posted July 13, 2021 08:47 PM            

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Originally posted by anska5:
not necessarily, I have capricorn descendant and also venus in capricorn and 10th house overlays have never shown up in any of my romantic attractions.

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posted July 14, 2021 05:28 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I don’t mean only 10th house overlays.

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What do you mean then(?) because your qn clearly said “10th house overlays”, lol.

posted July 14, 2021 06:27 PM            

My dsc is in Cap conjunct Neptune, I got Sun trine Saturn and Mercury in 10th

posted July 14, 2021 07:47 PM            

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Originally posted by SimplyLuna:
99% of the time, the relationship makes aspect to my 7R. Less than half the time, it sits in 10th but they make aspects to my 7R.
But the ones with planets in my 10th, they do help me with my career but it isn't the same as wanting a relationship.

My dsc is in Cap conjunct Neptune, I got Sun trine Saturn and Mercury in 10th

Aspects to my 5R/7R or 5th/7th overlay are my go to. I like romance and soulmate feeling kind of relationship. I also like 8th and 12th too.

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posted July 15, 2021 03:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Karma30:
I heard that mars conj saturn is very bad in synastry, but i think that in our case it plays out well.

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posted July 15, 2021 07:58 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Do you have planets in your 5th, 7th, 8th or 12th houses?

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Moon and Pluto is in the 5th.

My 8th house is empty but it is the same ruler and co-ruler as my 7th. So I get both energy when there's strong aspect(s) to the ruler.

I don't have any 12th planets either, but it's the Neptune conjunct DSC requiring that need in partnership. I had deep bonds from 8th or/and 12th overlay(s). Those were the relationships that had strong emotional impact on me. They are the relationships I cherish most. I say 10th house overlay isn't mandatory for me.

posted July 15, 2021 09:26 PM            

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Originally posted by SimplyLuna:
Moon and Pluto is in the 5th.

My 8th house is empty but it is the same ruler and co-ruler as my 7th. So I get both energy when there's strong aspect(s) to the ruler.

I don't have any 12th planets either, but it's the Neptune conjunct DSC requiring that need in partnership. I had deep bonds from 8th or/and 12th overlay(s). Those were the relationships that had strong emotional impact on me. They are the relationships I cherish most. I say 10th house overlay isn't mandatory for me.

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posted July 21, 2021 08:43 AM            

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Originally posted by SimplyLuna:
@ChildofVenus,

I have the same rising as him I'm guessing hes a '87?
I don't think they necessarily need to fall into the 5th, as long it aspect his 5th house rulers (Venus, Plutos, Mars). Your Mars actually makes aspect to his MP: Sun/Venus. Your 5th ruler and his 5th co-ruler are squaring and the Pluto square Moon in his 8th - sounds there's that tension kind of attraction. I typically prefer the co-ruler too.

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posted July 21, 2021 08:54 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I know 10th house overlays aren’t really romantic. But would a Capricorn Descendant like a persons planets in their 10th house in synastry?

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Cap Desc here, and the only meaningful relationship I've had with 10H overlays was with an ex boyfriend who happened to be an abusive ******* . His Sun fell in my 10H, conjunct my Sun. It was the worst relationship I've ever had in my life.

posted July 22, 2021 08:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Pale Blue Eyes:
Cap Desc here, and the only meaningful relationship I've had with 10H overlays was with an ex boyfriend who happened to be an abusive ******* . His Sun fell in my 10H, conjunct my Sun. It was the worst relationship I've ever had in my life.

He still tries to talk to me to this day via social media (I broke up with him for good in 2012). I feel nothing but contempt for him.

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posted July 22, 2021 09:38 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:

I’ve read that when the persons Sun is in your 10th house it can indicate that the house person may lookup to the Sun person. This guys Sun falls in my 10th house I find that I like talking to him about my jobs and career. And he has inspired me in some ways in regards to my career. But we also have Venus in each other’s 10th house.

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Yeah, I don't know if it applies to my case. Even when we were together, I never really looked up to the guy and I've never felt inspired by him on this level. Our careers and values are vastly different.

I don't remember all the details of his chart (it's been years, I only remember how he affected my chart), but a ton of my planets fell into his 8 House. Like I said, even to this day he tries to keep in touch and he admitted I was "the one that got away". He's really stalkerish, and even created fake accounts on social media to talk to me (I have him blocked everywhere).

posted July 24, 2021 12:41 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yes, he was born in June of 1987 what does it mean that my Mars makes an aspect to his MP Sun/Venus? What about his 7th house though? His Saturn makes a sextile to my Moon (5 degrees) and a trine to my Mercury and an opposition to my Mars.

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Hey ChildofVenus

From what I can say from my experience, the energy is felt like a conjunction Mars to Venus/Sun. I'm not sure how strong the energy is but it's there. The Mars fuse the Sun/Venus together.

For example, in my chart with someone his Mars conjunct my Sun(10th)/Venus(11th) MP. I see his masculinity attractive and how he do things sync with what I value, appreciate and represent my being. The way I flirt back flows well in response to his action. Of course it's a bit more passive as he has Mars square Neptune. You may have to look into each other's chart to see what is modified. This happens in my 10th while in his 7th. He has helped me with my resume and offer to help with interview practice. Everything career related is initiated by him. Also buying us matching shirts (7th), to wear in public (10th) which we end up wearing to our friends gathering (11th) and we both happened to look up the same shirt at the same time. I'm starting to believe his 7th Mars helps making 10th somewhat romantic/relationship oriented. The way he approach with Mars feels like a partnership to me. And the other person with Mars/Venus in my 10th had it in his 5th. So it depends if you feel 12th is a romantic factor. I think having Neptune aspecting personal planets such as moon or Venus or angle in the natal can help. Just a guess.

I can't really give much feedback, I'm not comfortable as my knowledge isn't strong. I don't have much exposure of chart readings. I would say his Saturn aspects to your Moon feels mellow, then again look for other areas that can help strengthen the connections.

Maybe someone can chime in the Saturn conjunct Saturn/Uranus aspect. That looks like 7R conjunct 5R/7R

posted July 24, 2021 12:49 AM            

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posted July 24, 2021 08:38 AM            

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Originally posted by SimplyLuna:
Oh that's interesting. With 8th house overlay, the chemistry can be superficial. Kind of like with a friend who we have mutual Pluto aspects. Did you feel some of the closeness with 8th?

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I'm a very plutonic person (Scorpio Moon in the 4H conjunct Pluto in Scorpio, and the Moon is my Chart Ruler) so I was very attracted to him, but it was a purely physical/sexual attraction. I didn't like him as a person or admired him. On the contrary, we used to fight a lot because we had vastly different values, and I actively disliked some aspects of his personality, but stayed with him because I was young and immature, and I mistook the "intensity" and the sexual chemistry for love.

The relationship was unhealthy as hell and super messy. I'm not going to lie and say I was a saint, but he was the more obsessive one. Like I said, he used to stalk me (even got to the point where he hacked my email). And he had nothing in Scorpio or any plutonic natal aspects that I can think of, so I imagine that happened due to my planets falling into his 8H.