posted November 09, 2019 11:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
The composite chart doesn't really belong in the conversation with someone you've just met. Look instead at the synastry which keeps your natal chart as a reference point for yourself.

If you're still reeling from the effects of a broken relationship you're not in the state of mind to understand this synastry or this man. Take a break and heal. Synastry can't help you while you're still on the rebound. Look at your own astrology and inform your own healing process.

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Oh and this too, very very true. If you need time to heal the right person will be there at the end of it. It is important not to bring baggage/feelings for an ex into a new relationship.

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posted November 10, 2019 03:06 PM            

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Originally posted by waxlobster:
[B]Don't over think it (or worry yourself - Moon in Virgo!!).

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Haha! But it's in my cosmic makeup to overthink and worry I can't help myself. But yes, you're right. I need to remember to be in the moment.

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Your Moons are conjunct and you have lots of reflective aspects. There is enough growth, interesting, connection and bonding for this to turn into a long-term fruitful relationship.

Key is to focus on your Moon conjunct Moon - so that you re-group when Saturn may cause you to push one another away. Talk about issues when Chiron rises his wounded head. Since Chiron rules Virgo, you will be able to use your Moon sign to open up about your vulnerabilities.

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Wonderful points Waxlobster I didn't know that Chiron ruled the sign of Virgo. With both of our Chirons in Mercury, does that reinforce that talking about our issues is healing? Together and to others? I feel that I spend a lot of time discussing deep emotional issues with friends - a lot of my friends and I are super reflective and enjoy these kinds of exchanges.