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athenaia
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posted June 10, 2021 12:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like your energy Pale Blue Eyes, I saw your response in the Gemini Venus/Taurus Venus thread and you're a Taurus Sun (like me!) and you have one of my favorite Venus signs, so it makes sense why you have such a soothing vibe via your words

But yes Plutonian just post the composite/synastry between you and the Leo, it would be interesting. Hell maybe you guys are more suited for each other than the Sagittarius, we could map a gameplan out for you..

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posted June 10, 2021 12:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pale Blue Eyes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by athenaia:
I like your energy Pale Blue Eyes, I saw your response in the Gemini Venus/Taurus Venus thread and you're a Taurus Sun (like me!) and you have one of my favorite Venus signs, so it makes sense why you have such a soothing vibe via your words

But yes Plutonian just post the composite/synastry between you and the Leo, it would be interesting. Hell maybe you guys are more suited for each other than the Sagittarius, we could map a gameplan out for you..


Ah, that's so sweet! More often than not I get some variation of "eewww, hell no" when people find out my Venus sign, so that's really nice to read. You're very kind.

Anyway.

Plutonian, I'm curious to see your chart + Leo (or Sag, or both).

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posted June 10, 2021 12:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted June 10, 2021 12:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
I have not found what I am doing to be unprofessional, the unprofessional part is two people having the fun.

Lately, I have been concerned for the health of my fellow Leo and also the Sag even. They seem to match moods more often now.

Back to the topic though, the more I thought about it, the more I have a tough time believing these two are into each other.

People point to intense aspects yes, but they are all happening in non-romantic houses. I see the Mars-Venus playing out more in an argument and 3rd house matters as opposed to 5th and 8th house matters.

The 5th and 8th houses in this synastry seem relatively weak.


So, you are a Leo, too? I’m fascinated by your fascination with this. I went through an obsessive phase, with astrology, synastry, tarot. But that was with men I was attracted to.

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posted June 10, 2021 01:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jupiter in the composite 5th house, square the moon, and Uranus also in the 5th, trine the moon. Venus/Mercury sextile Moon. Mars trine Neptune, could be romantic. Moon trine Saturn. I don’t like Pluto in the 4th - otherwise, the composite looks good. Uranus square mars = hot and cold. I have the opposition with someone, in a composite. Neptune in the 6th = workplace romance?

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posted June 10, 2021 09:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutonianmenace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah this does seem like a very powerful relationship from the outset and it has been a great segway for me into synastry. I never even knew that much about synastry until I studied this unique chemistry. That being said, I think I overshared on this thread what is going on with them and clouded some judgments.

If I had not shared with you guys that they had met and had fun with each other, would you guys have still predicted and said that it was going to happen at some point or that the bond was strong?

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posted June 10, 2021 09:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pale Blue Eyes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, because they have a lot of emotional/intense/hot aspects both in synastry and composite.

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posted June 10, 2021 10:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I kinda had my doubts with the synastry (like Luna said it easily could have been synastry that irritated the both of them rather than induced hypersexual chemistry), but now that I've seen the composite I 100% think that them hooking up/falling for each other was inevitable.

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posted June 10, 2021 11:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
Yeah this does seem like a very powerful relationship from the outset and it has been a great segway for me into synastry. I never even knew that much about synastry until I studied this unique chemistry. That being said, I think I overshared on this thread what is going on with them and clouded some judgments.

If I had not shared with you guys that they had met and had fun with each other, would you guys have still predicted and said that it was going to happen at some point or that the bond was strong?


It’s just that your other threads make sense now.

The composite - yes, I would see a relationship happening, but I’m not sure how long for. I’m curious now. I wonder if they will get back together.

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posted June 17, 2021 09:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutonianmenace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, now things are really getting bad again. Not sure if it is because this is on the verge of ending but she is getting very adversarial towards him. I have heard from him how she is being snarky and he even showed me an email where he got her some good results but she criticized them and shot them down hard.

Could it be the Mars and Pluto connection?

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She's attracted to and intrigued by him (his Moon square her Sun) but her values don't allow it (her Saturn square his Jupiter). This makes her always resent him and be critical of whatever he does.


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posted June 21, 2021 03:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutonianmenace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by eloquent.__.sky:
She's attracted to and intrigued by him (his Moon square her Sun) but her values don't allow it (her Saturn square his Jupiter). This makes her always resent him and be critical of whatever he does.


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This is a very accurate breakdown. Work wise, she was always going at him and seems to find fault in all he does.

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posted June 23, 2021 09:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutonianmenace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
just realized that after I did the astro seek version of it, there is a saturn trine saturn

https://i.imgur.com/H6wmwVp.png

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posted June 26, 2021 03:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Did they get back together?

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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
This is a very accurate breakdown. Work wise, she was always going at him and seems to find fault in all he does.


Thank you for the feedback

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posted July 09, 2021 12:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutonianmenace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
After a lot of tough decisions and thinking about it, I decided to let the Leo go, he is no longer with us.

Just had a two hour long zoom call with her, it started off tame but she turned raging red towards me picking out everything I have done which is an HR violation and how I can easily lose my job as a manager for that. Would not shut up, kept talking for 10 minutes at times uninterrupted. The more the call went on, the angrier she got.

I mentioned that she informed me months ago that he was making her uncomfortable and that paid a role in it. She tells me I took it out of context and I hinted at him trying to make advances on her which was going to be an issue. She shouted and said "yeah, we ****** , so ******* what, that's our business and none of yours!", almost crying. I have never seen her as emotional as I have in this call, she would not let up and kept going at it.

Says to me in a passive aggressive and indirect way "you know, it does hurt when a younger guy comes along and has his fun, especially when you get into old age right?", then says "you really think firing him is going to stop whatever we had going on? Because that was none of your business in the first place!". Gets even more emotional, saying how he kept her days entertained and brags saying how one zoom call we had where I was speaking, she was in bed with him which is why their video was turned off. Dares me to try and get her fired.

Then talks about how members of my team are doing some inappropriate things and shouts at me some more, saying I should let them go too. Informs me it is best that I not communicate with her because of being too nosy into their relationship. She blocked me on all social media.....

She really did not like me firing him.

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posted July 09, 2021 08:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pale Blue Eyes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wait what

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posted July 09, 2021 08:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VeronicaNicole     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Pale Blue Eyes:
Wait what


My thoughts exactly!

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posted July 09, 2021 09:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutonianmenace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
the confusion or shock or what?

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posted July 09, 2021 10:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pale Blue Eyes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Did you really fire the Leo guy just because of his relationship with someone else? That's messed up.

It's very obvious you have a severe personal investment in this story and you're either in denial or just trying to rile people up in these forums.

If what you said above is true, I don't blame Sag woman for what she said to you. You seem jealous, envious and obsessed just going by the dozens of threads on their synastry aspects and your constant hate threads on Sag women 🤷🏻‍♀️

You want astrology to justify actions/feelings you can't comprehend, and you get upset when interpretations don't fit your personal agenda.

Like we've been saying for over a month here, maybe YOU should evaluate yourself and your feelings instead of trying to 'decipher' a couple that has nothing to do with you.

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posted July 09, 2021 10:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VeronicaNicole     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@plutonianmenace,

Sooo I am a bit confused with this whole story (I think we all are) let me see if I am following you here.

Just to clarify, I am in no way judging. I could care less who you fire/hire or w/e. I hardly even care what I do half the time. But lol, I have become rather interested in this story. Q & A time

When she passive aggressively made the comment about a younger guy having his fun..was she talking about you being played by this dude? It would make a world of sense why you have been so invested in this couple for months. Like other people have said on here, I kind of thought you were carrying a torch for this guy too. Either that or your job was unimaginably boring. :-P

It would also explain all those threads in the astro forum about sag woman being evil. (Eh...I'm personally about 50/50 myself) but in all seriousness..that's really the only logic I can see here 🤔

If this guy hurt you then it's just a whole new thing all together. We all deal with pain in our own way. Hell hath no fury...

If that is the case, then he made his own bed & gets 0 sympathy from me. I mean, I don't really anyway... I'm an evil sag lady after all mwahaha. But w/e it is, I'm just kind of curious, well very curious as to what the reasoning behind all of this.

Perhaps him being fired and her moving clear across the globe could be the universe balancing out some karma. He hurt someone, be it you or whoever & now it may be time to pay the piper? Just a thought. Whether or not it is justified is between you all and saturn.

I can totally understand it being damn near impossible to show or even admit to ourselves that we have vulnerable emotions & that is 100% okay. God do I ever understand that. But I have learned..only recently too, that it is necessary to move forward. If you can't be vulnerable to a bunch of people on the internet who have nothing to really gain or lose either way. Then who can you be vulnerable with? Not to sound cliche or campy but the truth will set you free.

All of this is just speculation of course just trying to rationalize this whole story. But imma throw my name on the list of people who would be interested in seeing the synastry & composite between you and the guy.

❤ the (kinda) evil Sagittarius lady 😇😈

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posted July 09, 2021 10:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutonianmenace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not happening, I think we can close the book on this. I have been reading about synastry non-stop for months and nothing really even said in the first place they were attracted to each other. No sexual house placements and outside of Mars-Venus and Mars-Pluto (which are insignificant on their own), nothing really stood out. Somehow some crazy romance happened between the two.

This thread is more or less done now. He is going to get a new job and she is going to be away from him. They are done, I am done with them, this whole thing is over.

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posted July 09, 2021 11:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VeronicaNicole     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't blame the sag for her outburst either. I don't blame anyone TBH.

But speaking entirely from a karmic POV, which is really the only POV that matters since it is not biased. The guy getting fired is about as much of the sag's business as their relationship was plutonians. Which is none.

Not saying she doesn't have the right to react to all of this as she feels necessary. That is her right to do so. She could very well have simply been a catalyst for the karma to play out. At the end of the day only God knows for certain, we can only speculate.

Either plutonian is a troll (if so then kudos, way to commit) or this is how she is able to cope with w/e this situation is & this is the outlet she has chosen. If that is the case then she needs love & understanding not judgement. But unless she is being real there is no real way to do that.

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posted July 09, 2021 11:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
Not happening, I think we can close the book on this. I have been reading about synastry non-stop for months and nothing really even said in the first place they were attracted to each other. No sexual house placements and outside of Mars-Venus and Mars-Pluto (which are insignificant on their own), nothing really stood out. Somehow some crazy romance happened between the two.

This thread is more or less done now. He is going to get a new job and she is going to be away from him. They are done, I am done with them, this whole thing is over.


They aren't necessarily done. They still know how to contact each other.

I'm not so invested in astrology now - not as much as I was, when I first found this place. I don't know if it means there is nothing to astrology, or if attraction and like/love, can easily transcend it.

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posted July 10, 2021 02:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Professionally speaking, you should only fire someone over work-related issues e.g. they’re consistently underperforming, have attitude problem etc, not over an office romance you disapprove of. Your personal investment in their romance and revenge is ludicrous. I believe there’s something you’re not letting on but whatever… It’s unfair of you to fire him but I also think it’s better that he doesn’t work with you either.

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