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posted July 03, 2020 10:53 PM            

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Lovely Saggy7! ❤️❤️❤️

Thanks for thinking about me! Others did help me and I am so thankful, Todd helped me so much, and Hikaru, athenaia, lunalscariot and others, and also reading charts here helps me study astrology and understand more and more, so it's all helpful :-)

Yes please keep updating, and I obviously wish also others can give their insight on your situation! Big hugs

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Hi lovely, good to hear from you!

Well, I think you should reply and ask for his TOB right away 😂

It seems that he reached out as transiting mercury just went square to composite Mars and trine to comp mercury, and approaching a square to composite Nodes, as transiting South Node is on the Uranus/Neptune midpoint, this looks like a long distance connection and since Moon is going through the stellium in the next days along mercury square the nodes, the connection might not be over...

The main concerning aspect I find in the Composite is the Saturn/Uranus midpoint square to Jupiter... this to me looks very unstable, even though if we had his TOB we might try to understand whether such instability is possible or impossible to overcome or if it's at least "acceptable"... another concerning aspect to me is that transiting south node is going towards Uranus and then hit the Saturn/Uranus midpoint square Jupiter, so this would suggest that whether you reconnect, you might face a strong instability of the relationship for quite a while, alternatively the relationship may be short lived... Transiting Neptune is currently square composite Chiron opposite Uranus, this might suggest a reality check or "be true to yourself but dont fool yourself" kind of message...

It's very hard for me to give advice cause I dont want to give you any illusion which might make your letting go harder at this point... if you feel to reconnect cause you fear you might miss a chance, I think you should do so only if you're able to avoid nurturing big expectations... Astrology aside, disappearing for so long and then showing up for giving a lame excuse is weird to me, difficult to rely on. Whatever you choose to do, please keep your self-respect ! ❤️

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I am so so happy to hear you say this! I think your words are a great lesson for self-respect ❤️❤️❤️

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Oh I wish to hear such wonderful news from you very soon 😍
Remember to keep an eye on your progressed Moon 😉
And it's so lovely for me as well to share all this with you whenever you like, such a sweetest and brilliant lady you are! Best wishes for you too! ❤️❤️❤️😘

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Oh sorry, I have just seen your EDIT with updates.... Oh my, you are STRONG ❤️ I do really wish you're over this, and that his message actually helped you definitely move on... but if you still have "those moments" about this guy and need support of any kind, please keep in touch, big big hugs ❤️❤️❤️

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posted July 31, 2020 08:35 PM            

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If you stayed without me for too long I would miss you 😍

Just check your progressed chart on astro.com setting a future start date and when the Prog. Moon will reach Prog. Venus and then Prog. Jupiter in your 4th house, those might be favourable periods for a relationship to get stable.

Go ahead with this new chart! Maybe better to start a new thread so that this one doesnt get confused? Just as you prefer!

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What a Taurus, mmh... one day you all will have to explain me how do you make it to attract all these Taurus guys looking like my impossible love, LOL
(he's also Taurus Sun and Gemini Venus, sigh)

Btw... in synastry a strong attraction along a push and pull game is clear... your Chiron on his Venus triggers his Venus/Uranus opposition at a very unconscious level, so I think he's extremely intrigued by you, also his Moon trine to your Jupiter and Saturn, apparently there's not only sparks but a comfortable feeling at first sight which might led to think of the possibility of establishing something.
He's quite a picky guy though, and somehow instable romantically cause of the Nodes square to the ASC/DSC axis and the Uranus/Venus opposition, so he really needs someone to match his expectations in order to commit. But with Jupiter square Mars and Jupiter square Saturn/Mercury, here's the push and pull, cause at communication level and some of your cultural/intellectual background seems to not completely match well and make things unstable.
In Composite, things might play out short lived cause Uranus is square to the ASC/DSC axis. Chiron opposite Mars on the IC/MC axis might again give a sense of strong appeal at intimate level, an unconscious draw from his part which might lead to establish a deep connection, especially with Saturn trine to North Node, but then the more you get closer, some friction might arise cause of Venus/Jupiter midpoint square to Neptune, which might signal again core cultural difference or infidelty, and with Mars/Uranus midpoint square to DSC this would signal that it all might turn out as a short affair. Pluto in 2nd house quincunx to Venus is also concerning cause it suggests mainly a sexually based relationship.
There are also some harmonic aspects, but on the long run I'm not sure this would play out stable on a seriously committment basis, cause of the Uranus square and Neptune square Venus.

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posted August 01, 2020 07:57 PM            

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Sorry, I dont mean to give you such hopelessness at all! His Venus on your 8th house is attached to Chiron, opposite Uranus, so this would mainly give intense sexual attraction and a lot of chemistry, actually, and in his 5th he has Uranus attached to your planets, so this may give a lot of flirtatious exchange, but... (forgive me please 🙏🙏🙏 ) your Saturn here is square his Jupiter 😢 ...and his Saturn is unaspected, even though yes, his 5th house is ruled by Pluto and your Mars/Moon/ASC is in Scorpio, so this is again a strong aspect of attraction and the idea that something can be established, but again his 7th house is ruled by Saturn, which is unaspected, yes your Venus is in Capricorn, but its quincunx to his Venus which is opposite to your Uranus 🙄 ...again big sparks but short lived with the Uranus/Venus opposition......

Well, my impossible love uses to say "nothing is impossible" (how ironic? makes me mad when he says so!), so if you really, really like this guy you would need to compromise a lot in order to suit his tastes and romantic "requirements", and have him committing, cause of the Saturn square Sun and Mars square to Sun/DSC midpoint, this looks like he would rule the partner. He's not completely unstable, but with Uranus/Venus (in Gemini!) he might like to play the field until he finds the "perfect" mate.

Big Thank you for your lovely wishes to me ❤️❤️❤️

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It doesnt look work related to me... it looks like something "unfamiliar", maybe in your views, tastes, habits, this is what his Jupiter square your planets in 2nd house would suggest, and Uranus in 2nd house square DSC, this looks you might not be completely his type (and he might not be your type), despite the chemistry, on the daily basis of a domestic/stable union.
Venus conjunct Jupiter is actually very nice, so there are some common cultural/intellectual basis (even though there's a different culural background) and you might enjoy each other company a lot, but then there's the opposition to the Moon and the square to Neptune which look as if it's difficult to really establish a deep emotional and exclusive relationship, this all mainly looks like having fun together.

but please please again, dont base everything on astrology though! I know you are hurted and I also wish you to not risk being hurted again and again... but not even hopeless. Just, I would say, take your time and get to know this person step by step and then you'll make your own conclusion. ❤️

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"Another question.. who would be doing more of the push and pull? So far I'll be honest, I think he is the more consistent one, but I do realize that could always change"

It's him, it's his mercury (Taurus!!!) in 10th house ! opposite your Mars/ASC... he likes to "test" you. He has a very strong idea of what he expects from a partner and, contrary to you, he's not going to change.....

Oh, the threads about my impossible love are many 😂 I am not sure you should get into that madness, LOL
Btw, this is the last one back in December... http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/009752.html

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Of course we are! 😍
I'm Capricorn Mercury, Moon Taurus, Aquarius Sun/Venus, Pisces ASC, and I madly love Sagittarius people!! (Jim Morrison one of my favourite ones, LOL)

For your friends, let me check their Composite, even though without TOBs is might be difficult to understand long term potential, but maybe not...

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Ahaha, in 3 minutes, I hope you didnt have an headache!
I wish I could tell you who he is but... I can't 😂 I can only say that he's the most handsome lovely british guy I have ever met 🥰 (so much that I cant forget !!!)

Oh my, your friends.... all right, now you will think that it's just me, but believe me, it's not intentional !!
It's weird cause they are very compatible as you can see from all those conjunctions and the nice Jupiter/Neptune-Venus/Pluto, they apparently look made for each other, they get along pretty well, have a lot in common, lot of chemistry and romantic expectations... Chiron is opposite Mars though, and Moon is quincunx to Mars, so this looks they might have a lot of intellectual compatibility, but Jupiter square to Saturn/Mercury midpoint suggests that there might be some underlying issue in the back, as if the more they get closer, the more they find out some divisive aspects that were hidden, and with time this aspect might give instability to the initial bond. This issue could play out more on the intimate and emotional level cause of Mars opposite Chiron and Moon quincunx Mars, so those divisive issues that might arise could bring emotional/intimate coldness.
The Jupiter square is a concern cause it's also to the Neptune/South Node midpoint (which is conjunct Saturn)... So this adds a divisive issue in the long run... but it depends also on where the axis fall (according to their TOB), if well aspected maybe they could overcome those issues.
If you find out their TOB, let me have also Juno in the chart...

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posted August 01, 2020 09:57 PM            

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I meant that I seem to always give bad news 😂😂😂

I agree, and it always depends on the real context and how those energies play out in reality... All those conjunctions look very nice, by the way... I was especially surprised to see the Moon all alone and quincunx to Mars in the lovely big picture... but then, when Jupiter is square Saturn, I always get concerned cause it's usually a big break-up dealer... of course it could also play out in ordinary disagreements which might be overcome and balanced by all the other aspects...

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