posted April 29, 2021 10:14 PM            

I met this man a couple of months ago, we live in different cities. when we met we really got along, we ended up sleeping together and the morning after we had sex he attended a zoom funeral for his mother's husband who had just died. I ended up friend-zoning him after spending the three days together because I was moving away and was not in the right place emotionally.

zoom forward a month when im home for christmas, he invites me to hang out with friends, one of the friends is a girl who he has a fwb thing with. that night at his place, while the girl is in his bed sleeping we end up having sex in his hallway. during dirty talk he says he wants me to have his children which was super hot but unusual for the second time sleeping with someone, later he tells me this is not normally a kink of his. that night we really connect but i have to leave the city the next day.

he is out of the country for a few months but when he comes back he comes to stay at my place for a couple weeks. during this time things get so intense SO QUICKLY. like we are talking about marriage and children within TWO DAYS. for context im 22 and hes 28, neither of us are in a place where we actually want children (he is finishing his PHD and I'm still in my undergrad). the sex is incredible (we are both into bdsm), and we are super stupid and not using protection and during are nonstop dirty talking about getting pregnant. theres a preganacy scare and he basically says hes ready to support me if i do want to have the baby. thank god im not actually pregnant but the crazy part is that i kinda wanted to be when this all was happening.

during this time we spent together he was going crazy trying to figure out the person i looked like but didnt even know if they were real. my philosophy is that we were brothers in a past life (my moon in his 4th) and thats is where he is remembering me from

i cant shake the feeling that this person is the one (and I dont even believe in THE ONE!!) I was wondering if any of you could give me insight into whether this might actually be a long term person in my life or if all the Saturn and pluto aspects would make this relationship too heavy (or would me having pluto in my first and him a cap moon make this comfy?).

my saturn falls in his 12th and his pluto falls in my 12th (both of our suns are in the 12th natally)

his mars falls in my empty 8th house and is trine my sun, venus, jupiter, chiron and sextile my mars.

also I read somewhere that when someones pluto falls in your 12th house that often means there is a death around when you meet. this definitely applies hear but i was wondering if any of you know anything about this.

lastly, i know that saturn square mars is a difficult placement and often means a lack of sexual attraction after a while, but would this be overruled by all the intense pluto and mars aspects?

thanks guys, very new to this platform, pls forgive my stupid username aha

this is our synastry,
me on the inside:
https://imgur.com/a/xF57ut1
him on the inside:
https://imgur.com/a/HEeUf3E

composite:
https://imgur.com/a/J9z0H4v

this is his chart:
https://imgur.com/a/ar9VuNC

posted April 30, 2021 02:21 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Post the charts from Astro.com. That’s our preferred system around here, the one you used is very hard to read. It’s going to discourage others.
Also post a composite

Use imgur.com to upload after getting the synasty and composite from Astro.com and I’d be happy to take a look

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thank you so much!! <3 Imgur wasn't working so i hope the way i posted works

this is our synastry,
me on the inside:
https://ibb.co/54R45q2
him on the inside:
https://ibb.co/GnVWKzd

composite:
https://ibb.co/gyxxJJV

this is his chart:
https://ibb.co/4tD26Bh

posted April 30, 2021 02:24 PM            

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Originally posted by comdoc:
Overall synastry potential is 87% (8.7/10). No wonder you are so attracted. Please post a midpoint composite chart.

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posted April 30, 2021 02:26 PM            

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Originally posted by LeoSagRisingTaurusMoon:
I'm feeling just like you, minus the sex part since we're platonic for the moment. But we had the same conversations about children and the future within a few days of our first meeting, I started believing in THE ONE ... I think we're in a similar place girl.
We've got lots of Saturn contacts too.

Post the astro com charts, I'd be happy to help.
Comdoc: where can I calculate the compatibility percentage in synastry? Thanks

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posted May 03, 2021 09:52 AM            

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Originally posted by dragonfairy27:
ooh id love to see your charts! what kind of saturn contacts do you guys have? do you think there are specific ones that make us want children, or do all intense saturn contacts result in this ?

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