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Topic: Help with this relationship analysis
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Hikaru29
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posted May 15, 2021 04:14 AM
  
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Originally posted by Stoika7:
I think it does! and they actually also have Jupiter quincunx Saturn/Moon... who knows, maybe they have some inner emotional instability, while Moon/Saturn/North Node keeps them together? this is an extremely binding aspect. in their case, the Uranus square may point to the early marriage...
I think so too! I don’t know if they feel emotional instability but it’s not apparent and this just shows how strong their conjunction is. I noticed the long-term relationships around me usually have some really harsh aspects together with some really strong ones in their composite. Another aunt and her husband has a t-square along their ASC-DSC axis (Venus/Pluto/Uranus conjunct opposite Saturn/Chiron square Jupiter/Vesta). Neptune square Sun/Moon/Mercury...but they also have Juno/Lilith conjunct opposite Moon. They’re always together but he can be a bit controlling and my aunt will have jealousy bouts. IP: Logged |
Stoika7
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posted May 15, 2021 03:09 PM
The Venus/Pluto/Uranus conjunct opposite Saturn/Chiron square Jupiter/Vesta sounds quite a complex relationship, maybe they still went through a lot of working things out between them, differences and confrontations somehow kept them together and let them "grow" together. With Uranus and Jupiter involved I would have said they'd get divorced, lol
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Hikaru29
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posted May 16, 2021 06:07 AM
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Originally posted by Stoika7:
The Venus/Pluto/Uranus conjunct opposite Saturn/Chiron square Jupiter/Vesta sounds quite a complex relationship, maybe they still went through a lot of working things out between them, differences and confrontations somehow kept them together and let them "grow" together. With Uranus and Jupiter involved I would have said they'd get divorced, lol
Haha, my aunt said there have been times she wanted to walk out of the marriage. Something must be still holding them together though. They’ve been married for 28yrs. IP: Logged |
Stoika7
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posted May 16, 2021 05:59 PM
Sometimes, Pluto opposite Saturn, and here with Venus involved, can be binding because it's like an entrapment, forces you to accept the struggle and keeps you stuck in there... Venus here may make this bond even stronger, even if there may be issues which are actually never resolved but accepted cause one feels the committment and the responsibility to stay.IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted May 18, 2021 12:48 AM
Yes, in reality it does seem like an entrapment. Most of their fights are over his involvement/obligations with his messy family affairs. Out of frustration, my aunt wanted to leave the marriage a few times but her husband wouldn't let her go.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted May 24, 2021 01:50 PM
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Hikaru29
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From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted August 31, 2021 05:33 AM
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Originally posted by Stoika7:
...as for your friend... I obviously can't say he's leaving her 100%, but given the instability of the chart, and transiting south node approaching Uranus/Mercury opposite to the Venus/Chiron, there may be detachment. in the best scenario, since Uranus is opposite to the Jupiter/Chiron midpoint, with north node transiting towards Chiron/Venus, there may be awareness on the relationship issues and its instability... usually though, south node/uranus is a strong parting ways aspect especially if an opposition to venus is involved, so... I hope I'm wrong :-)
Hey Stoika! ❤️
I just wanna say that your prediction was right. The guy began distancing her since he started his new job and is now saying he wants to end things. But it’s kinda grey still as he’s still messaging her, says he will hang out with her whenever he’s free and promises to celebrate her upcoming birthday. I suspect it’s because he doesn’t wanna burn the bridge yet… but I don’t see them continuing for long judging from the way things are going now. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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From: Asia
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posted November 12, 2023 06:08 AM
Just wanna update on this relationship: They didn’t break up in 2021 and stayed together through 2022, but he started acting sneaky and lying since a few months ago. He also became touchy with me and the other gals. I tried to warn her of the red flags but she defended him saying that no one is perfect etc. Anyway she eventually caught him cheating (saw his messages and he admitted to it but still lied about how long it’s been going on). So now they’ve truly broken up.IP: Logged |
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