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GalacticCoreExplosionV2
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posted August 26, 2021 01:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosionV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is an excellent article by one of the better online astrologers out there (imo, and unfortunately for us, no longer focused in this dimension), on the sensitivity and symbolism of Sun-Moon mid points in Synastry. Before I link it, it makes sense that this would be a highly sensitive area of a person's Natal and in synastric connections.

It deals with two such fundamental and yet very different parts of the self. These two are almost as different from each other as the left and right hemispheres of the brain are, and yet those hemispheres are strongly connected. And in astrology, though the Sun and Moon are very different, they are highly connected as well. For example, the Moon shines the reflected light of the Sun. They correspond to our respective parents, the more Yin/Female mother figure and the more Yang/Masculine father figure.

We could call it a very important point of integration and balance. But perhaps a constant balancing act taut with tension and prone to polarization until a more full integration?
http://theinnerwheel.com/2009/12/04/synastry-q-a-the-soli-lunar-midpoint/


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When someone else’s planet or light hits your Soli-Lunar midpoint, there is often an intense fascination, almost a compulsion. For a time, this person can appear to hold the key to everything. It makes sense, because for a time, that’s what they symbolize, a living embodiment of the path to your future. There is the further internal pressure to merge with this human being in whatever way possible, to take this energy within. It’s as if we are hypnotized and compelled by the evolutionary and developmental flow between the Moon and the Sun, which is now heightened by the contact.

Human consciousness often translates the need for transformation into sexual terms, and these points can be very ‘hot’ if there is an appropriate meeting of hearts and minds as well as a physical attraction. Notice I include hearts and minds. This point is not sexual in and of itself, but can be if the two people involved are able to affect one another on a deeper level. The ‘heat’ here comes from the need for psychological integration (which doesn’t sound very sexy but is tremendously intense, and at the root of all of our desire).



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posted August 26, 2021 05:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess I’m about the only few whose sun-moon midpoint doesn’t work all the time. My MP is at 29 Aquarius. In all my serious relationships, only my current guy has sun-moon MP contacts with me and they’re not the traditional ones i.e. to inner planets. His IC at 0 Pisces conjunct my MP and my Vertex at 2 Libra conjunct his MP.

I have a friend whose Sun conjunct my MP. He always flirt with me and I tried working up feelings for him for years but failed. 😅

My childhood friend has Venus conjunct my MP and my NN conjunct her MP. I’ve another close friend whose DSC conjunct my MP and my IC conjunct her MP. However, with my bestie and another childhood friend, we don’t have MP contacts.

With my mom, her DSC conjunct my MP. With my dad, none.

So for me sun-moon midpoints don’t often show up in my important relationships, and if we give more importance to inner planets-MP conjunction/opposition, it’s even more rare.

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posted August 26, 2021 09:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosionV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hikaru, I would say that S/M-MP to IC is quite significant. In many ways, the Angles are even more sensitive and more immediate feeling than the Planets in both Natals and synastry. After all, they are far, far faster moving. The Angles highlight Planetary energy like nothing else. They are the backbone and structure of western charts.

The problem with the Angles is one of potential accuracy or lack thereof. Even if one doesn't subscribe to the Edgar Cayce concept of the true birth chart is for the time of Soul-energetic connection to the body (which doesn't always happen at first breath), there is still the potential question of accuracy of recording. Unless one lives in a culture where astrology is widely believed and practiced, there just isn't much care or concern given to exact, super accurate birth time recording all the time (or even a lot of the time?), especially when nurses, doctors, etc are super busy.

But anyways, in the article, the author does mention that Angle contact to this point is very significant. I do think things probably are more intensely felt in Synastry when there is a person's Planet already near the S/M-MP area.

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posted August 27, 2021 12:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SimplyLuna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Midpoints <3

In my case, it's the other person attracted to my S/M mp by square or opposition. I think it's how my chart is laid out. With the opposition/conjunction, it makes a trine/sextile to my Mercury so their other planets needs to make more significant aspects to my chart to bring my attraction alive. I need more potency, I believe. Sometimes I don't even know why some attractions don't occur.

...I'm shocked right now. I just pulled out the people I had relationships with, all have one thing in common. I didn't realized it before. It's my Moon/Venus. I seem to like when a personal planet aspecting both my M/V whether it is the square (M/V are opposed in my chart so they square at MP) or trines/sextile.

They all have their personal planets (except one - Neptune) aspecting both my Moon/Venus - one of them aspect it by MP. A guy I had a mini crush did too. I wonder if it's a double dose if someone makes a MP to my M/V because it's also a making two squares. They're the most memorable people in my life. Today I learned: I like my feminine planets being touch.


And a friend I had the hardest time letting go, her Sun aspect my M/V too! Also another friend I care for, her Moon does too. Also a couple of celeb crushes too! I think I'm getting excited with this new discovery. lol ☺️ This tells me, M/V is more important to me than S/M.

My SO does aspect my S/M but they're not by MP and it's similar, I think. Along with his Mars/Pluto MP square my Moon (which is my Venus/Pluto MP too)

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posted August 27, 2021 01:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosionV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interesting stuff Simply Luna, thank you for sharing. I haven't looked at Venus-Moon yet, but tbh, I'm completely done with romantic relationships, so won't be.

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posted August 27, 2021 01:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@GCE,
I would think so, that angles-MP contacts are very much significant as well, and my current relationship feels so intense and impactful so it has to appear, right? Lol.

True that birth times are tricky, and all the more I have doubts on the angles-MP contacts with some people. What if our birth times are off? Which then means we have no MP contacts. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m just feeling a bit left out. Haha.

Sorry I’m being such a skeptic here, just wonder why it rarely shows up in my important relationships since it’s so important.

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posted August 27, 2021 03:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosionV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ultimately, dunno Hikaru, and best for self to figure out.

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posted August 28, 2021 02:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SimplyLuna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No worries Galactic, I'm just glad you brought up about S/M mp in general. I wish I can provide more about the MP - my studies are very very limited lol

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posted August 28, 2021 10:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for angryant2021     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does the aspect to the MP have to be a harsh one?

I've got my venus + sun sextile (< 1 deg) my partner's SM MP. My SM MP, however, is conjunct his Vx by 0,03 deg. I feel its true, the quote about affecting one another on a deeper level... but not sure if its just MP, as my NN conj his IC (<1 deg) and his NN conj my sun/venus/mars.

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posted August 28, 2021 02:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vansio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Sun is conjunct 0° his Su/Mo MP ... beats me

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posted August 29, 2021 01:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoWasHere     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Strangely my Sun-Moon midpoint is conjunct my own Midheaven. I have no idea wat that means. My ex has no exact contacts to my SM mp only wide squares from his Uranus and Venus opposition that falls on my ASC-DSC axis. I have no hard aspects to his SM mp. His falls in Taurus but not where I have any planets. It’s kind of funny because I have so many planets there. His SM mp only receives a sextile from my Mars.

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posted August 29, 2021 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosionV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@ P.W.H., maybe it means that focusing on your career and/or service to society at large, can be one of the more powerful and facilitating ways for you to integrate these two very different, but connected sides of self that relate to fundamental Yin-Yang, mother-father, etc?

People often misinterpret the MC as just career and often in an overly materialistic sense (like accumulating money, status, etc). However, the deeper meaning and level of the MC and 10th House, is that of service to the collective and public. Positive service in relation to others, in a more collective/universal way, is one of the ways that we tend to spiritually grow the most.

Hence, the MC can be incredibly significant and important of a point to those on a spiritual and conscious path. And often, in a general sense, we tend to move more towards MC/10th House energies (whether Planetary and/or Sign) as we live our life, mature, etc.

So for a simplified example, in my partners's chart, she has Venus in her 1st closest to her Asc, and Uranus in 10th close and closest to her MC. She started off very attuned to Venus, but as she lives her life and matures, shes becoming more attuned to Uranus. Part of her Soul growth plan. Venus is more personal, and Uranus is more collective/impersonal.

Part of how she is doing that, is through her job/career of teaching. This job/service has forced her to become more universal/impersonal in nature i.e. she has to look for and nurture the good/positive in many, many different kinds of students and personalities, and not just the ones she likes and most gravitates to on a personal level (Venus). Venus is personal love, and Uranus is the start of reaching towards a more universal /collective love, part of its association with co-ruling Aquarius and imo also Capricorn* (yes, I know, heresy..).


* To me, it's very interesting that Capricorn and Aquarius have a unique relationship to each other in the Zodiac. They are the only Sign pair in the whole zodiac that share a traditional ruler that are right next to each other. All the others, have multiple Signs in between them. Aries-Scorpio, Taurus-Libra, Gemini-Virgo, Sagittarius-Pisces.

Then you have the oddball Capricorn-Aquarius. And note, Sign pairs that share a traditional ruler make up the majority chunk of the entire zodiac. 10 Signs more specifically! Only Cancer and Leo are not included.

I believe this unique, odd ball relationship that Cap and Aqua have, indicates that they share both traditional and modern rulership, though in different proportion. Where Aquarius would be Uranus-Saturn, Capricorn would be Saturn-Uranus. After all, Capricorn is more earthly focused than Aquarius and Aquarius is more "heavenly" focused than Capricorn in an archetypal sense.

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posted August 30, 2021 02:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
Strangely my Sun-Moon midpoint is conjunct my own Midheaven.

Same as me!

As sun-moon midpoint represents inner bliss, I feel that it means mine is closely tied to my life goals/aspirations. Career is a big part of my life and sometimes it brings me more happiness than romance, but I’m not one who’s hungry in climbing the corporate ladder (MC in Pisces), but rather, it has to be fulfilling.

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posted August 30, 2021 10:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoWasHere     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
@ P.W.H., maybe it means that focusing on your career and/or service to society at large, can be one of the more powerful and facilitating ways for you to integrate these two very different, but connected sides of self that relate to fundamental Yin-Yang, mother-father, etc?

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Same as me!

As sun-moon midpoint represents inner bliss, I feel that it means mine is closely tied to my life goals/aspirations. Career is a big part of my life and sometimes it brings me more happiness than romance, but I’m not one who’s hungry in climbing the corporate ladder (MC in Pisces), but rather, it has to be fulfilling.


@GCE and @Hikaru,
thank you for your replies! They both make sense to me.

I do feel it is important to make some sort of contribution to society. It is one of the reasons why I chose to work for the government. With my education another option would be to work for a bank or insurance company, but it didn't have the same appeal to me. I guess I am like you in that way Hikaru. It's not just about making money but feeling good about the work you do.

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posted September 02, 2021 07:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sashavittoria     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for this, Galactic! I ran some informal analyses just using my own chart and those closest to me or who've had a major impact (romantic or best friends).

In natal synastry with people, I found my midpoint triggered by conjunctions or oppositions with romantic interests or best friends, but not with family.

Most interestingly, I calculated my progressed sun/moon midpoint for dates of significant romantic meetings/events and found that EVERY such event for the past ten years occurred when my progressed midpoint had just changed signs. In one case it was when it was about to change signs, and the other person's progressed midpoint had just changed signs; and the last conversation I had with them (which was significant) had an exact transit to both our progressed midpoints from Mercury. However, with the other dates I found no significant transits to my progressed midpoint.

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posted September 02, 2021 07:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AlmaRegulus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sashavittoria, interesting!

You don't have anything in the end/beginning of signs, in natal, progressed or draco?

I've bumped up an interesting old topic -
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/202511.html

can you take a look? what do you think?

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posted September 03, 2021 12:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosionV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Thank you for the feedback S.V. Interesting some of those patterns for sure. I erased it, but earlier I mentioned I have some very strong S/M-MP contacts with a person. Mine is near her Moon, and hers is near my Asc. The part of the article I quoted, very much applied to how I felt.

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posted September 05, 2021 04:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sashavittoria     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Alma, I have been poring over that thread for days now and still mind-boggled by it! Thank you! I plan to respond there after I've conducted some analyses. It really should be pinned to the top of the forum...

My moon is at 28* Aries in an out-of-sign conjunction to Venus just barely in Taurus, less than 1*. Does that mean my midpoint is constantly changing signs? I don't understand how that would impact the progressed midpoint.

Thank you Galactic, you have really illuminated a whole new world for me! Interesting about your friend too...

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posted September 05, 2021 05:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosionV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Np, glad it was helpful/illuminating. I probably should have added greater context about that connection, because it is more complex in reality.

Her Moon is not only near my S/M-MP, but also conjunct my Uranus--ruler of my Desc and Venus.

In turn, her S/M-MP is not only near my Asc, but also her Mars is very closely conjunct my Asc. Mars rules her Sun, 8th, and co rules her Moon and North Node.

The combo of those Natal Planets also being near the S/M-MP, along with their Planets, definitely intensifies and makes it more complex.

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posted September 06, 2021 11:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sashavittoria     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, ok. I am beginning to understand. I appreciate the depth and nuance you always add, Galactic. Even though it is sometimes over my head it is good for learning what to look for, and always serves to remind that nothing in astrology is ever so simple as an aspect or a placement…

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posted September 29, 2021 07:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StoneMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My S/M mp is activated only occasionally by a conjunction, but often by square. however, my Sun and Moon are opposite, so anything conjunct my Sun or Moon will automatically square my MP.

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