posted August 18, 2021 06:26 PM            

I kind of believed that they "meant something" but after two years of fixation on someone with crazy synchronicities which did not end up in any kind of a relationship I don't believe anymore in their "meaning".

By the way, with that person we had DW Asc-Vertex conjunction, partile conjunction of his Sun & Pluto and my Moon, tight conjunction of his Mars & my Pluto.

And yet nothing in the end!

Now I start getting synchronicities with my date, I wonder why.

posted August 19, 2021 11:00 AM            

I think yes, if you're looking for or just tapped into the synchronicities and this whole more spiritual/meaningful side of life then you will notice them more. And I think when we're hooked on one particular person, we'll see those synchronicities more with them while missing the synchronicities happening with someone else who doesn't grab our attention. In other words, it's law of attraction... you're noticing and getting what you're giving attention to.

That being said, I still think synchronicities are significant. But they may not be indicative of something TO COME but rather something that HAS BEEN or COULD be. But the synchronicities alone aren't an indication of whether or not that will happen. For me, they usually signify past life connections / soul family with whom I'm linked, but may or may not have something to do/be together this time around. Synchronicities are like little winks from the universe.

posted August 19, 2021 12:56 PM            

But, humans are also pretty good at pattern recognition. Ever notice that if someone who is close to you, or the like, gets a new car, you tend to start "seeing" that same model more for awhile? It's not necessarily that this model is objectively increasing (in most cases, unlikely), but just that you're now focused on/paying attention to it more; i.e. pattern recognition and conscious focus/direction.

When it comes to relationships, most relationships/interactions are often more karmic and/or lesson oriented than not in nature. And disappointment, waiting, emotional pain, etc can involve things like balancing karma or just general lessons or testing to try to help you grow more.

Humans rarely ever grow from easy and content conditions. Spiritual growth is much like muscle building. To grow a muscle, you literally have to tear the old tissue/muscle by exposing it to resistance/load/work. And you keep repeating that process (with breaks/rest in between ideally) to get noticeable results in said growth.

Well that is a great analogy for spiritual growth and the catalytic nature of suffering, enduring and going through hardship, etc.

Ever notice that some of the "oldest soul" vibed type people you have met, are often the the same ones who have been through so much in their lives, and sometimes like they have been to hell and back, sometimes repeatedly?

Anyways, sometimes guidance, your Soul, and/or your Expanded/"Higher" self wants you to get temporarily attached to a person for deeper reasons, and one of the ways in which it helps this process, is with synchronicity. It is one of the "hooks" besides the attraction and feelings.

Yes, it does feel a bit like honey trapping and/or gas lighting in a sense, but it is not motivated from negativity or cruelty, but to help you grow and/or pay attention more. Our Expanded self level ONLY cares about consciousness growth. That part of us deeply, deeply desires to become fully free and return, consciously, to its original state--consciously part of the Oneness and merged with our Source.

The former is our Home of homes, our Lover of lovers, our Mother of mothers, our Father of fathers all rolled into one, and it is the only consistent and deepest desire that many Expanded selves have. This is when we will feel completely fulfilled, content, and at peace. For we are a part of Source and Source is a part of us. And while we are diverting ourselves from same, there is a part of us that deeply misses/longs for It, and It for us.

posted August 19, 2021 04:47 PM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:

Anyways, sometimes guidance, your Soul, and/or your Expanded/"Higher" self wants you to get temporarily attached to a person for deeper reasons, and one of the ways in which it helps this process, is with synchronicity. It is one of the "hooks" besides the attraction and feelings.

Yes, it does feel a bit like honey trapping and/or gas lighting in a sense, but it is not motivated from negativity or cruelty, but to help you grow and/or pay attention more. Our Expanded self level ONLY cares about consciousness growth. That part of us deeply, deeply desires to become fully free and return, consciously, to its original state--consciously part of the Oneness and merged with our Source.

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Wow Galactic, never thought of that! That might be so true! It's true that for me these synchs matter and make me attach more, even though I keep telling myself that they mean nothing based on my previous obsession.

posted August 19, 2021 04:56 PM            

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Originally posted by sashavittoria:

That being said, I still think synchronicities are significant. But they may not be indicative of something TO COME but rather something that HAS BEEN or COULD be. But the synchronicities alone aren't an indication of whether or not that will happen. For me, they usually signify past life connections / soul family with whom I'm linked, but may or may not have something to do/be together this time around. Synchronicities are like little winks from the universe.

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sashavittoria, thank you! Interesting! So for you synchronicities should be linked to some kind of soulmate connection? Or is it just a cord which I create with my thoughts and then fall in my own trap?

posted August 19, 2021 08:47 PM            

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Originally posted by sashavittoria:
Galactic, what you say is so true. Thank you for sharing/reminding. I have only recently reached this understanding for the first time, partly through such a connection. It is reassuring to know it's not really about that other person... they are just the symbol, the hint, the signpost from Source.

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Re: the latter part of the above, it's kind of a simultaneous yes and no. Our connections with other Souls is very real and important. And if we have had many close and intense experiences with another Soul and/or their larger Expanded self (via our Expanded self's other Souls and theirs), then of course this has a powerful influence, especially on a feeling/emotional level. This is especially true of twin soul connections of two Expanded selves who used to be part of the same original, Spirit self (they are magnetically drawn to each other, like two poles of a magnet seeking union).

And there is nothing wrong or limiting with that. But it is helpful to put it all into a bigger picture perspective and to realize that that Divine longing, once remembered, can never be fully and truly satiated by any other or singular connection, but the full and conscious Oneness with the Whole and Source consciousness. Not even a twin soul union can fully satiate that Divine longing once remembered/resparked.

However, most in human form are not likely to remember this in this life. They are not near to the point of remembering and consciously realizing their oneness with Source and the Whole. Hence, they seek out and focus on various singular and/or more limited/narrowed relationships like lovers, friends, family, groups. Also nothing wrong with. Just because a child is a child, doesn't mean they should be judged or shamed for being a child still. They will eventually grow up.

Humanity in general, is filled more with children and teens, with a smattering of young adults, and the very rare mature adult. And for those who are not the very rare, mature adults, be grateful that you are not because it tends to be an extremely lonely path for them, because most others are not interested in getting and staying close to them. And so it is they, who in particular, most need to learn to satiate that longing and loneliness with conscious connection to the Divine from within.

(And being in this process can be quite a mighty pickle of a position to be in).

posted August 19, 2021 08:55 PM            

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Dear friends, thank you so much for an interesting discussion!

Wow Galactic, never thought of that! That might be so true! It's true that for me these synchs matter and make me attach more, even though I keep telling myself that they mean nothing based on my previous obsession.

Bu it's so unfair that to my date the synchs don't matter at all since he doesn't believe in their spiritual nature. So they don't make him attach more.

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There is a possibility that I'm wrong.

In any case, ultimately, you can only worry about yourself. Focusing on/worrying about what others are feeling, thinking, doing, etc over much is a surefire way to drive oneself insane or imbalanced.

posted August 19, 2021 10:28 PM            

Something you wrote sparked my curiosity though...

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
This is especially true of twin soul connections of two Expanded selves who used to be part of the same original, Spirit self (they are magnetically drawn to each other, like two poles of a magnet seeking union).

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posted August 19, 2021 11:38 PM            

As Souls, we were created by a larger, more original self we could call our "Expanded self". Expanded selves create individual, freewilled, unique extensions of itself (i.e. us Souls) on an as needed to basis. Most Souls in a given life, were created not long before their up and coming human life and haven't directly lived a human life yet. But they were created out of a collective pool of memories and energetics from other Souls and their lifetimes that are contained within and connected to that particular Expanded self. It's sort of like making a consciousness soup. Add a few of these ingredients (memories, feelings, patterns, etc) and a few of these in different proportions, and voila, you get a new, unique Soul that appears to have "past life" memories and feelings.

(Souls can and do directly reincarnate sometimes, but it is more rare than most think).

Anyways, the really crazy thing about all this, is that an Expanded self can and often does lately, have multiple Soul selves incarnated into the same general time/space cycle. It can be anywhere from 3 to 7 (or more?) depending.

posted August 20, 2021 04:58 AM            

I've read in another thread about SNode-MC conjunction, this is definitely very binding.

The synchronicity with the moth is crazy.

I got kind of inclined to think that if to leave aside the twin soul etc. categories, synchronicities could mean that when a connection between 2 people exists, they think about each other about the same time.

posted August 20, 2021 05:06 AM            

Well mine is definitely not a twin flame and I haven't met a twin flame thank God! After reading all the twin flame crazy stories I think this is not for my poor heart.

Is my date a soulmate? well he called me a soulmate once but then he also calls this way his close friend.

So maybe a catalyst? One thing I've read about catalysts is that usually a relationship doesn't last longer than 6 months.

posted August 21, 2021 03:27 PM            

Hmm, interesting, didn't know that about MC and south Node synastry.

Lol, yes, probably best to leave the twin soul stuff alone. It can be a slippery slope. Synchronicity can and does happen between any Souls with any kind of connection.

posted August 21, 2021 03:40 PM            

You asked about twin souls and I didn't really address that earlier.

posted August 22, 2021 12:43 AM            

Alma, how do you define a soul catalyst? I'm very intrigued - will research... A conjunction between angles and the nodal axis is indeed very powerful.

posted August 22, 2021 02:09 AM            

Best thing to do is to communicate with your own internal guidance in a more ideal conditions kind of way.

Our inner guidance knows us, our life plan, karmic history, needs, etc better than any other, even including our personality and conscious mind level.

I have developed and borrowed techniques from others, that are very helpful in this process if you would like to experiment with it sometime. I've received very specific information from guidance before that later was verified (as much as such stuff can be). For a brief example. I met the the foremost biographer of Edgar Cayce a few years back at the A.R.E.'s annual Members congress. When I met him, I felt we had a deeper past life type connection and I also felt that he had a past life connection to Edgar Cayce and the Soul group that incarnated with him. So during meditation, I asked guidance about it. Got a yes. Asked if I could be given a name. Was given a specific name.

Then later went up to him, and said, "I'm sure that you and your wife have probably had readings with professional intuitives..has this name ever come up for you before in a past life way?" He was visibly shocked, because indeed it had (and something he said he kept "very close to the chest"), and even more surprising to him, was he had just been thinking about that connection and wondering if it was going to come up at this convention. He said that he felt I had read his mind (I'm not sure about that part).

Anyways, these are the kinds of things we can do when we learn how to communicate better and more consciously with our guidance. Almost everyone can do it to some extent or degree.

posted August 22, 2021 11:50 AM            

Good professional intuitives often have experiences like that. I believe that the difference between talent and skill is only one of a matter of time and perspective. We seem to be born with talents, but often, they were skills we worked on/practiced in other lives or other experiences (in the nonphysical, on other worlds, etc). We humans have less true limitations than we tend to think about ourselves, and we are more powerful than we tend to think/live.

Ok, so I found it! Go to my last reply, addressed to SoulofaBird on this thread: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/243088.html

And to the above I would add, the stone Azurite can be very helpful in this whole psychic attunement to guidance process. Sometimes I will lay down and meditate with a piece over my Pineal gland area. The stone Azurite is one of the only stones that has a powerful and direct influence on activating the Pineal gland, if you ever want to read a nearly unbelievable account of Edgar Cayce's "missing time" with his friend, the brilliant T. Mitchel Hastings (who later, among other patents, developed radio and computer tech based on the vibration resonance/cycling of quartz/silica) on their trip down to the southwest to find ideal pieces of azurite, let me know, and I will find the article and share it.

But yes, one of the most powerful, and very psychic/intuitive facilitating stones. There is a convenient clue left in its very color. Azurite is most often a deep indigo blue color.

And then also to the above, I would add that eating a more healthy and ethical vegetarian, or healthy vegan, diet helps in this whole process of attuning to and communicating with guidance. If meat is needed for the body to keep healthier (sometimes in some cases it is), best to stick with the healthiest (and more sustainable) fish like sardines, wild Alaskan salmon and pollock. (Occasional fasting, if the body is up for it, also helps).

Course being a loving, and positive service oriented person helps in all the above as well, and really more than anything in some ways. Attunement to universal Love, helps to expand, clarify, sharpen, and balance perception simultaneously. Edgar Cayce's guidance once said there was no more psychic person that has lived than Yeshua of Nazareth. Reason being because of how completely attuned to pure, universal Love he was/is. He was as clear and pure a channel of same as was humanly possible. (He still had a little ego till his body was murdered and he came back and converted the old one into a Light form, the process of which created the Shroud of Turin image).