posted December 23, 2019 03:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
His Mars opp your ASC means it's conjunct your DSC so I'm not surprised that you're sexual attracted, haha. And you have Mars-Venus DW + Mars opp Pluto so sexual attraction is no lacking on both ends. However, his Mars is also opposite your Pluto so there will be power struggles which may affect the connection.

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Wow, I didn't know Mars conjunct DSC have that much effect.
His Sun falls in my 8th house and my Venus falls in his 5th house.

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Pluto conj ASC is a very intense connection and it's right up your alley with your Scorpio Pluto/ASC, and with your 8H Moon, I'm guessing you probably doesn't like anything light and superficial.

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Now Idk why I feel intimidated by him. I'm scared that he'll hurt me someday.
He can be kind of cold and distant.
Our last date was a mess.
Our conversations were awkward as always.
He was kinda critical about my choice of food, and I couldn't answer back.
He said I pretended to be tough while I didn't.
He was impatient when I ate slower than him and made him wait.
Maybe that's because transit Sun opposite Sun and Mars opposite Mars making him more impatient than usual?

There were lots of skinship that day (holding hands, rubbing on the back etc.).
But I wasn't happy.
He didn't like it whenever I jokingly poked his cheek.
He showed no feeling when receiving the very first Christmas gift from me.
His words and attitudes made me feel unloved.
Btw he has few Venus and Moon aspects in his natal chart, and Idk if this matters.

Now he's clearly expressing his urges to be intimate with me.
I'm still not sure he loves me or not, so I'll refuse him until I get my answer.
Maybe he's a bad choice.
Maybe I can't be happy with him although our synastry is good.
Maybe the Saturn binds are too much.

Btw transit Venus square my Sun now, so the love life isn't very good right?
I just want to feel better and have faith in this relationship.

posted January 05, 2020 11:34 PM            

He has Mars opposite Pluto quincunx Moon. This very likely makes him touchy and gives a quick temper. His Mars energy can come across intense and aggressive so even though his Mars conj your DSC which is a strong sexual attraction, you may not feel it entirely nice.

Your Mercuries are in incompatible signs and your Mercury square his Neptune/Uranus. That's why you feel a challenge in communication.

His criticism of your choice of food is probably your Venus squares. My mom and I have Venus squares and we've completely different tastes in terms of food, fashion, music, shows, etc. Well, anyway, you decide what you like to eat. Why do you have to answer to him? Venus is also the way we show love so in my mom's case she has a Virgo Venus which has a critical nature so my Gemini Venus always wonders why she can't just say something loving and nice. You should read up on his Venus & Moon signs to understand his love nature especially these planets show the type of woman he likes.