posted February 17, 2021 11:58 PM            

The Leo is my best employee and very hardworking, he is good at what he does and dedicated. The Sag is practically a veteran at the company and I have known her over the years as a good friend. Now usually the Leo is driven and jolly while the Sag is driven but a very gentle lady, like super bubbly and positive sounding.

Thankfully, neither of the two have met each other in real life but they bring out the most intense emotions in each other, namely the Leo in the Sag. Whenever I have come to her for reviews on him, she gives good reviews of his performance but then acts unprofessional and says profane things about him. She went on for 2 hours a month ago talking about how he is so mean and uncaring, I have never seen her get so worked up, not even over legitimately bad employees but something about him incites a lot of emotions from her.

With him, I have seen him worry to me about what she thinks and says. Says that she comes off as cold towards him but then does things like texting him on weekends about work and trying to contact him outside of work hours regularly.

They are producing GREAT results together but it seems like some intense emotions are at play here, what is going on?

posted February 18, 2021 03:39 AM            

I notice his Mars in her 12th house opposed to her Mars and Venus.

The Mars-Venus opposition makes me wonder if there is an element of attraction?

His Venus also square her Mars, and his Pluto conjunct her Mars.

posted February 18, 2021 08:12 PM            

Lilith is conjunct the node square Venus which is conjunct to psyche and mercury.

Saturn is conjunct to Eris and opposed
the psyche/sun/Venus stellium

The node and Lilith give a deep subconscious emotional connection as well as a strong mental and psychic connection. The Venus/sun/psyche stellium shows he makes her feel like she is on cloud 9.
With psyche opposed to eris and Saturn this infatuation is driving very carnal longing in her.the mercury/Pluto midpoint conjunct the sun shows these dynamics are subconscious and/or repressed and blocked.
With the moon square to sedna she is still manifesting the truth. With the Saturn/sedna midpoint and eris/sedna midpoint opposed to pluto he likely doesn't realize the depth of her feelings.with mars semi square to Venus,their emotional relationship is a bit scratchy.

With Juno biquintile to Jupiter and ixion they can bring the best of each other out professionally but especially with ixion present,this quintile could easily degenerate into mutual hostilities if the underlying emotion dynamics are not assuaged.
With the Saturn/moon midpoint conjunct to Chiron,they generate a very incisive,analytical and critical faculty.
But Chiron can be very destructive when either feel slighted.
He must respect her feelings.that is don't overtly reject her as to make her feel slighted or vindictivei think he could understand how a older woman might take a fancy to a young guy.but I am not sure she could on her own recognize the inappropriate nature of her feelings .
She on the other hand must be made to realize that this is a professionally relationship and not a romantic one.
.because the subconscious symbols are so much stronger around her,I would think it falls on you to figure how to broach the subject without upsetting or offending her.
You have already commented on how good their work is....this is the Juno/Jupiter biquintile at work,so they both must focus on the value of their professional collaboration and not let personal inclinations break this up.

posted February 18, 2021 10:25 PM            

One thing about the Leo, he is, well, the type to get around. I mean neither of them are bad looking people, for her age she is quite the stunner.

posted February 19, 2021 03:28 AM              

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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
Well. Things have cooled down between them a great deal but the intensity is there a good amount.

One thing about the Leo, he is, well, the type to get around. I mean neither of them are bad looking people, for her age she is quite the stunner.

Even then, she seems to have put a spell on him because he does seem to dedicate more time to her project and to her. They have not met in real life yet, what do you think happens if they do?

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With his Pluto conjunct her Mars, and her Pluto trine his Mars ... if they meet in real life, he might "have her over a barrel".

posted February 19, 2021 08:46 PM            

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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
Well. Things have cooled down between them a great deal but the intensity is there a good amount.

One thing about the Leo, he is, well, the type to get around. I mean neither of them are bad looking people, for her age she is quite the stunner.

Even then, she seems to have put a spell on him because he does seem to dedicate more time to her project and to her. They have not met in real life yet, what do you think happens if they do?

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posted February 19, 2021 11:18 PM            

Trying to make sense of things here but it seems like from what you guys are saying, he is the one trying to make moves on her, game her, and try to be with her while she is the one who is just there to do her job.

In that case, it is likely that he is making her uncomfortable with some maybe flirting online and she is the one who is just seriously trying to do well professionally.

posted February 20, 2021 02:53 AM              

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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
what does have her over a barrel mean exactly?

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His Mars and her Pluto are conjunct in their own sign of Pluto. ... So, there is considerable potential for this to become an intense sexual relationship, between two people communicating (3rd) in the workplace (6th).

And ... if it does, he will be the one with the power in the relationship ... because her Pluto is in co-operative Libra/5th house (of romance), and making a trine to his (play-the-field) Mars in superficial Gemini/10th house of reputation/status.

In the UK, when partnerA has Pluto power over partnerB, we refer to it as "A is able to have B over a barrel"* (both literally and metaphorically) if he chooses to do so.

So ... my advice to her would be to NOT get involved in a romantic relationship with him ... because it will undermine her authority in the workplace (with everyone, rather than only him).

Hence, if (as todd warns) you are contemplating being a matchmaker, be aware that a relationship with him will result in her ultimately being tested in "the Pluto fires of L".

posted February 21, 2021 06:04 AM              

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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
Easy there man, I am getting conflicting info on this thread so I am a bit confused. Thank you for those that are still engaging in the thread. It just seems like from the outset, there is a powerful exchange in this relationship.

Am I also right to fear that one might kill the other?

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A romantic relationship might "kill" the professional standing in the workplace of one or both of them. ... Neither will have the same level of respect from colleagues after becoming a couple/item than they had before doing so.

posted February 24, 2021 12:47 PM              

Venus Mars oppositions, on average, are one of the most intensely sexually charged combos around (2nd only to the more primal/purely rutting Moon Mars opposition--two lower center symbols). You're taking two energies/parts of the psyche that are already true opposites and which have a strong attraction for each other anyways, and then ALSO putting them in an opposition aspect, which really ups the ante.

But the problem with oppositions is that while the attraction can be very intense, there is often a lot of "push pull" that happens as well. It's a bit like being on a teeter totter wherein instead of a balanced middle, you get polarization and going to extremes. Ultimately, such a connection is trying to seek or facilitate balance, integration, and harmonious merging, but it can take a lot to get there. It takes mutual maturity and inner balance/centeredness to get there. If one, or both lack that, it can be very hard to make it work outside of the bedroom (for this is one of those "rip each other's clothes off" type connection).

posted February 26, 2021 12:55 AM            

How I heard is that a coworker who lives in the same city told me this in our meeting today, it ended with him giving her a piggyback ride but they seemed to walk home. I was told that even then, she seemed to be grinding on his back and had her arms around her neck.

posted February 26, 2021 03:49 PM            

Some even say that behind passionate hatred is a secret love and liking, or else it would just be disregard.

I notice women disregard and ignore men they are not into. Such men do not arouse any sort of emotions in them at all.

Then in synastry with trines and overrated aspects like Sun conjunct Moon, it is really just friends type of scenarios if anything.

Meanwhile I notice that with "incompatible" aspects, there are a lot of wild one night stands and passionate feelings that happen.

posted March 04, 2021 03:42 PM            

Come to find that a coworker who lives near the guy reported that she was making out with him and dressed in very skimpy outfit while doing so near his place, they went into the same room together.