posted October 11, 2021 01:41 PM            

Venus will be retrograde in late Capricorn in December if I recall correctly. That affects your Sun, her Neptune, it will be sextile her Moon/Pluto conjunction, and trine her Chiron and your Saturn. It will be in the composite's 5th house. I kinda think that's when the seeds of reconciliation will be planted.

Plus Jupiter in Pisces next year will conjunct the composite DSC and go over the love stellium/Mars, I think that's when official, earth plane communication will be re-established.

Honestly I'm curious to see what happens when transit Uranus conjuncts the composite MC..

Her Venus/Saturn is trine her Moon/Pluto, AND her Venus/Saturn falls in your 8th, plus her Mars right on your ASC... I mean yeah, she must have a profound effect on you. It definitely might terrify her and her irreverent Aries Sun ways (I also had a situation like this very similar to yours with another Aries Sun, haunting haunting. You said your guides "gaslit" you about this connection once, that's exactly where I'm at with that person).

Do you have an asteroid in late Cancer maybe? Like Pallas Athena, Lilith, Juno, Priapus? It would form and complete a grand trine with her Moon/Pluto and her Venus/Saturn and could be a missing puzzle piece here.

The Venus/Mars opposite both ways might be what Luna refers to as a type of perpetual on/off period between you both. It's a chaser-runner dynamic at its core, but there is such enormous potential to melt into each other. Seems like that's the karma you guys have to sort through in this life? You both want to merge but one of you is deeply terrified of doing this (she has the potential to with that Moon/Pluto conjunction but it's up to her if she wants to develop that further within herself)

posted October 12, 2021 02:21 AM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
Possibly to the first part and to the last part.

It's just odd that normally I have a pretty easy time detaching from people, stuff, conditions, etc, and yet it was so difficult with her.

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I noticed that your Sagittarius Neptune forms a tight square to her Pisces Saturn. I’ve seen a lot of posts about hard Saturn Neptune contacts related to the “star crossed lovers” archetype. Lots of obstacles and yearning with difficulty of letting go. One of the partners usually pulls out of the connection due to fear.

posted October 13, 2021 06:31 AM            

she has Venus-Saturn, your Mars is also pretty close to Saturn, and these 2 pairs are opposite to each other

I didn't calculate exact degrees but roughly I believe her Venus/Saturn midpoint is opposite your Mars/Saturn midpoint, with her Chiron on your Mars/Saturn midpoint

That seems like a painful combination, plus your Neptune squares her pair and her Jupiter squares yours.

So it looks like a topic of masculinity/femininity blockages and attraction - well, you know better the astro symbolics.

As someone with Cap Venus I can totally imagine that her with Venus-Saturn is not going to get closer with someone with a partner in an open relationship. That is the major reason why she doesn't feel she needs to give back anything to you or that she owes you anything despite your efforts and emotional investment. In her mind your approach is fundamentally wrong, hence, with all your efforts you only compensate for this wrongness. Also, I don't think it feels happy for her to have your Saturn opposite her already Saturnian Venus.

This mirroring plus your Neptune makes you feel like twin souls but honestly it doesn't look like a twin synastry unless something is there with asteroids or with Draco.

The mirrored masculinity-femininity is also there in her Mars - your Venus opposition. Yes, I think it's there with this orb, plus it's a double-whammy. It's on your Asc - Dsc axis which makes you more hooked on it.

It's also important that your Chiron is on her South Node. It looks like a hurt in the past, therefore you are now in the healing role. But you expect healing from her as well on your Mars/Saturn integration.

posted October 17, 2021 02:53 PM            

I don't want to talk about her and the past anymore.

If I'm proven wrong in the future, then I'll change my mind, but meanwhile, there is no point in holding on to a ghost. I've shed enough tears over it over the last 2 + years.