posted November 21, 2020 06:56 PM            

Our goal is to find a chart that says that two people love one another and are willing to commit to each other at the end of the day. But transits and progressions can change all that and so does free will. It all depends on the circumstances of how both people actually feel in real life.

posted November 21, 2020 07:09 PM            

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posted November 24, 2020 11:41 AM            

In regards to the charts you sent me. I see a lot of Scorpio placements in the composite first. I see that this connection was very sexual and intense. Sexual compatiblity between you both feels very mutual and the sex is pretty good here. Composite 7th ruler mars in libra conjunct the ascendant suggest to me that you guys were very physical with one another and people saw this. I also see possible arguments to that could take place in the relationship or competitiveness between you two but it's not always the case. Usually I see this aspect as a very sexual/physical one but could lead to arguing or a strong level of agressiveness. Mars square neptune I have had this and I'm not a big fan of this when it comes to the composite.

This aspect manifested for me that there was infedility, cheating, or one of the people had a wondering eye for others. I also want to say that whenever this aspect popped out in other composites I've seen usually the sex felt very addictive or one of the people in the relationship or both were addicts. I want to say that there was a high level of co-dependency in one of the partners in this connection as a result of the mars in libra square neptune.

Like "I need you or I will die" kind of connection. That's mars square neptune especially since its the 7th ruler mars in libra and neptune is 6th ruler in this case. Plus you also have jupiter in pisces in the fifth house in this composite. I' am absolute positive that someone had serious co-dependency or addiction issues. If not then one of the people in this connection is an artist and used the other as there muse.

There is a certain amount of dillusion between these people.

Composite Sun conjunct Moon is beautiful and it does suggest that there is a certain level of uniqueness between you. However I'm not sure if this composite spells a healthy relationship to me just because I don't like that your composite ascendant is conjunct mars in libra square neptune. I've had this placement myself three times and have seen others with this placement and it always shows up as one of the people is toxic or dealt with bad unhealthy patterns in there lives and dumped this onto the relationship. There always this constant need for support or rescue from the other person. Its a highly co-dependent position. But that's just my experience with this composite placement.

Nonehteless I love the scoprio stellium you there and its trine jupiter which is beautiful it shows much harmony.

The synastry is not bad either I like his moon conjunct your moon/mars/pluto/ascendant. It shows a real bond and deep connection that could've been difficult to break. Your moon sextile his sun is great as well and super common to see between couples. Sun trine venus DW is great as well!! Venus sextile/trine saturn is extremely supportive I wouldn't be surprised if you two were together for some time. I honestly don't see a bad synastry but that's just my opinion.

posted November 24, 2020 05:31 PM            

So I read your story with this man wow I'm surprised to see that you two didn't have sex because you have strong sexual aspects like VENUS CONJUNCT PLUTO in COMP and MARS on the ASC square Neptune.

I'm sorry to hear what you went through I can resonate with your story very much because I have had various experiences like what you went through lol.

Yes, it's awful to have these kinds of dating experiences. Where you think the person will stick around but next thing you know they block you! or tell you it ITS OVER and they block you like that! I've had that happen to me and honestly, it has taught me so much about my poor decisions and the bad expectations I had for someone like this. I can understand with you.

I had this experience that you elaborated on, that happened to me back in 2018. It was awful, I went into a deep depression and I didn't want to go on a date with anyone for a year and a half, just this year after the pandemic happened I started dating again. I went through another bad break up similar to yours, YES I MADE ANOTHER BAD DECISION BUT I HAD SUCH STRONG CHEMISTRY WITH MY EX AND IT HURTS TO KNOW THAT HE WASNT WILLING TO PROVIDE CLARITY OR UNDERSTANDING FOR A DEEP CONCERN I HAD TOWARDS HIM, INSTEAD, HE JUST INTERPRETED MY CONCERNS AS A FORM OF "PETTY ARGUING" AND DUMPED/BLOCKED ME. It was awful. I was depressed this summer. But I'm over it and your right!

It's not worth sticking around not going on dates just cause some ******* broke your heart. I deserve to go out and have fun getting to know boys in the hopes that I will find a soul mate connection. Screw our ex's there not gonna do that to me again!

That's how I feel when it comes to these toxic like traumatic short-term relationships.

Hey! at least it didn't go on forever because we can utilize our time in the search for someone better. Instead of just waiting years later and I mean YEEEEEARS LATER to find out the one you married or moved in with was A WASTE!

This would kill me. So you should be happy you didn't end up with sucker for years.

I understand it's awful to be told by the person that swears they love you they want a family. I have had this happen to me many times.

Unfortunately, it's just a bunch of Neptunian idealistic illusions they have of us and the relationship. They can't picture the reality of someone. There used to just creating false visions of a person. It's super common for addicts to this even LOVE/SEX addicts.

I love how you said "this is my story about this guy, angel " lol! I feel you! It's normal for him to cross your mind still. He was a big impact and you felt it. My ex's still cross my mind too actually daily because I'm always ruminating in my head about the past. It's bad. I gotta stop with that. (MARS CON MERCURY SQUARE MY ASC OVER HERE).

Yeah, I think people in a relationship and this is normal to communicate our needs in the relationship. If the other person is taking it as an argument or there just not in the mood to listen to what you have to say or even give their side of how they feel about the situation. It's not worth being with that person. A relationship is about communicating and making effort to accommodate what needs to be resolved. Clarity is so important and if the other person doesn't care to find a solution and trust. There is no relationship. It's just using the other person and/or taking the other person for granted. I should know because I'm a libra rising with my 7th ruler MARS CONJUNCT MERCURY in Capricorn right on my IC. I love the commitment I do!!! and I know that nobody isn't perfect but we can always communicate and listen to each other's side of the story. my ex and your ex were just looking for someone easy and convenient for them! really!!

posted November 25, 2020 10:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Saggy7:
Hi todd, can you please tell me your thoughts on this Composite? Thank you so much
http://freeimage.host/i/3vgG5u

Also, if anyone else feels compelled to give their opinion, please do not hesitate to do so. Thanks

Ps. I don't have his TOB, so I put 12pm

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I don't know how helpful this chart may be for you because of the time, time does make quite a lot of difference especially with what I've found.

I've read this somewhere that sun in 12th house is a really major warning sign.

I have juno, venus and neptune in 1st house experience and paired with juno conjunct neptune it's intense. I didn't have juno conjunct neptune but I've analysed two composite charts where they had this specific aspects and there were two broken off engagements. False illusions of commitment and as neptune is in the 1st I would be very weary about that.

Uranus conjunct ascendant may indicate some sort of instability in the relationship that maybe you guys aren't acknowledging because it's in the 12th house. Idk how my interpretation of that is.

Jupiter in 5th house seems fruitful and the aspects depending on how you feel. It's biquintile Juno so maybe unexpected children that may put pressure on committing? That's the vibes I get. Or it could indicate many relations outside the union. I've also heard sun in 12th to promote deceit and cheating.

Related to this, my solar return for last year had jupiter in 5th. I was told it could mean children but instead it brought a lot of potential suitors especially those interested in religion and through religious means (Venus in 9th) and there was a square.

That's just initially what I've found. The sun conjunct mercury is quite common in composite especially with Age of Aquarius so I would say maybe you met online or you have a lot of contact online or texting etc.