranus might actually help you to emotionally "detach" and see things clearer, whatever it means. Right at this moment, tr Saturn is not completely helping you in taking a decision, but with those coming Venus/NN transits something might definitely change.

posted September 01, 2019 10:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Chaitaly:
I agree with Stoika
And with the fact that you should ponder your decisions regardless of astrology. Go with your gut and your feelings. As I said at the beginning, you have very good elements in this synastry; so I see you’re attached to her; but you restated that you feel unsatisfied (and you said that before the reading), so maybe you were just looking for advice. Astrology can just point out were energy flows and were difficulties stand but then for taking decisions we should listen to ourselves. It’s important to know what our needs are and if the rel doesn’t work, we can do 2 things... fight for it, or let it go for good. So you didn’t break up already and from what you said you were going to have this long distance? What are her intentions? Does she want to continue this ldr?

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Yeah I totally understand what you two are saying trust me. I am a Tarot reader and I tell me clients the same thing in situations like this. But I feel like one thing that is true is the energy of the situation and my gut feeling has been to make this decision soon. I just wanted to see how our synastry worked to see if we REALLY have good potential in the future.. I don’t believe I’m willing to Sacrifice My stability just to be with someone who can not fulfill my needs in a relationship.

She on the other hand does not want to break up with me. She’s said it multiple times that she doesn’t want to break up with me but just wants me to focus on myself and put the relationship 3rd..