posted July 24, 2020 05:00 AM            

leave it up to them to reach out.

I would just suggest hiding or muting his social media which will help you detach.

sending love

posted July 24, 2020 09:23 AM            

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Originally posted by roseblue:
OP I just read through this and what a whirlwind! those Uranus connections you both have I know well as my last soulmate had similar connections....it feels so blinding. I also stopped talking to my ex in april as well, I think its best to just let them go and deal with their problems.

leave it up to them to reach out.

I would just suggest hiding or muting his social media which will help you detach.

sending love

x

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Absolutely! It's really nice to know that you can relate to what I've been going through! I swear my friends probably think I'm crazy haha, but it's also hard for them to understand the intensity of my situation without having experienced something similar themselves. It's especially difficult when your logical, rational mind is telling you that it's their own issues they need to work on and to let go but your heart clearly doesn't want to.

Sorry to hear that things ended between the two of you though... do you think there's any chance the two of you can reconcile or get back together in the future? Especially if it was a soulmate connection? Sending lots of love right back at you <3

posted July 30, 2020 09:33 PM            

I thought I was doing ok, but of course the feelings have hit me strong again today. It’s like they come and go in waves. And despite what I wrote previously about staying strong, I‘ve been thinking of reaching out on our mutual birthday...😭

I just keep thinking how maybe he’s scared to initiate, since he was the one who ghosted next last time. So maybe I should try to connect one final time? I think my compromise will be to say happy birthday and wish him well, but I won’t ask him to meet unless he asks or pushes for that.

posted July 31, 2020 02:25 AM            

Transits look favourable for a connection on the 4th cause transiting Sun will be conjunct to composite Sun/Moon, as transiting Mars will be trine to Comp. Mercury, transiting Jupiter trine to Juno, and transiting Venus/North Node conjunct Mars and opposite Uranus, so he might accept your birthday wishes, he might also be surprised and excited by your move at first... even so, transiting Ixion is conjunct South Node, so if you get to talk to him, the advice is to avoid any argument or past issues, otherwise it might turn out quite harsh.

Forgive me to say this though, transits seems to actually ask for a closure, since something looks unsolved, so I would go for it... but in case you do, sorry to say, dont expect too much... transiting Nodes are square to Comsposite Nodes and transiting South Node is especially on the Saturn/Neptune midpoint, along transiting Neptune square Comp. Saturn, so if there's a connection it looks potentially short lived and actually definitely looks like parting ways 😞
I always wish to be wrong when I say these things, so I just hope to hear you will give me good news instead ❤️

posted July 31, 2020 02:47 AM            

I’m glad to hear your honest thoughts. I’m really trying to not put too much pressure on this one message. You’re right that it’s best to keep things light and to not have any expectations, so I won’t get let down again.

Whatever happens will happen! If it’s meant to be, things will work out one way or another. And if not, it’s just not the right person for me after all

posted August 17, 2020 09:10 PM            

Just wanted to give you a quick update here. I did end up wishing him a happy birthday, and he responded favorably and wished me the same, however he made no move to continue the conversation past that single interaction, and I thought it would be better for me not to push anything.

It did seem to at least help clear the air a bit. Although I would still like to see him, I don't really have the urge to initiate contact anymore. I'll leave any further communication up to him, although I know he's been pretty busy with work lately, so maybe he doesn't even have the capacity to think about this right now.

You did mention around August 25th as a time for a potentially intense but short-lived connection - do you think that still applies? Or at the very least, do you think it's possible for us to leave the past in the past and have a fresh start? Even if it's later this year or sometime down the line? I really just can't help but shake the feeling that we'll somehow be in each other's lives, in some way or another, for a long time.

posted August 18, 2020 10:07 PM            

For example, you said "transiting Sun and Mercury will hit Composite Venus/DSC and square the IC/Mc axis between August 22-25, and this looks favourable for communication/reconnection" and also that "transiting Venus will be conjunct to your Composite Sun/Moon in half september"

Is either transit weighted more heavily? Or are they both equal in terms of effect? I guess what I'm trying to ask is, does it matter whether it's transiting sun/moon hitting the composite venus versus transiting venus hitting the composite sun/moon?

And in your opinion, what transits are best/most favorable for romance? I'm assuming some combo of sun/venus/moon/(jupiter)?

posted August 30, 2020 10:35 AM            

Even with the Uranus/South Node and Saturn/Pluto/Jupiter situation at the moment, do you think the upcoming full moon in Pisces would potentially be favorable for communication/reconnection? I know he’ll be busy with work likely starting from mid-September, so I have like a week and a half window to ask him one more (maybe last) time to meet and properly express my feelings. If he doesn’t want to meet or rejects me this time, then I feel like I can close this chapter and try to fully move on. But at least I won’t have any regrets for trying, especially when things still feel somewhat unfinished between us...