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Topic: Saturn Square Moon synastry- experiences?
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Mandy pie
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posted March 09, 2013 12:46 AM
  
I'm meeting a lot of new people lately. This one has me worried. My saturn squares his moon. My mars also opposes his moon. Ever since seeing this synastry I've been really self conscious around him, because I'm constantly afraid I must be making him feel bad emotionally somehow, what with his moon being so attacked by me. I told him that I would never mean to hurt his feelings and that he should let me know if I do, but he acted like I was being silly and mushy. Isn't this how saturn square moon plays out? Saturn ends up hurting poor little moon?His Saturn also conjuncts my moon and opposes my mars. Some nasty synastry between us for sure. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted March 09, 2013 06:56 AM
Saturn is binding.. very.
But oh, how painful.
You've got heaviness all over the place.
But it won't show at first.
You may spend months without feeling its effect, but the moment you try to get close to that person.. expect trouble.
If the aspects are tight, it's probably a karmic connection and chances are, you'll have to learn a lesson.It also depends on the condition of natal Saturns. If yours is well aspected, and well integrated, you'll be more "soft" and less restrictive. If however the other person isn't comfortable with Saturn energy and / or you aren't either, there may be underlying tension / frustration and hidden or vocalised resentments. But as I said, in the beginning you probably won't feel it much. It's when you get close to someone that the effect is the stronger because the Moon represents a deep part of us, that we don't readily show to others. With your Mars opposing his Moon, that's like a double dose. Obviously from these synastry aspects it looks like you're the one who's gonna cause him pain / trouble but it can go either way.
Oh but please just loosen up, all right?
It doesn't have to be catastrophic, but you'd better be prepared, just in case.
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Mandy pie
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posted March 09, 2013 09:15 PM
Yes, I think it's best to try to keep my distance.Trouble is that our Suns are Trined... My sun is also trine his moon and our moons are conjunct too... So there is an attraction- not a romantic one, but he easily pulls me in when he tries to get my attention at work. I personally do not think that the positive aspects I mentioned can handle all the heavy saturn/mars though, especially since they are very tight in aspect. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted March 10, 2013 06:45 AM
I can understand.
Maybe you can be friends but still keep him at a distance. But then again, it depends on how much you trust astrology. You can either let it control your decisions or do as you wish regardless of aspects.IP: Logged |
Orange
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posted March 10, 2013 08:07 AM
Your Saturn and Mars on his Moon tells me that he, as the Moon , will pis** you off oftenly by deniying or rejecting or dismissing your feelings ( or maybe you will interpret his actions that way) at which point your Saturn will respond as "well, I dont care about you, either" and close off, appear cold, because thats how Saturn reacts when it's hurt and dismissed, and this will activate your Mars as well, who will lash out at him out of anger and hurt. All this may not be apparant in the beginning but this is how this synastry combination in most casrs will interplay.IP: Logged |
Long - standing
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posted March 10, 2013 10:09 AM
I had Moon/Sun conj with his Moon,but his Moon is afflicted by Sat/Pluto conjunction... i loved him, but now after 7 years we meet nearly every day in the bus and can hardly say HELLO. I often was hurt by his rudeness and jealousy, so stopped all relations with him.IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
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posted January 19, 2014 08:17 PM
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Originally posted by Orange:
Your Saturn and Mars on his Moon tells me that he, as the Moon , will pis** you off oftenly by deniying or rejecting or dismissing your feelings ( or maybe you will interpret his actions that way) at which point your Saturn will respond as "well, I dont care about you, either" and close off, appear cold, because thats how Saturn reacts when it's hurt and dismissed, and this will activate your Mars as well, who will lash out at him out of anger and hurt. All this may not be apparant in the beginning but this is how this synastry combination in most casrs will interplay.
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Hikaru29
Knowflake Posts: 2776
From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 15, 2020 04:35 AM
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Originally posted by Orange:
...he, as the Moon , will pis** you off oftenly by deniying or rejecting or dismissing your feelings ( or maybe you will interpret his actions that way) at which point your Saturn will respond as "well, I dont care about you, either" and close off, appear cold, because thats how Saturn reacts when it's hurt and dismissed...
This is probably the most relatable Moon square Saturn interpretation by far. My Saturn square my guy's Moon and this is exactly how I feel as Saturn. I don't resonate with the traditional interpretation of this aspect where it says Saturn person is too serious/cold and finds the Moon person childish. Saturn person has a reason for being cold IME. IP: Logged |
efaki94
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Registered: Jun 2020
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posted September 15, 2020 07:11 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Orange:
Your Saturn and Mars on his Moon tells me that he, as the Moon , will pis** you off oftenly by deniying or rejecting or dismissing your feelings ( or maybe you will interpret his actions that way) at which point your Saturn will respond as "well, I dont care about you, either" and close off, appear cold, because thats how Saturn reacts when it's hurt and dismissed, and this will activate your Mars as well, who will lash out at him out of anger and hurt. All this may not be apparant in the beginning but this is how this synastry combination in most casrs will interplay.
Have the same feeling
With his saturn exactly
Contra parallel my moon..
I try to talk about things
And problems I think we have to solve
But he just want to take it fast
And be like nothing have happened
Aww that saturn
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efaki94
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posted September 15, 2020 07:13 PM
Could a parallel
In composite of moon chiron
Soften these synastry aspects?? IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee
Moderator Posts: 4528
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posted September 15, 2020 09:35 PM
Moving this to Interpersonal Astrology sub-forum.------------------
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Hikaru29
Knowflake Posts: 2776
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Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 16, 2020 02:15 AM
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Originally posted by efaki94:
Could a parallel
In composite of moon chiron
Soften these synastry aspects??
Composite aspects do not override synastry aspects. You will still feel your Saturn-Moon. I'm curious did he ever said that you deny/dismiss his feelings? I'm the Saturn person in my relationship and I feel that from Moon person. IP: Logged |
efaki94
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posted September 17, 2020 04:24 AM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Composite aspects do not override synastry aspects. You will still feel your Saturn-Moon. I'm curious did he ever said that you deny/dismiss his feelings? I'm the Saturn person in my relationship and I feel that from Moon person.
Well to be honest
Yes
he says that sometimes
I behave like
I'm the only one that has feelings
And the only sensitive person in the relationship. And it's true sometimes.
I'm waiting for him to talk to me
when we are after an argument and things like that.
I think there is some kind of parent child
Thing in this relationship and in my mind
he is more mature and responsible than me
so thats why I might dismiss his feelings
and waiting (unconsciously always) from him to be the less sensitive and the more mature one.
Sorry for my English
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Hikaru29
Knowflake Posts: 2776
From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 17, 2020 08:29 AM
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Originally posted by efaki94:
Well to be honest
Yes
he says that sometimes
I behave like
I'm the only one that has feelings
And the only sensitive person in the relationship. And it's true sometimes.
I'm waiting for him to talk to me
when we are after an argument and things like that.
I think there is some kind of parent child
Thing in this relationship and in my mind
he is more mature and responsible than me
so thats why I might dismiss his feelings
and waiting (unconsciously always) from him to be the less sensitive and the more mature one.
Sorry for my English
Thanks for explaining this. I do get what your guy is saying as I feel the same way as Saturn. In my case it caused me to shut down at times and become very cold and uncommunicative. He then say my behaviour is hurtful. I agree there's some kinda parent-child feeling. I naturally want to take care of him... IP: Logged |
efaki94
Knowflake Posts: 95
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posted September 17, 2020 09:27 AM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Thanks for explaining this. I do get what your guy is saying as I feel the same way as Saturn. In my case it caused me to shut down at times and become very cold and uncommunicative. He then say my behaviour is hurtful.I agree there's some kinda parent-child feeling. I naturally want to take care of him...
You r welcome.
I'm glad that there is someone out there in the same page. And glad to hear Saturn's side too
And that there is a reason for him to be cold
And distant and that he isn't just a insensitive person.
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Hikaru29
Knowflake Posts: 2776
From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 17, 2020 11:02 AM
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Originally posted by efaki94:
You r welcome.
I'm glad that there is someone out there in the same page. And glad to hear Saturn's side too
And that there is a reason for him to be cold
And distant and that he isn't just a insensitive person.
How is his natal Saturn aspected? If it has hard aspects then he can come across more cold and stern. My Saturn has mostly harmonious aspects (sextile Sun/Mercury, trine Mars) so I don't tend to be so hard with my guy. My walls come down easily.
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efaki94
Knowflake Posts: 95
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posted September 17, 2020 11:40 AM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
How is his natal Saturn aspected? If it has hard aspects then he can come across more cold and stern. My Saturn has mostly harmonious aspects (sextile Sun/Mercury, trine Mars) so I don't tend to be so hard with my guy. My walls come down easily.
aw thats right
well he has aqua saturn opposite chiron and sun
and inconjuct mercury..
but my natal saturn square my moon so i guess im familiar with that energy??!!
by the way my saturn semisextile his moon too
so does that count as DOUBLE WHAMMY?(if i said it right)??
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Librapurr
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posted September 17, 2020 12:15 PM
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Originally posted by Orange:
Your Saturn and Mars on his Moon tells me that he, as the Moon , will pis** you off oftenly by deniying or rejecting or dismissing your feelings ( or maybe you will interpret his actions that way) at which point your Saturn will respond as "well, I dont care about you, either" and close off, appear cold, because thats how Saturn reacts when it's hurt and dismissed, and this will activate your Mars as well, who will lash out at him out of anger and hurt. All this may not be apparant in the beginning but this is how this synastry combination in most casrs will interplay.
It’s so relatable description! I had conj. with moon and hard with mars. I’ve always thought why he brings on so much negative emotions. I started to see him as a coward. I had people did worse to me, and it still didn’t pi** me off like that. I think I taught him lessons also. Isn’t moon supposed to want to commit to Saturn to do something to soothe him? I’ve always felt the close I’d get the more hurt and feel of rejection it would cause. Never wanted to get closer, but leaving was very hard. Edit. Actually, it was kinda wide, 7 degrees. Maybe, I felt it so strong because Saturn is prominent in my chart.. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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From: Asia
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posted September 17, 2020 12:39 PM
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Originally posted by efaki94:
aw thats right
well he has aqua saturn opposite chiron and sun
and inconjuct mercury..
but my natal saturn square my moon so i guess im familiar with that energy??!!
by the way my saturn semisextile his moon too
so does that count as DOUBLE WHAMMY?(if i said it right)??
Yes, your natal Saturn square Moon should make you familiar with that coldness. I would consider that a DW although I'm not sure how a semi-sextile feels. IP: Logged |
efaki94
Knowflake Posts: 95
From: thessaloniki,greece
Registered: Jun 2020
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posted September 17, 2020 03:12 PM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Yes, your natal Saturn square Moon should make you familiar with that coldness.I would consider that a DW although I'm not sure how a semi-sextile feels.
Me neither
It feels like the contra parallel is more powerful since he act more like saturn.
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Hikaru29
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From: Asia
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posted September 18, 2020 06:18 AM
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Originally posted by efaki94:
Me neither
It feels like the contra parallel is more powerful since he act more like saturn.
I would think so. Semi-sextile is a minor aspect after all. IP: Logged |
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