posted August 22, 2021 06:32 PM            

Your Saturn is not close enough to her NN to make a big impact, but the reverse is - she can give you the structure you need to pursue your purpose (and in fact Saturn is the ruler of your NN, so I'd pay attention) IF you are ready to be more practical, grounded, and goal-oriented in your romantic, fun, and creative life. Her NN in Aquarius, your composite Mars in 11th house - that's also a theme. You can help her be more social, as you say, being a guy of fun. Help her lighten up! She only has those outer generational planets in her 11th and they're opposite her Chiron in her 5th, so it's difficult for her to feel comfortable enough to express her unique individuality, especially in social and romantic settings. Your SN in your 11th indicates you have mastered this more social/humanitarian aspect of life that she struggles with. Also, your Saturn is exactly conjunct her Mars so she may have an easier time expressing some of the qualities you naturally restrict (read https://cafeastrology.com/articles/synmarssaturn.html). Lastly, she has all those planets in the 12th - her Venus and Mars there indicate her romantic/sexual nature is greatly repressed in the unconscious. But your NN falling in her 12th may help her open up, especially with your Piscean luminaries which obviously connect to her Sun/Mercury.

I think the relationship has potential and could create a lot of growth for both of you. Working on themes around the 5/11 axis will be important, and using intimacy to uncover that which has been repressed.

posted August 23, 2021 03:51 PM            

I'm not an expert in synastry or composite. But I do this to my own relationship: knowing and understand his personality first than questioning myself if I can accept/tolerate it or it may be too heavy for me to handle in a long run.

So, first I may look for each of your personality based on your birth date, this might be just a big picture, correct me if I'm wrong:

The male, you are somewhat an independent and like to do things by your own because you don't like troubling other people. Wise and far thinking type of a person. That's why you are surrounding by friends as you are also good at maintaining your social. You are easily angry if there are too much pressures from someone or something, you can't be told what to do or advised continually. You don't like showing off what you have to people.

The female, is she an introvert? Who often shy away from the crowd and prefer with her own self? It makes her strong, patient, and independent because people often misunderstand her for her introverted side. She is a highly jealous person because she has trouble with trust and ownership. She is easily angry if thing doesn't go as her plans. She is firm with her stance and a little bit full of herself. She is loyal and likes to help people she loves. Likes luxury and high quality things.

The differences, do you think you can compromise them?